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Erotic Dreams Stimulate Sexual Pleasure

by Conner Bowen 5 months ago in sexual wellness
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Do you have such dreams?

Erotic Dreams Stimulate Sexual Pleasure
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We must say without hesitation that nothing is more natural than the appearance of sexual fantasies. Rather than blame yourself, you would develop them to rekindle the fire of early love, to increase the couple's libido. Ghost is far from a shameful disease, it is a natural phenomenon.

"Everyone has fantasies," says sexologist Maria Elena Colson. "It's more of a sign of sexual health!" In general, those who claim to have no fantasies suffer from educational or emotional blockages that prevent them from recognizing them.

You don't have to blame yourself if you imagine yourself in arms other than your partner's, "Colson concludes. These erotic dreams and other "decorate" scenarios are part of our secret self. According to psychologists, they have their roots in childhood, so we can "shake off" any responsibilities.

What are ghosts?

Ghosts are defining elements of our personality such as imagination and dreams. In everyday life, we ​​use them frequently to provoke sexual arousal. Few people know that women are very cerebral when it comes to sex. Ghosts help them overcome the erotic "shortcomings" of the realm of reality.

When you make love with your partner, if you let your mind "invaded" by another familiar image, you only stimulate the faster appearance of a well-defined orgasm. As the years go by, most couples lose their sexuality. "We make love as usual," some would say, but without looking for new ways to feel that "we don't know what" that takes your breath away.

Everyday problems have gained ground in the face of sexual desire. The game of ghosts can awaken in each of the partner's unsuspected desires, consolidating the existence of the couple.

Each with his dreams

First of all, we have to communicate. Not in two hairs, but in an intimate and childish game whispered in my ear: "tell me what you dream and I will do what you want". Why not reveal some of your most intimate thoughts to your partner?

Then you can approach common scenarios, starting from these desires so tenderly confessed. The result will not belong in coming: instead of always watching the same movie at the cinema, you will become in full complicity the screenwriters of your love and sex story. The effects are beneficial. Sexologists even offer "phantom therapy" sessions in their offices.

As the name suggests, this technique involves developing fantasies to solve problems related to lack of sexual appetite, whether it is a patient or a couple of therapy. Will your husband's fantasies leave you cold? Wrong.

Remember it's just imagination. Let's say your partner tells you that he dreams of making love to your daughter's teacher or that he dreams of making love to you or your best friend. There is nothing "perverse" in these confessions.

The "triangle" (a man with two women, rarely the other way around) is at the top of male fantasy prejudices. Nothing is more original and bold in reality.

Feminine and masculine

The partner "cheats" us quite a bit, because he usually fantasizes about our image. They turn us into vamps, equipped with red or black garter belts, and imagine having a relationship with one of our girlfriends who steps on our doorstep.

Men in this game give themselves dominant roles, hence the strong desire for sodomization, for example. As for us, their girlfriends, we are much more sadomasochistic and more daring with more "virtual" partners: a wild sexual act, group sex, etc. Also, women have a strong predilection for public figures, celebrities in the world.

We can always dream, regardless of age or social status. The female ghost remains in the dream realm, while the male usually tends to take action.

No rush

It is advisable to talk carefully about your fantasies. Don't reveal all your erotic dreams to a new partner. Even when it comes to the "man of life" be careful: some men might jump on the bandwagon, they won't give you peace until they make your dream come true!

No need to rush into action, without a break. In most cases, the fact that you have revealed them is enough to revive the desire in two original scenarios. It is not necessary to specify them. If, however, the transition to the imagined act occurs, we notice it as a slow evolution in the couple. If not, they will remain in the realm of the imaginary.

Remember!

But what do you do if your partner becomes more insistent? Follow the advice of our sexologist: never say "not categorically", but leave a door open, "maybe one day", even if you know you will never take the step. Make him wait, become impatient, translating his concrete request into the imaginary.

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