If there's one thing that I know, it's kink. Kinky sex is wild, hot, and at times, a bit terrifying. There's also a type of kinky sex for just about every person and every couple out there.
Anal sex is now considered to be the final frontier for vanilla sex, and as such, it's one of those sex acts that most people would be open to trying—as long as the first forays seem pretty fun.
BDSM is an increasingly popular way to explore sex—and not just because of 50 Shades of Grey, either. The idea of tying up your partner is hot, and if you're into the art of Japanese shibari, it also can be a work of sexual art.
Call me cheesy or call me old school, but there are few sex toys that I enjoy as much as old-school sex massage candles. If you haven't heard about sex massage candles, let me explain what they are.
As everyone knows who has read my blogs, listened to my podcasts, or seen me talk at conferences about The Sopranos, etc., I've long admired Matthew Weiner's work on both The Sopranos and Mad Men, and indeed consider it to be at the very apex of television. I was thus more than pleased to get a slightly-advance copy of Weiner's first novel (published November 7), and read it in one-and-a-half sittings (a little in the wee hours of the morning, the rest just this afternoon). It's only 134 short pages, but it's so compelling I'm sure I would have read all of it in that time anyway, had it been twice as long.
Some couples honestly enjoy the same old routine in the bedroom, day after day and week after week. The monotony of doing the same things behind those closed doors all the time can tear some couples apart. It all really just depends on who the two of you are, as individuals and as a couple, and how adventurous your spirits are in and out of the bedroom.
When we think of how technology is changing our sex lives, we normally imagine an old white man poo-pooing on modern "hook-up culture." While it's true that social media has changed the way we have casual sex, technology has also taken sexy toys from drab to fab.
Our society has a very warped, twisted way of dealing with sex — and that's a shame. Many people end up being too scared to actually try anything sexual until far too late in life, and this is especially true for women.
Though the Playboy brand started with a magazine filed with sexy illustrations, it's now just as strongly associated with its clubs, clothing lines, and celebrity spokesmodels.
Masturbation is a very important time in a young woman's life. However, it is very easy to get overwhelmed by the experience, especially when one is ready to upgrade to sex toys from fingers. There are so many different types, sizes, speeds, it can be a scary process. Well, have no fear. I am here to provide advice on how to pick sex toys based on the ones I picked out for myself all those years ago.
When I was young I did not look in the mirror and say, "Oh yes! When I am an adult I will invent a controversial sex toy"! Of course, not. I was doing what every other girl did. Chase boys, play house with girls, beat up those I felt attracted to, made out with my boyfriends, and played spin the bottle. Hummmmm, bottle?