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5 Reasons Why Men Find Pleasure in Oral Sex

You will be shocked by their reasons.

By Jessey AnthonyPublished 2 years ago 4 min read

American rapper, 50 cent, says men who don’t eat pussy should kill themselves. And he is not alone in that thought. Men on Facebook went ballistic to defend their love for women’s pussy.

Aside from the idea that 50 cents were too gross, many women have confirmed this stereotype among men. Some men find it a disgusting way to give pleasure.

There is nothing wrong with going down on your partner and giving them the orgasm of their life. It will only increase your bond and also introduce some tension into your sex life.

Oral sex can be viewed as a romantic way to express love for each other. It’s a great way to get close to someone and find out what turns each other on.

Problem with orgasm gap

Most women orgasm through cunnilingus (pussy eating) than penetrative sex. But due to ingrained sexism and the objectification of women, men are seen as weak for pleasing a woman rather than using them for their own pleasure.

Research studies indicate that “males are more likely than females to have received oral sex“.

The same statistics prove that heterosexual women do not orgasm as much as other sexual orientations. This could be because their men aren’t putting the effort into pleasing them.

What’s interesting about the finding is that more men than women said that giving oral sex was “very pleasurable,” which should be comforting to women who don’t have the courage to ask their partner to get down on them.

Despite the pleasure men enjoy from giving oral sex, far too many men shy away from reciprocating oral sex, which can be a problem in the relationship. Because you are leaving your woman, high and dry to suffer sad, orgasmless sex.

It’s a small setback in gender equality. While the orgasm gap isn’t as important as the gender pay gap, or the culture of rape or honor killings, it’s important because women’s sexual pleasure matters. And maybe, just admitting that there is an oral sex gender gap will be a start to finding a solution.

Imagine how happier the world would be if there were more orgasms. Fixing this one thing could make relationships last longer.

Why men find pleasure in eating pussy

Many guys see oral sex as a short pit stop on the road, rather than a main destination, so they don’t put much effort into honing their skills.

However, it turns out that some guys don’t just love giving oral sex, they are obsessed with it.

The myth that many men won’t perform oral sex on a woman unless she’s completely shaved down there, or that they do it out of obligation doesn’t stop men from enjoying the pleasure of eating, licking, and sucking a woman’s pussy.

They do it out of reciprocation

With age comes maturity. Men feel a sense of reciprocating what they receive as they get older. Making women feel good makes them feel good and verse visa.

“I only get off if my partner gets off. It’s a two-sided coin, and I don’t want to have sex to solely get my rocks off. I fully enjoy watching a woman enjoy my skills.” — Curtis, 31

Oral sex builds a stronger intimate bond

Getting to know a vagina up close and personal is an extremely intimate act. That intimacy often results in the rest of a sexual encounter, which can improve a couple’s overall chemistry.

“Going down on a woman is awesome. Especially when the sexual, physical and spiritual connection is there, it’s like two bodies connecting and expanding into a universe of sensation. It’s just all-around awesome.” — Alan, 33

They get turned on pretty hard

Men enjoy seeing the woman moan in pleasure and an oral job does wonders for her. The sounds, the smell, the way she moves, and the overall pleasure she experiences heighten their arousal.

“Definitely the pleasure it gives her, but mainly the pleasure it gives me! I am totally turned on when going down on a woman. It is by far the easiest way to get me aroused. The only thing that would make it unappealing would be bad hygiene.” — Ben, 26

They enjoy seeing the woman orgasm

Women take a little longer than men orgasm and the pressure builds up to control their ejaculation till that time. Giving her an oral prepares her and brings her closer to the climax.

“Oral sex is a key piece of being an all-around good lover. Some women prefer or need penetration to reach orgasm, but I have found that many prefer cunnilingus and clitoral stimulation to get there.” — Simon, 26

They do it to get her in the mood

Oral sex before intercourse can significantly improve both partners’ experience. By attending to her hotspot, many women may be more open to trying other new things during a sexual encounter.

“Women need to be warmed up properly and going down on them can really do the job to get them worked up physically and even mentally.” — Jamal, 24


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Jessey Anthony is a motivational speaker, fitness coach and relationship expert who helps people become confident in themselves in any challenges they face in life. Sign up to my newsletter & more cool stuff.

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