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4 Fetishes in Porn I Can't Stand

Pet Peeves I Probably Shouldn't Have

By Timothy A RowlandPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
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4 Fetishes in Porn I Can't Stand
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My Disclaimer Up Front

Okay, to start with, I have to say that I am well aware that I have no right to dislike these things. Yes, I know that I can just stop watching and that everyone does what they are into. If you are into these things like the people, I’ve seen doing them, then hey… you do you. To be clear, I’m not even putting these people down or insulting them in any way. Everybody likes what they like and each person is their own individual.

Also, before we get into the specific things, we can all admit at least for now that we all enjoy watching porn and adult entertainment in all its forms. At least once in a while, we all do it. There is a reason that it is a multi-billion-dollar industry. Most of the people who won’t even admit it, are still watching it. Now, having said that… Let me break down some of the things in adult movies, videos, cam shows, and streaming platforms that just bother the hell out of me.

Fingers in her Mouth and “Hooking”

The first one I want to mention, I’ve actually written an entire post about a good long while back. When guys put their fingers in the woman’s mouth, that bothers me way more than it should. The worst form of this is called, “hooking.” That is when the guy puts his finger in her mouth and actually hooks her cheeks with his fingers. I realize there is a lot intimacy and body fluid being exchanged, but your fingers are literally the ten dirtiest things on your body. Yes, your fingers are dirtier than your asshole.

Aside from that hygiene and safety factor, which it’s unsafe for so many other reasons too, it is also just so unnatural and non-erotic. There is no passion or eroticism in this act. I will never understand why other men like doing this and I will for sure never understand why any woman is even willing to put up with this, let alone may enjoy it. I know some do, but any hint as to why is beyond me. I have shut off plenty of videos and live stream because of it happened more than once or for too long. Just kills it for me.

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Slapping and Violence

This one just seems like such an obvious and overt negative thing to me. I’m talking about guys who feel the need to slap the woman during sex. Yes, I can understand (and even enjoy) giving her playful slaps on the ass every now and again if the mood and tone is right. However; slapping a woman anywhere else at any time is huge red flag to me. Hitting a woman is never okay under any circumstances other than if she is trying to kill you.

Along the same lines is choking during sex. Granted, I have been with women who enjoyed having their throat squeezed during rough sex. I’m okay with momentary and light pressure but so many people enjoy out right choking. I am talking about depriving the person of oxygen and even pushing it to the edge. I’ve heard people call it adventurous and exciting. No! It’s dangerous and a good indicator of having some major issues. Too dangerous and there is nothing erotic or passionate about putting your partner’s life in danger.

That’s Just Gross Two for One

Okay, I’m putting these into one section because they belong together and because I am sure that at least 80% of us can agree on these. Not everyone of course, but most of us will agree on these I’m sure. The first of the two is called, “scat” which is actually a type of sexual fetish. Without grossing you out too much, this refers to people who enjoy involving poop in their sex life. Usually, one or both people are getting crapped on (literally) by their partner and all sorts of other things happen that I’m sure you can imagine. Like me though, you probably don’t want to imagine it; which is why I’m not going to type it either and instead will stop here on this one.

The second of these and the last for this post, is similar to the previous one. This one would be a fetish that has gained popularity it seems more recently, and that is… peeing. This one is actually a double issue with me. You have this subniche fetish of watching women pee. That one is just strange and doesn’t make sense to me. I can’t find anything exciting about a woman peeing other than when she done, she may come back to bed. The other aspect of this is even more extreme, which are the people who enjoy peeing on someone or getting peed on. Yep, another gross one that has nothing erotic or passionate about it to me. Again, just nothing there.

Final Thoughts

Now that I’ve listed these four things, I’ll say it again. If you are into these things and they bring you happiness somehow, then you do you. I am glad that you have found something that pleases you and even more shockingly in this case, you found someone who also enjoys these things. I do like when people are happy and as long as you and your partner or trusted group of people doing these things behind closed doors, then you aren’t hurting anyone else. So, be happy and you do you because nobody else can. For me, I’ll run from these things as much as I can and try to heal my brain after seeing the split second of it, I see before being able to shut off whatever it is.

Have fun and stay safe, Everyone.

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Timothy A Rowland

I’m an every day human Xennial from the United States. I have many interest. I just want to improve your life and maybe entertain you. Available for editing and LeadsLeap projects at: https://www.fiverr.com/greyhatcompany

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