CNC, Consensual non-consent / forced. All the kinky things!

by SlyFox 2 months ago in fetishes

All about the kinky things. CNC, have you heard of it?

CNC, Consensual non-consent / forced. All the kinky things!

CNC. Consensual non-consent. This means that the person on the receiving end is consenting to participate in Acts mostly revolving around rape play or seemingly illegal Acts. Of course they are not actually illegal because it is consensual and both people involved have already went over rules and safe words with each other. If they haven't this can be very dangerous. If you are doing CNC and you do not have a set safe word and you have not talked about it beforehand, you won't know when they're acting like they're hurt or something is wrong or if they actually are. Remember that safety is the number one priority. You do not want to start something like this without both people agreeing to it and knowing exactly what is going to happen and what's going on.

Here's what google says about it: "Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)- a dynamic between two (or more) consenting adults where one of them does unpleasant or harmful seeming things to the other, who looks as if they're not enjoying it, or not consenting." I agree with that although its not unpleasant when its a kink. ;)

I'm just going to throw this out there, but if you overhear someone say they are into CNC or it comes up in conversation, that does not give you consent for anything. Just because they like CNC does not mean that they are consenting to whatever you want to do to them. I have had people think because I like CNC then they can do whatever they want with me and I don't have to consent (thankfully all of this was over the internet so I did not get hurt due to any of these people). That is very wrong.

Everything must be talked about beforehand and be consensual or it actually is illegal. Just remember no matter what kind of Kinks somebody has that they are all still people and no kink exempts somebody from needing or needing to give consent. That being said, lets get into the fun bits!

CNC can be a few different things. A lot of its appeal to me is the struggle and not being able to get away. For people who are on the giving side its more about having full control over another person and doing as they please. Either one of the people can stop anything at any time. that's the real beauty of it. CNC can be ropes, chains, gags, blindfolds, inside and even outside if you dare! Making the person on the receiving end tied up and helpless is a big part of the fun. Use your imagination and your resources.

So, Lots of people ask, "Isn't it hypocritical to have rape as a kink but be against it?"

The answer is no. See, there's a difference between real rape and the kink. When you are doing a rape play scene, both people have the power to stop it at any moment. There's no danger because its consensual. You know you will be okay after that and the other person will respect you if you want them to stop. You can say the safe word and end it. Where as actual rape the person has absolutely no control over it. There's no safe word and no respect. You don't know if you will leave there alive. There's a difference between playing and the real thing. Some people have the kink of real rape and maybe its different for them.

In my opinion, you can have a rape kink and not condone people raping other people.

That's all I got for now. Side note, did you know there's a book out there somewhere called "Everything a man knows about women." and it has around 100 pages which are all blank? Here's a link for your brain cells.

https://images.app.goo.gl/dHgH9wMAr7wQ8dZJA

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