As the saying goes, "variety is the spice of life," whilst that may be absolutely accurate when I am cooking my famous spaghetti Bolognese that has sprinkles of USA flavours in the form of oregano spice, or a taste of southern Spain, with a generous dash of paprika powder, that is not always a good thing when it comes to sex. Is that the collective mental gasps of naysayers echoing in these internet streets? Before we agree to disagree, read on...

We all know someone who not only sexts regularly, but who talks about it like it’s the easiest, most effortless thing in the world. Not everyone’s a natural when it comes to red hot sexts that really get a person’s blood flowing though, so if you often find yourself struggling to find the right words and get lost in the moment, you’re definitely not alone.

When it comes to sex alone, sex toys most often are the only answer. Most single women these days own some sort of sex toys.

Fantasies can be a really sexy way to spice things up in your relationship if things are going a little sour. It’s a way for you to know what your partner wants, maybe something they wouldn’t say before until you bravely asked.

Here’s some simple advice to make your trip more enjoyable and comfortable.

If your reading this, you're probably doing so because you're looking for a place to register the current shame you're feeling if you've just fucked your ex, or at least thought about it.

Trying new things in this world can seem pretty intimidating when it comes down to all the people that might judge you. With sex, it's pretty different though, because unless you're into exhibition, the topic between you and your partner (or anyone for that matter) can be kept pretty private. We all know sex is something we thoroughly enjoy but a lot of people I've spoken to generally find anal super frightening. It's understandable to have pause when trying something new. Today, I'm going to be telling you the things you should definitely know before even attempting anal.

Sex during pregnancy can be a freeing experience for the couple involved. It may be the first time in years that you have not been concerned about either getting pregnant or not becoming pregnant!

Lubricants have become rather popular amongst adults who wish to have some excitement in their sexual activities. Although there are several sex toys available in the market, lubricants have gained immense popularity over the decade. When you talk about sexual toys, these are usually made from latex or rubber and jelly. However, toys made from these materials may often prove to be detrimental to the vagina in general.

There is a topic many people are uncomfortable talking about with their partners. While almost all of us have had sex, we get choked up when asked to start a conversation about what happens underneath the sheets. I was one of those people. For whatever reason, I felt weird discussing this with my partner. Therefore, I had many nights that ended in uncomfortable or painful positions, because I was too scared to say something.

I've been somewhat of a hypocrite in a few of my articles about sex. To go into more detail, I've spoken about how communication is critical in the bedroom without practicing what I preach. While I do talk with my boyfriend about certain things, I still become an awkward turtle when it comes to specific topics. For example, just the other day I wanted to let him know about a particular situation that had made me feel uncomfortable in the bedroom. I stumbled through my speech, became red in the face, and made the entire talk feel weird. By the end of it, he asked me a question that I've been thinking about for a while now: “Why does talking about sex make you so uncomfortable?”