Sex Tips for Women: Hinting for Sex

Let's face it, sometimes men are simple creatures and enjoy simple requests. If anyone has ever seen the movie What Women Want, men would effectively have the code to our thoughts and opinions of what we want and how we want it.

Sometimes it is not always men who don't understand women, women on women certainly have an easier or more difficult time understanding each other. But the one thing you and a partner can agree on is the amount of time wanting or pushing for more intimate privacy between the two of you; that is where the bedroom conversation or lack of one can cause hardships in relationships.

Bedroom time for couples is the best thing for you. The more intimate and more engaging you are to each other, the more non-bedroom time you will enjoy either together or separate. Your bedroom is the one place both of you can cuddle and enjoy each other as whom you are. I may have given some tips for the men, but now it's time for the ladies.

Tip 1: If you want a kink, research with your partner.

Sometimes it is better to forgive than to forget. Enjoying all those lovely books on sex tips won't mean much unless there is some practice on your end. Getting comfortable with sex is hard to do for some women. That's why if you want a new date night, ask your partner and see if they are interested in checking out a local sex shop or look into some sex interests that either of you want to pursue. If the guy happens to be plain vanilla and he does enjoy tying you up from time to time, then let him do that as long as there are boundaries and safe measures lined up.

It is perfectly healthy to have kinks or desires, even those where you enjoy watching each other get off. Sometimes for guys, merely pleasing women more than themselves is enough to make sure that you get what you want. However, not all relationships are one-sided.

Tip 2: Trade-off on who starts foreplay or you go down on your partner.

There is nothing sexier for a partner to see their romantic lover or interest take a fancy to them. Especially if it means going below the belt, when you or your partner are not in the mood or need to get it going, or your partner doesn't have enough energy, then give him something to blow off the steam, literally. Spending time on getting your partner interested in sex or just helping him have a good night is enough to let them return the favor. Learning what turns your partner on or off is also a good indicator that if you want to have sex or want to make them feel good after a hard day, you know which buttons to push and which ones not to.

Talking and encouraging your partner to do better or tips on what helps make sex more enjoyable is a good thing to know. The next time your partner says they're tired or they have no energy for sex, don't push them to do it unless you want it. But try to treat them to something more enjoyable or feeling better after a stressful day in the adult world is more than enough.

If you are pregnant and are not cleared for sex from your doctor for a few months, give your partner some much-needed time to be pleased and enjoyed. Not only would it make you feel good, but it keeps the quality intimate time between the two of you in the bedroom at a peak level before you were pregnant. It's also good to know if you, as a woman, are not a fan of staying quiet during sex and want your partner to understand how it feels.

Tip 3: Foreplay is worth it!

Foreplay is the one thing all couples don't tend to do after the first year. They also stop doing it once the kids are in the picture or planning on having kids. Spending anywhere from ten to even fifteen minutes of foreplay can help couples bond more and stay together than just stopping sex cold turkey. Trust me, no one can give up sex, especially if a partner is hitting all the right buttons. Foreplay isn't just letting your partner know that you are interested in sex. You are telling them you want sex, and they will make sure you enjoy it too; it is also where the kinks come into play. Anything from sex toys to just your body tools, such as your hands and mouth, also works. If you have areas of interest or places you want your partner to spend more time on, that is where foreplay comes to the bedroom. Sometimes just cuddling after sex or even before can be enough. Usually, you and your partner do have to spend some time getting each other ready for the grand sexual finale that is the happy hormone: Oxytocin. Cuddling, old-fashioned foreplay with hands and mouths, sex toys, is getting ready for that one hormone that says everything is fantastic. Yes, it isn't fair that sometimes girls can get more than just one compared to a man, but sometimes they enjoy knowing that they have hit all the highs and lows their ladies need and that there will be plenty more where that came.

Ladies, when you man or your partner wants you to spend more time on them or that they are not interested that one night, turn off your hints and get them to have a good night or at least a happy one. Plus, it's okay to be vanilla, which means more cuddling time for you and your partner and more happy moments in the bedroom.