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How to Help Your Partner with Small Clitoris Orgasm

Does clitoris size matter?

By Jessey AnthonyPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Despite what we know about women’s anatomy, we are surprised that we do not know that there are different sizes of the clitoris and that they can affect our orgasm.

The clitoris actually has a pretty similar to a penis, with glans, a foreskin, also known as the clitoral hood, and a shaft.

The anatomy of the clitoris extends well beyond the visible part of the clitoral hood by reaching the labia and wrapping around the vagina.

The size of her clitoris doesn’t affect her ability to orgasm, but the size of her clitoral hood might.

If your clitoris is covered by a thicker hood, you may need to use more direct pressure to achieve orgasm.

You may also be able to gently pull the clitoral hood back to stimulate your clitoris more directly.

Why do women have different clits sizes?

We are people of different body types, so it is natural for our clitoris to differ in size and shape.

A woman’s clitoris can be longer or shorter, thinner or wider, hidden or obvious.

The tip of the clitoris, known as the glans, can be visible or hidden. During arousal, blood runs to the genitals, which actually causes the clitoris to swell.

Of course, there’s more to female orgasm than the clitoris or even the vagina.

Female pleasure is derived from a variety of pleasure points; groups of muscles and nerves in various erogenous zones such as the nipples, ears, and thighs.

The clitoris plays a different role than pleasure. During ovulation, women have a higher sex drive and a higher libido.

Also, the clitoris begins to increase in size, usually 1.8 times larger at the end of puberty.

But it can grow even larger after menopause, up to seven times larger than at birth.

These changes are relatively unnoticeable because the clitoris is so small.

How does the size of the clitoris affect orgasm?

About 73 percent of women say that clitoral stimulation enhances their orgasm or is completely necessary.

The size of a clitoris can vary from the smallest to the largest, which is completely normal.

Although it is not easy to tell the size of your own clitoris because it is mostly inside you, a study shows that women with a larger clitoris closer to the vagina experience quicker vaginal orgasm.

While those with a smaller clitoris that is located (about 5 cm) far from the vagina often have difficulty with orgasm.

In other words, the location could be the reason you always or never orgasm from a certain sexual position.

Many women do not experience orgasm, not because of the size of their clitoris, but because they cannot simply open up to the pleasure they are experiencing.

How to stimulate the clitoris to increase climax

Orgasm requires setting your mind free and allowing your body to experience the pleasure of orgasm.

Many women find it difficult to reach sexual climax with their partner, but they can easily reach orgasm on their own.

While some women have never had an orgasm from either during penetrative sex or oral sex.

Whatever the case may be, masturbation is a good idea to learn about your genital anatomy. It fills your body with endorphins and feel-good hormones, making it easier for you to reach orgasms.

Try to stay in the moment while you masturbate. When you focus your mind on the pleasure you are experiencing; the orgasm becomes stronger and faster.

You may find that circular pattern stimulation feels better than going up and down, or that you enjoy stimulation with the inner lips above the clitoris rather than direct clitoral stimulation.

Don’t rush things. Start off smooth and slow, then apply more pressure or speed if your body requires it.

Even a little teasing can increase pleasure and reduce hand cramps. Get started, pause for a few seconds, and then dive again. Repeat as many times as possible.

Don’t be afraid to explore different masturbation techniques to see what works and what doesn’t.

Your body is always worth getting to know, and the clitoris is no exception.

This post was featured on Medium

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Jessey Anthony

Jessey is a travel addict, freelance content writer and fitness coach. Check out more from me at: https://bit.ly/3j0Lm9Z
















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