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Erotic Massage - Techniques, Touches, Results!

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By Daisy ThunderstrikePublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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Erotic Massage - Techniques, Touches, Results!
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Unfortunately, society does not encourage communication and physical contact (without intimate contact) as a binder in a relationship.

In other countries, especially the Mediterranean (Italy, Spain, Greece), touch is very important.

This is the beauty of simple massage: it allows you to enjoy knowledge and closeness by touch, without involving sexual contact.

The sensory experience of touching can end with a sensual love match, but it is not necessarily mandatory. However, if you want to cross borders, try or rather, try an erotic massage!

Here are the most important erotic massage techniques along with erogenous zones, sensitive to love massage!

 Basic rules of erotic massage

Location: the best place for a massage, erotic or not, is the floor (on which you put a thick and soft blanket) and sometimes the bed (if it is straight and a little soft).

The bed is the most often chosen location for a massage, but if it is not straight and comfortable, it will put pressure on the neck, shoulders, and back of the person receiving the massage.

Clothes: Erotic massage should not involve clothes. During such a massage, it is best to both be undressed, no matter who offers the massage.

If your partner feels more comfortable, he can choose a pair of boxers, just like you, you can choose very provocative lingerie. However, don't forget that massage is much more … erotic if you feel the other person's skin touch.

Temperature: since the erotic massage takes place without clothes and the environment must be as pleasant as possible, it is good to ventilate the room beforehand, to make a little heat (if it is winter), and to maintain a temperature of 24–25 ° C. Be careful, do not let it get hotter because you will create a state of discomfort.

The decor and atmosphere: you can use the eternal scented candles and scented sticks, fluffy towels, diffused lights, and muted music, the same decor as for a sensual and successful love game.

Products used: find out that erotic massage is synonymous with light, fragrant massage oil with an aphrodisiac aroma. Use with confidence softback brushes, creams with a relaxing effect, and fragrant petals.

An important massage technique is to warm the oil in your hands before applying it or to keep the massage oil bottle in a container with warm water.

Lubricants: if the erotic massage will include the genital area, then you need a water-based lubricant.

Oil-based lubricants are not recommended in the genital area, because the oil is not easy to clean and is not as well assimilated by the sensitive genital area, so it can cause an infection by multiplying bacteria.

Essential rules before you start erotic massage!

Forget about everything outside the room and focus only on the two of you!

Relax and get in the atmosphere!

Remember that erotic massage refers not only to eroticism but also to a mutual acquaintance. Treat yourself to a full-body massage, not just certain areas!

The biggest secret of massage?

Never suddenly give up contact with your partner's skin. Even when you take oil in your palms, do it in such a way that you continue to touch it with a part of your body. Once you have lost contact with your skin, the person receiving the massage feels a sensation of coolness and disconnects from the specific relaxation of the massage.

Now that you know what attitude you need to have, what products to use and how to create the right decor and atmosphere, it's time to learn erotic massage techniques.

Erotic massage movements and techniques

Here is what the erotic massage of each area means, from top to bottom!

Head and face

The best way to start and end an erotic massage is by massaging the head and face. The massage of this area involves light and relaxing touches and brings you very close to your partner, who you can easily kiss on the forehead and neck.

For massaging the scalp, forehead, temples, and cheeks you do not need massage oil, but maybe at most, a cream with a light texture for the face.

Technique: First, run your fingers through his hair, then continue by gently massaging your scalp, just with your fingertips. In circular motions, you reach the temples which you massage only with your index and middle fingers.

Slowly lower your cheeks and jaw, repeating movements from top to bottom, as if raindrops were falling. Then, with your thumb and forefinger, massage your earlobes and ears. Return with circular motions around the eyes, eyebrows, and lips and offer a light kiss on the eyelids or lips.

Neck and shoulders

Here is a stressed and tense area, which fully deserves a massage! The shoulder and neck area must be among the first so that you can relax your partner's whole body.

If you do not follow this rule, your partner will not be able to fully enjoy the pleasure of erotic massage.

Technique: Put a little massage oil in the palm, rub the palms and then position the palms on either side of the spine, in the neck area, using only the two thumbs for the massage.

Use your fingertips, not your nails, which should still be cut medium or short. He descends along the spine, to the middle, with gentle movements, placing his thumbs on top of each other, as if competing.

Go back up, apply a little oil on your palms and place them on either side of your neck, moving them gently, circularly. Repeat the movement, continuing to the shoulders.

Back and buttocks

The lumbar area is very receptive to massage. Apply the massage oil and continue the movement along the spine, as I explained above as if the thumbs were competing in movements parallel to the buttocks.

Technique: when you reach the lumbar area, continue the massage with movements as if you were pinching it, but gently with all your fingers. Then slow down and return to light movements, in which you press with your whole palm while massaging.

You have also reached the buttocks area, which you have to massage with the inside of the arms, more precisely with the inside between the palm and the elbow, with which you lightly press on the buttocks, by movements from top to bottom.

When you're done, gently massage the triangle between the buttocks and the coccygeal bone. It is an area that attracts a lot of tension and requires a relaxing massage.

The key to any massage, especially on the back and buttocks, is to alternate energetic and light movements.

Kneel next to him and focus on your thighs and legs.

The legs

Technique: take a slightly larger amount of oil in the palms, hold it a little to warm up, and stretch it all over the leg, starting from the knees, up and down.

First massage the knee area around it with circular movements of the thumbs. Don't worry, because there are a lot of blood vessels in this area that is prone to breakage. In the thigh area, the message is simple and does not have to last very long unless you want to finish the massage earlier, with a love match.

The thighs are erogenous zones, sensitive to such touches. The legs should be massaged a little more vigorously, with movements similar to those in the area of ​​the spine (fingers and in this case, hands, follow in parallel movements).

The soles

Here is a very sensual part of the massage that men love! Foot massage is also called "soul massage".

If your partner is tickling his feet, it would be good to give up the foot massage, focusing only on the toes and the side immediately below, with circular and pressed movements.

Then, take each finger separately, imitating rolling and stretching movements.

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