The 7 Myths of Orgasm!

The 7 myths of orgasm!

It has been a long time since science doubted the existence and complexity of orgasm. Today, the sexual satisfaction of the couple is an intense topic debated not only by specialists but also by your friends, the men you know, and especially by you!

This is something to appreciate, but sometimes too many ideas spoil: the level of satisfaction depends on each person, so preconceived ideas could do more harm than good!

The idea is this: it is quite possible to turn your attention to a sexual performance that is only a myth!

How are the myths? Find out below the 7 myths of orgasm!

1. All women want to reach the G-spot orgasm

FAKE. Many women indeed long for a G-spot orgasm, but it is a great myth that all women want such an orgasm.

For many women, it is already a real pleasure if their G-spot is stimulated "like a book", the orgasm can be vaginal or, as in most cases, clitoral.

Yes, surprise! Some women do not like to be stimulated by the G-spot because it can cause them pain or even the sensation of urinating. So, one more proof that general ideas rarely apply to sex!

2. Women need an experienced partner to reach orgasm

PARTIALLY TRUE. Many men are proud, in themselves or their circle of friends, of the ability to make their girlfriend orgasm at every sex. Is that so?

Is it just his skill in the middle? The answer: not really. Orgasm depends 70% on the woman and 30% on the man (his involvement, gestures, and movements).

It is selfish for a woman to completely blame a man if he does not reach orgasm, especially since the desire to achieve a vaginal orgasm is much harder to fulfill.

This is one of the reasons why we are endowed with a clitoris that, if well stimulated, definitely gives you an explosive orgasm.

Another reason a woman cannot reach orgasm is anxiety, fear, or sexual dysfunction.

3. Sex is not … sex, no orgasm

FAKE. Sex is beneficial and fun even if you don't always have an orgasm. If you give in to the sensations and your boyfriend is involved, the sexual experience can be even more interesting and satisfying than one according to the cliché of arousal-orgasm.

75% of women sometimes prefer very long foreplay or a sex game with little penetration, to the detriment of orgasm, because for them kissing, caressing and mutual acquaintance are just as important.

Surprise! In the case of men, this myth tends to be true. 90% of men feel dissatisfied if they have had sex without orgasm. They may have real problems: migraines, the tension in the genital area.

4. Vaginal orgasms are better than clitoral orgasms

PARTIALLY TRUE. This myth is somehow like a comparison between strawberries and apples.

Both are fruits, only apples are cheaper than strawberries and the more expensive it is, the harder it is to reach and therefore attractive!

The idea is this: both types of orgasm are very pleasant, only the clitoral orgasm is reached very often, it is "handy" (see apples), while vaginal orgasm is so desirable because it is very difficult to reach (see strawberries), so it can be considered better only because you can rarely experience it, which gives it a different perception.

Only 30% of women can reach vaginal orgasm.

5. Women cannot ejaculate

FAKE. Some women can ejaculate, some even stronger than men. It is a topic still debated by experts, but there is already a lot of evidence to support the existence and process of ejaculation in women.

Women ejaculate just like men, through the urethra, when they have an orgasm. The liquid released contains the same substances as in the case of men, with small differences (without sperm, for example).

The content ejaculated by women is produced by the Skene glands, also called the "woman's prostate", near the urethra. Experts believe that female ejaculation is caused by intense stimulation of the G-spot.

 6. The male orgasm is always accompanied by ejaculation

PARTIALLY TRUE. Being women, we have become accustomed to the end of the sex game once he has ejaculated, and implicitly, he has had an orgasm, because he enters the refractory period when the body asks him to rest not only physically but also sexually, at least for short time.

The truth is that there are ways in which your partner can delay ejaculation while having an orgasm. The safest way is to massage the prostate, an activity facilitated not only by your fingers but especially by a special sex toy that stimulates the prostate and anus.

A visit to a sex shop can do real wonders in a couple's life!

7. Men are disappointed if their partner does not reach orgasm

PARTIALLY TRUE. You already know: every sexual experience differs in every couple, depending on the pleasures and abilities of each.

Well, a lot of men are sexually satisfied as a couple even if their partner rarely reaches orgasm, while quite a few men are disappointed or even frustrated, taking their partner's lack of orgasm as something personal, which depends exclusively on them.

As I said above, orgasm is created in 2, although much of the availability for female orgasm belongs exclusively to women. However, masculine pride does not allow men to detach themselves from the idea that either their partner is not relaxed and satisfied with sex parties, or they are not good enough to give them top moments.

We have reached the end. I hope that now you are better informed and more confident about the preconceived ideas of the couple. Some hypotheses are just myths that have nothing to look for in your mind, while others contain a grain of truth.