If you want a long-lasting relationship, it's not "passion and desire"

The "relationship between men and women" we're talking about today refers to the "emotional" connection between lovers/spouses!

Emotion is an indispensable part of human society, and it can profoundly affect people's psychological state. Scientific research shows that the stability and longevity of a relationship between men and women depend not only on "passion and desire," but also on the basis of mutual respect, understanding, and maintaining a certain distance in emotions. The famous writer Maugham once said, "Love demands respect and understanding and a certain distance; only then can it be strong and last."

Mutual respect is the most important thing in a relationship between men and women. In such a relationship, mutual respect is crucial. Only when both sides understand and respect each other can they continue to move forward together. The lack of respect will make the relationship tense and ultimately difficult to maintain. Sometimes, two people may have different views and opinions, but they should learn to respect each other's views rather than stubbornly insisting on being right. Sometimes, both sides may doubt each other's views, but only when both sides can understand each other's thoughts can the relationship between two people go further. Mutual respect is not an easy thing to achieve, but it is the most important aspect of a relationship between men and women. Only when both sides cherish respect can the relationship between men and women continue to develop and deepen.

Furthermore, understanding each other is also crucial to building a long-lasting relationship between men and women. "Understanding each other's hearts" is the only way to have a long-lasting love. - Mark Twain.

To establish a long-lasting relationship between men and women, it is not only necessary to understand each other's hearts, but also to have patience, tolerance, and understanding. Once there is a disagreement, both sides should have patience to explore each other's thoughts instead of judging right or wrong, so that they can discover each other's needs and truly solve the problem. Sometimes, due to gender differences and social concepts, both sides may have different views on an issue. At this time, it is necessary to think objectively, respect each other's ideas, and try to eliminate discriminatory thoughts to bring both sides closer and make the relationship between men and women more stable. In addition, to establish a long-lasting relationship between men and women, it is also necessary to overcome social pressure, give up personal prejudices, put understanding first, pay more attention to every detail, invest one's love in the other person, and connect each other's hearts.

Finally, maintaining a certain distance is also one of the important factors in maintaining a long-lasting relationship between men and women. "The two closest people need to maintain the furthest distance" - Charles Sterling. Maintaining a certain distance is extremely important for maintaining a long-lasting relationship between men and women. Sometimes, both sides may have a lot of free time, at which point it is necessary to allow both sides to maintain a certain level of autonomy and not become too dependent on each other. The existence of distance can allow the relationship between both sides to continue without leading to an endless close proximity that ultimately leaves both sides feeling helpless. When there is a certain distance between two people, it can give both sides enough time to think, consider when the other person needs help, and when they can provide the necessary support, thus making the relationship between both sides deeper. Additionally, the existence of distance...