How Many People Masturbate Thinking of You?

Odd but Interesting Question

Okay, yes, this is a rather strange question. However, chances are that you have wondered this at least once or twice in your life so far. Have you ever wondered; how many people have masturbated while thinking about you? Undoubtedly, people would assume that men are more likely to ask this question than women, but, I’m sure that plenty of women have wondered this as well. It’s human nature to be curious about not only who is attracted to you, but also, sadly, it is also human nature to wonder about the things that you’re not suppose to know about someone else. That is why gossip is such an abundant thing in the world.

It is okay to confess to yourself, that you have surely masturbated to thoughts and fantasies with someone else that is in your life. A hot friend, an attractive co-worker, and the list could go on and on. It’s not really a secret that people do this, that’s where the slang term, “spank bank” came from in the first place. The question here is, who has you in their spank bank? Ever wondered that? Have you ever been around a group of friends or co-workers and even just for a second, stopped and wondered, if any of them had rubbed one out with you in mind? If so, you’re not alone. I do want to make that clear. There is nothing wrong with you, it is, as mentioned before, human nature.

Broader Scope Question

Okay, forget specific people for a second. Have you ever wondered, out of all of the people in your life and that you come into contact with, the actual number of people that have or do masturbate with you in mind? This one is especially true if you are very active on social media sites. Obviously, the more visual the platform, the more likely the number is a little higher. If you are very active on an app such as, Instagram, then more than your friends are likely finding your photos. Of course, if you have it set to private then this may be less of a thing for you, but you never know.

Of all the people who used to know you, currently see you in a week, see you online, and so forth… chances are that there are probably more people than you realize that masturbate to the thought or even the visual of you. Depending on what type of person you are, chances are that this realization will either excite you, or creep you out a bit. Neither of these responses is a wrong one, but, likely you had one or the other. Everyone wants to feel attractive and wants to be wanted by others.

Unspoken Truth Concerning Relationships

There was no way to write about this question, without pointing out that despite what a lot of people in relationships would like to think, a lot of the times a person’s partner isn’t masturbating to thoughts of you. This is not to say that they never do, but a lot of times, they are fantasizing or picturing someone else at least in part for the self-love session. It doesn’t mean they want you any less or that they even want the other person more. It is just a matter of it being a fantasy versus reality. They can go to you and get sexy time, so they don’t need to fantasize about it. It’s perfectly normal and healthy.

Now, on the flip side of this fact, it also means that people in your life who are in very loving and committed relationships, may still be using you in some of their masturbation play times. Yep, that opens the possible numbers up a little bit more.

Closing Thoughts

Again, this is a strange question, but it is one that is fun to ask yourself and think about. If you haven’t already, play with the idea and allow yourself to wonder. Might not be a great idea to ask people if they ever think about you like that, unless you know you have that kind of relationship or bond with them. However; you can always question and wonder to yourself. Maybe one day you may learn of some that include you in self-love play time. This question may even play a role in your next fun time all alone. Have fun.