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Why Couples Should Be Watching It Together

By Friday Night ConfessionsPublished 5 years ago 3 min read
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Ah, to watch or not to watch. That is the question. My two cents, watch the damn thing! Porn doesn’t have to be a naughty four-letter word that’s scary! Believe it or not, watching porn as a couple together, could actually help your sex life! Yep! I said it!

Now I have to say, if your partner isn’t mature enough to watch porn, then don’t. This isn’t a time for comparisons from either person, or something to get jealous over. It’s meant to get you turned on, give you ideas on what you could try, and to spice things up! So if your partner gets all butt hurt from porn, I might forgo this activity. If not, press play and get it on!

Still not convinced? Here are a few reasons why watching porn can help your relationship!

1. It’s Something Fun To Do Together!

Let’s be honest here, would you rather your partner watch porn without you or with you? Because chances are, if you’re not watching it together, it’s getting watched solo! For me personally, I’d rather watch with my man! Getting involved in similar interests, hobbies, or things you like to watch on TV is good for a relationship! It can bring you closer together, either because you’re both giggling at what you’re watching, or you’re both getting turned on! Woohoo! It’s also a great way to find out what your partner likes or doesn’t like, and for you to figure that out too! It can give you ideas on what to try, positions, toys, you name it! It’ll open a whole new world of sexual exploration for you and your partner! So go ahead! Press play and take notes!

2. Have A Fantasy? There’s Probably A Porn About It!

What better way to see and explore sexual fantasy than porn! Watching your fantasies unfold in a porn is a great way to see if you really would like to try something, or if maybe it’s a little much. It also is a way to get to know your partner's fantasies too. By watching your fantasy IRL you can break the ice about what your fantasy might be, especially if it’s something you were embarrassed or shy about before. Not only does that help to ease any sexual tension, but who doesn’t want to get a little hot and bothered before you start to get busy!

3. Visual Foreplay? Yes Please!

Need to be quick or having a hard time getting turned on? Watching porn can actually help you speed up your foreplay and sexual arousal. Humans are visual creatures, and seeing sexual content gets our juices flowing! Not only that, it might give you ideas on what to try during sex! Imagine how hot your man is going to be if you start to play with his dick, then move on to a blow job, then finish by riding him to the Big O, all while getting worked up from what you’re watching? He’s going to cum so hard he won’t know what hit him! Worried he’s comparing you to the video vixen? Like I said in the beginning, if he’s not mature enough to not do that, time to move on. If he is mature enough, I can guarantee he’s not thinking of some hottie in a sex flick, he’s thinking of how good his dick feels in your mouth! So turn it on and get turned on, and watch that porn together! (If you can even make it to the end!)

That’s it for this round of Friday Night Confessions! Like what you read? Show me some love by leaving a tip so I can keep bringing you more sexy content!

Until next time!

Muah!

XOXO

—J

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Friday Night Confessions

If you’re looking for someone to give you the honest nitty gritty about sex, sex toys, romance, and relationships, you’ve come to the right place. Authentic, funny, and relatable. With a pinch of kink. That’s Friday Night Confessions.

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