My Favorite Sins

If you met me in real life, you wouldn’t believe what I’m about to tell you because I look like a nice Suburban soccer mom who spent many years struggling to raise my children. You would never believe that a mother in her 30s is actually an escort in Las Vegas or that I’m in an open relationship with a black man. My messy bun and most days without makeup, don’t give the impression that I am a woman who enjoys strip clubs, sex clubs, sunbathing nude, or having sex with other men in front of my partner or watching him have sex in front of me with other women. You wouldn’t believe someone who prefers flip flops over high heels has actually been with couples, men, women, all sizes, and nationalities. From looking at me, you just wouldn’t believe how much I like sex. What you would believe from the way that I look is that I like to go to church on Sunday—and sometimes I even go to two different churches.

There really isn’t an explanation, nor am I trying to justify who I am or what I do I just feel like my story is simply interesting and that perhaps you may find it fascinating, or maybe disgusting. I don’t know. Either way, I feel compelled to write about it as I have learned many things about myself as well as men and women and the fascinating sexual behaviors of human beings. Sex is my favorite sin.

If you continue to follow, I’ll share stories about my clients—with discretion, of course. I want to talk about what I do with clients and who they are and why they hire escorts. It’s rarely a one time thing and in my experience, I feel safe to say that most men have paid or are paying for sex on a regular basis. Surprisingly, it’s not the dirtbag husbands, it’s the really good ones. The guys who take care of their wives and their families. The guys who are religious and care about making a difference in the world. Oh if I could tell you exactly who I have met with you just wouldn’t believe me.

Although I was introduced to escorting when I was left to raise my small children without any financial assistance or physical presence from my ex-husband following our divorce, I have arrived at a place I never imagined. Today, not only do I work as an escort, but I have been in an open relationship for almost 8 years. We have a phenomenal relationship and I’ve never felt happier. But, in addition to our work (he shoots porn a few time a year), we also see other people individually, we couple swap, we host and attend swinger parties, and sometimes he watches me with another man. Other than that, we seem pretty normal and we do not share our sex life with our vanilla friends.

Someday I’ll finish that book I’m always talking about collaborating with one of my first clients. Someday. Just not today. It’s a new year and a remarkable one at that so I’ll start with the first month of this first year telling my stories about how I ended up surviving 2020 and my very first client of the New Year so that you can have a front row seat to my lifestyle. I want to tell you about my first private sex party in a hotel room. It was for fun, not pay—but it was amazing and I’m looking forward to doing it again—and of course sharing all the details with you.

I really wish our society was more open about sex—people are doing it and everyone has a kink. I think even monogamy can be a kink—it’s similar to “ruined orgasms” but it is a lifestyle some couples choose and there is nothing wrong with it if that’s your pleasure. There are a lot of things “wrong” with my lifestyle for many people. I don’t condone the cheating or hiding, but I’m not in control of everyone’s relationships—only my own. I hope you’ll enjoy reading more about My Favorite Sins.