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Tips For A Successful Foreplay

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By Sunshine JanePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Tips For A Successful Foreplay
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There is a myth that men are not crazy about foreplay and want to have sex immediately. This is false, even if the way men imagine their foreplay is a little different from that of women.

In men, it doesn't matter so much the atmosphere and the creation of the perfect moment, but certain methods will turn the foreplay into a passionate act. Thus, the man next to you may have a much more pleasant orgasm, which he will be grateful for, perhaps even through a performance in bed that is harder to forget.

Here are some tips for successful foreplay.

Showering before sex

A shower together before intercourse proved to be a good starting point for successful foreplay. This activity will excite you both.

You don't have to have sex in the shower if it's uncomfortable, you can just start playing with each other, touching each other, whispering nice things, and then going to the bedroom for sex. Also, the energy of a shower, as well as the freshness of your bodies will be extra reasons to want to devour yourself.

Let him admire you

Your naked body will invite him. You can push him on the bed and whisper that he won't touch you for a few minutes, during which time you will undress easily. Let him admire you and when you stop this game, he will devour you.

The idea of ​​foreplay is to anticipate sex, so you don't have to go straight to erogenous zones. Passionate kisses all over the body and touching the different areas that please you are the main objectives.

In general, it is good to try not to do just one thing during the foreplay. When you kiss, you can easily stimulate other areas.

 You don't have to go straight to orgasm

Very important, when you start playing with his penis, is not to rush and want to make him ejaculate as soon as possible.

Yes, there is a myth that for the first time it will end sooner and, for this reason, some couples prefer this to sex. This method can cause minor problems because after ejaculation, in some cases, it will take some time for it to become erect again.

Thus, you can go to the other side and not stimulate it continuously, taking short breaks will arouse it even harder. This is the start-stop method and it helps a lot to take your partner to the limit, stopping before he reaches orgasm. You can practice oral sex as a form of foreplay.

You can do something special

You can cook something for him and wait for him at home in a very pleasant atmosphere that will make him think about a sex game as soon as he enters the door.

Be careful not to do something very complicated, a dinner with many dishes or any other activity that is not to your taste. This will put a lot of pressure on sexual intercourse. Keep things simple and comfortable for both of you. For example, you can expect him to be dressed in provocative attire.

There are all kinds of erotic toys you can play together before intercourse. You can get your bodies dirty with a little whipped cream and then enjoy each other.

Don't just rely on slow motion

If you want to try something else or you want to give a harder note to the prelude from a certain point, start with sudden movements and a more alarming rhythm. Men like such approaches.

Take control and hit him on the bed or start by forcing him to undress. You can use animal starts, there must be these two. In addition, it is a good time to download.

Most of the time the slow movements do not express that "I want you now!" And for this reason, you can try a more rhythmic version of the prelude.

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