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Blowjob Myths

And how to give best blowjobs

By Mihwa LeePublished about a year ago Updated about a year ago 4 min read
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Explore their cock and areas. Listen to their moans and reactions.

Myth 1:

Their dick needs to be deep in your throat for orgasm.

I used to believe this, but I now realize this is far from the truth. It turns men on when we take their dicks down our throats as part of a repertoire, but this is not necessarily the action that will trigger orgasm. The most sensitive area for them is the head. If you have a strong gag reflex and can’t tolerate a dick in your throat, block it with your tongue or hand. Trust me. Men would rather you block than see you gag. Who knows? This might boost the egos of inexperienced men when you can’t get most of their dick in your mouth.

Myth 2:

You can’t avoid tasting cum.

Some men’s cum not only tastes bad, but the texture is strange too. If you dislike the taste of cum, hold your mouth over his cock and cover the tip with your lips. Hold your tongue back. Your lips caress his tip so when he cums, he has the stimulation of your lips, but you are not tasting him. It might satisfy him when he sees his cum touching your lips and overflowing onto your hand.

Myth 3:

Blowjob is all about the dick.

There’s more to a BJ than his cock. There are his balls, perineum (the plain between his balls and anus), and anus. You treat them all like kittens and give them as much love as you can spare. He is sensitive in the perineum and anus. You can lick one while caressing the other with your fingers. Try different things. See what he likes but love all of him down there. If anything, your enthusiasm will be a huge turn-on.

Myth 4:

BJ is about sucking.

The dreaded accidental teeth scrape can happen when you focus on sucking rather than licking. Sucking can be fun, but the licking will push him over the edge. A blowjob is more effective when you focus on using your tongue to caress the tip. Licking the shaft is great for introducing variety and building tension, but the head will get the job done. Keep your tongue in contact with his cock while you slide up and down with your mouth. You position your upper lip over your teeth slightly so they don’t scrape, but most of the time, your upper lip doesn’t even have to touch his cock for the blowjob to be effective.

Now, if your man trusts your BJ skills, he might find the teeth arousing as long as you are gentle. In some cases, they might even enjoy the pain, so talk dirty and ask him if you’re in the mood to be playful.

Myth 5:

You have to swallow to make cum sexy.

Some men love it when their partner swallows, and others prefer to see cum all over their partner’s face, tits, ass, etc. Again, ask him what he’s in the mood for in the heat of the moment. Or tell him what you want. They might enjoy hearing the word “cum” and “tits” in one sentence or whatever else is coming out of your mouth. Communicate in a sexy and playful manner.

Myth 6:

BJ involves mainly your mouth.

BJ can be all-mouth at all times or sporadically. But it usually involves the mouth and hand for better control. Anything goes when you’re building up tension, but if you want him to cum, you need to maintain consistent contact, pressure, and speed with your hand while your tongue licks his tip. The movements need to be synchronized. This is not the time to get creative.

Myth 7:

You’re submissive when giving a blowjob.

I love giving blowjobs because I can see his reaction and my effect on him. Blowjob gives us the license to tease, be creative, and vary our lovemaking. Many women have said they feel powerful and in control when giving BJs. I would have to agree. When a man is melting (hopefully figuratively) in your hands, you feel a different satisfaction. But, of course, if he is pushing you to give him a head, then you walk away because no one should make you do anything you don’t want to do.

The bottom line is, if you enjoy what you’re doing, he will too. Nothing is a more powerful aphrodisiac than having someone thoroughly enjoy your body.

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About the Creator

Mihwa Lee

Writer of erotic romance novels (Rogues Worth Saving Series). I lived in 4 countries, moved over 40 times, travelled to over 20 countries, owned successful businesses, & had hot sex on 5 continents. I have shit to say.

www.mihwawrites.com

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