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How to Last Longer


By MADMAXPublished about a year ago 3 min read

Lasting longer in bed is a concern for many people, and it's a common issue that can affect the quality of your sex life. Whether it's due to performance anxiety, physical issues, or simply a lack of experience, there are ways to improve your sexual stamina and make the most of your time in the bedroom. Here are some tips on how to last longer in bed.

1. Focus on your breathing

One of the most effective ways to control your orgasm and last longer in bed is to focus on your breathing. When you start to feel yourself getting close to orgasm, take a deep breath and try to relax your body. Slow, deep breaths can help you stay calm and in control, and can also help you feel more connected to your partner.

2. Use a thicker condom

Wearing a thicker condom can help reduce the sensitivity of your penis, which can help you last longer in bed. There are special condoms available that are designed to help with this issue, so be sure to check out your options at your local drugstore or online.

3. Experiment with different positions

Certain positions can be more stimulating than others, so it's important to experiment with different positions to find what works best for you. You may find that certain positions make it easier to control your arousal and last longer in bed, so be sure to try out a variety of positions until you find what works best for you and your partner.

4. Take breaks

If you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, take a break and focus on your partner. This can help you reset and reduce your arousal level, giving you more control over your orgasm. You can also try changing positions or taking a break from penetration to give yourself a moment to regroup and get back in control.

5. Communicate with your partner

Communication is key in any sexual encounter, and it's important to talk to your partner about your concerns and what you need to feel comfortable and in control. Don't be afraid to speak up and ask for what you need, and encourage your partner to do the same. This can help you both feel more connected and in tune with each other's needs, and can also help you find new ways to last longer in bed.

6. Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness techniques can be helpful in reducing stress and anxiety, which can be a major factor in premature ejaculation. Try incorporating mindfulness practices like meditation or deep breathing into your daily routine to help reduce stress and improve your mental and emotional well-being.

7. Use a desensitizing spray or cream

There are over-the-counter sprays and creams that can help reduce the sensitivity of your penis and help you last longer in bed. These products work by numbing the nerves in your penis, making it less sensitive to stimulation. While these products can be effective, it's important to use them as directed and to talk to your doctor before trying them.

8. Practice kegel exercises

Kegel exercises are designed to strengthen the muscles that control urination and ejaculation. By strengthening these muscles, you can improve your control over your orgasm and last longer in bed. To do kegel exercises, simply squeeze the muscles you would use to stop the flow of urine, hold for a few seconds, then release. Repeat this exercise several times a day to see results.

In conclusion, there are many ways to improve your sexual stamina and last longer in bed. By focusing on your breathing, experimenting with different positions, taking breaks, communicating with your partner, practicing mindfulness, using desensitizing sprays or creams, and doing kegel exercises, you can improve your sexual performance and make the most of your time in the bedroom. Remember, the key to a great sex life is communication, trust, and a willingness to explore new techniques and experiences.

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