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The Quarantine and Us

Too many days stuck together. Time to play!

By Bre MeliPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
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When was the last time you and your mate have spent this much time together? When you first got together? Many, many years ago? Now you are stuck in a house 24/7, asked to stay at home. The stress is heavy on you both. The boredom, the constant one on one time you've always wished for and just plain never had the time for. Now that it is forced upon you, you see the flaws in one another, the things that drive you nuts. It is like you cannot find a place to find peace in your own home.

STOP! Stop looking at this in a negative way! This is time where you have no worries about a drop in by friends or family members. No one is going to knock at the door wanting to take the time the two of you have together. Kids, well, they can be entertained. There are many things in the home that can take their attention from you and onto something else. Now is the time to play! Learn new things about each other. Find out what that fantasy is and make it happen! Reignite that fire you thought had died out years ago. We all know it is still there or you wouldn't be. It has been dimmed by the day to day drudgeries' of what our lives are supposed to be. Get up, go to work, run errands, go home, tend to the house, make dinner, take care of the kids (if you have them), go to bed then wake up to do it all over again.

Now is the time to shake things up! Surprise him in the afternoon with a little teaser of what the night will bring by giving him a quick handy in the kitchen while making lunch. Make her a bubble bath, wash her body, dry her off and then ravish her. Do all of those foolish things that you thought the other would laugh at. Honestly, they probably won't. You are being so open and raw is sexy as hell! Showing your mate that you feel so free with them that you will try a striptease to get their temperature rising will do more than you really think it will. Who cares if you fall trying to spin around the bed post? Laugh together, crawl up between their legs and show them how absolutely fun they remember you to be. Tease and tempt each other. Bring that desire to such a height that when you finally get to the part of making love, sparks will ignite the room.

Make up a new game, maybe a scavenger hunt and the prize is you. A new dice game or board game that gets things moving in the right direction. Skip adding in knees, elbows and things that are so not erotic. Use the parts of each of you that make those tingles run down your spine. Truth or dare is fun when you drop the truth part and add in double dare instead. Make each task more intense than the last. Get wild! Keep remembering, you have nothing to lose and so very much to gain. When life gets back o normal and the everyday grind is back upon the household, keep a game night. One night a week that you isolate the two of you and play. Allow the fun you found in this time of crisis to evolve into the everyday world you know. Besides relieving some much needed stress, it will keep the connection between you flowing strong.

There is nothing to be fearful of. This person loves you surely much more than you actually know. Play with each other. Share your fantasies and then make them come to life. Why not? Now is the time to try new things, go beyond the normal sex life that you have become accustom to. Spice things up! Instead of fighting because he left the toilet seat up or she used your razor and didn't clean it out. That is all so trivial. Why do that when you can be bringing the passion and intensity back to your love life? Think about it, there is nothing to fear anymore. This person has seen you at your worst. There is nothing that can scare them away now....

Until then everything goes back to normal, stay safe, play hard and love one another.

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About the Creator

Bre Meli

I am a woman that loves life, Independence, music, writing, love and family. Searching for and talking about all the things that bring a person pleasure in life is something that gives me great satisfaction.

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