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Fake sugar babies

yes there are fakes

By Lena BaileyPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
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So we focus so much on fake sugar daddies that we forget that there's fake babies. I will say she but this will also apply to male sugar babies. I will also cover some myths you believe about sugar babies. So let's get started.

A lot of daddies believe that if a sugar babies don't put out they're fake. Sugar babies are not prostitutes so they are not required to sleep with you for money. They are not required to do anything they don't want to but sugar is not about sex or sex acts. If the baby says no to sex acts it's because they don't want to feel like she is being paid for that act. Technically you pay for their time so if they show up on time, text you back, answer your calls and are a delight they have done their job.

If she asks for money right away before you even met or agreed to anything then she is a fake. When it comes to money they should only accept cash and payment through apps like cashapp and paypal. Bank information should never be asked for or shared. She should never demand anything from you, she can politely ask if that's fine with you.

She may also take your money and then never give you what you are promised. That's why it is so difficult to know if the daddy should get what he wants first or should the baby because either one could get scammed. That's why building and having trust is so important. This is why I am an advocate for in person companion sugar arrangement. With in person you can get to know them.

She can also be fake if you can never get her on the phone or video chat. If she can only text then there is something fishy. This goes double if you want to meet and you can never get her on the phone. This is usually a sign of a catfisher.

She may also be fake when she only contacts you when there's a problem or she needs money. This should be like a relationship you pay for. You should get something out of this too. If you can go weeks without hearing from her even when you tried to reach out to her and then she needs money so she gets in touch then she's fake.

If she lies especially about her life situations then she's fake. She should be honest and open with you but this goes both ways. Also since we are on the topic of honesty we have to talk about other partners. Just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean she is fake. Some sugar daddy advice sites put an importance on monogamy and loyalty. Monogamy is only important if it is important to you, it's not a must to be a sugar baby.

Baby trapping and blackmailing is another way to tell that she is fake. It's a little obvious to say that but it's worth saying. Don't believe any baby when she says she can't have kids. It sounds paranoid but it's better to be safe then on the hook for a kid you may not want. I have heard of so many stories about sugar babies that have claimed or became pregnant to make sure she wouldn't be left by the daddy.

So I hope this helps you. I covered as much as I could. There is not much information out there about fake sugar babies. There's also not that many signs for fake babies unfortunately you will have to live and learn.

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Lena Bailey

Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime

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