Speed up sex: How to make him come faster

Nevertheless, it can also be quite exhausting when he doesn’t even get to the end. And sometimes we just have the need for a quick number. Before he then works himself to death on you for what feels like an eternity, you can rather become active yourself to help both of you to a crowning (and quick) conclusion.

There are several reasons why sex sometimes involuntarily degenerates into a marathon:

▶ There is a lack of organic arousal, so in plain language, not enough friction. This can be due to the position or even a too wet vagina. Even through condoms, the penis can not become sensitive enough.

▶ The excitement in the head is missing. If he is distracted, for example by stress at work or he is disturbed by something, then this is naturally also transferred to his erection.

▶ He has masturbated before or slept with another woman.

▶ He has drunk too much alcohol.

▶ He is too tired.

▶ He has potency problems, either due to illness, age, or anxiety.

Fortunately, in most cases, he just lacks the right trigger to get him going again. So before you start mentally twiddling your thumbs the next time, do both of you a favor and get into action yourself.

Here are a few suggestions to make him come faster:

▶ Make him really horny for you even before sex, for example with hot lingerie, extensive foreplay or in an unusual place. Everything that is not “usual”, that is, as always, is already very exciting at first.

▶ Take command by riding him and thus determine the pace, rhythm and duration. Or does he have a favorite position that makes him particularly hot? Then you can really step on the gas together in this position.

▶ If you get very wet, you can also dry yourself off in between times to increase the friction again. Contracting your vaginal muscles can also be very effective. Regular pelvic floor training — e.g. with love balls — helps to strengthen the vaginal muscles.

▶ It also experiences a lot of friction, especially during anal sex. So if you don’t have a problem with that or it turns you on yourself, then that’s a pretty safe way to make him come quickly.

▶ Give him a passionate blowjob. You can additionally massage his testicles, perineum and anus if he likes it.

▶ Whisper hot things in his ear, for example, how much you get turned on when he does xy with you. Or that you want to see him cum on you. For many men, it’s enough if you moan seductively and show him how much sex with him turns you on. Stay yourself, so that he does not have the feeling that you are playing something for him.

And the most important thing: Have fun yourself. Because the more excited and pleasurable you are, the more this is transferred to your partner. So if you do things that excite you and make you feel really good, then that automatically drives him along.

How to recognize and get rid of a fuckboy

What exactly is a "fuckboy"? A fuckboy is a man who is only interested in sex and not in you as a person. Of course, there is nothing wrong with enjoying your single life to the fullest, but you should be honest with your partner and make your intentions clear. This is exactly what a fuckboy does not do. He plays with you, deceives you and possibly makes you believe that you are the love of his life. Manipulation, dishonesty and sometimes childish behavior suggest that you have fallen for a fuckboy. If you have more serious intentions, you have come to the wrong person. If you don't run away now, he will only keep you warm for what you need (sex) and play with your heart. And probably with other women as well.