Wandering of love

In the long river of time, love is like the leisurely water, sometimes calm, sometimes rapid, and our hearts often wander in the waves of this love.

Love is a complex and wonderful existence. It can be the hot and lingering love, let people indulge in it, can not extricate themselves; It can also be the warmth and depth of the family, such as the warm sun in winter, silently giving us strength; Can also be sincere and pure friendship, accompany us through the ups and downs of life. However, it is precisely because of the diversity and complexity of love that we often fall into endless wandering when facing it.

When love comes, our hearts seem to be gently lifted by an invisible hand, full of joy and anticipation. We will be excited by each other's smile, and toss and turn for each other's word. In the beginning of love, everything is so beautiful, so intoxicating. We spend a lot of time and energy trying to get to know each other, trying to cater to each other's preferences, just to make the other person like us more. However, with the passage of time, love can also reveal its imperfections. Quarrels, misunderstandings, cold wars, these can make our mood like a roller coaster ride, up and down. We begin to wonder if this love is really for us, if it is worth holding on to. So we wander between love and not love, between staying and leaving.

Family affection is the most solid backing in our lives. From the moment we were born, the family will accompany us like a shadow. Parents' love, care, let us thrive. However, as we grow up, there will be differences and conflicts between us and our parents. They may not understand our aspirations and dreams, and we may be unhappy with some of their actions. We want to break free from them and pursue our own sky, but we are afraid that we will hurt their feelings. We are stuck in a relationship, trying to find a balance between satisfying our inner needs and living up to our parents' expectations.

Friendship is an indispensable scenery in our journey of life. Those like-minded friends share happiness and sorrow with us. We have spent countless unforgettable moments in each other's company. However, friendship is not always smooth sailing. Sometimes, we will be separated because of some small things, because each other's life trajectory is different and gradually apart. When we realize that a friendship is broken, we struggle with whether to fix it, whether to take the initiative to save the relationship. We wander between the gains and losses of our friendships, wondering how we can make them last.

The wandering of love is not only reflected in love, family and friendship, but also reflected in our attitude to life and vision for the future. When we are faced with the choice of life, we often find ourselves in a dilemma. Choose a secure life, or pursue a challenging dream? To stay in the familiar environment, or to bravely go into the unknown distance? Every choice means that we have to give up something, and at the same time we will gain something. We hover over these choices, afraid we'll make the wrong decision, afraid we'll regret it.

In the wandering of love, we will feel pain, confusion and helplessness. We don't know how to choose, we don't know which path is really right for us. However, it is this kind of wandering that makes us more deeply realize the preciousness and complexity of love. It teaches us to think, to weigh pros and cons, to find a balance between emotion and reason.

When we are struggling with the wandering of love, we may as well slow down and listen to our inner voice. Ask yourself what you really want and what you really care about. Don't be disturbed by outside voices, don't be swayed by the impulse of the moment. Give yourself some time and space to calm down and analyze each situation carefully.

At the same time, we can also ask the people around us for help and advice. They may be able to enlighten us in a different way and make us see things we might not have noticed. However, the final decision is in our own hands. We need to have the courage to face our choices, no matter the outcome is good or bad, to accept it calmly.

The wandering of love is a process that we will inevitably experience in our life. It is like a storm, although it will bring us temporary pain and confusion, but it will also make us stronger and mature. When we walk through this period of wandering years and look back on the past, we will find that those who once made us entangled in love have become the most precious wealth in our life. They make us more appreciative, more aware of how to love and be loved.

Let us bravely face the wandering of feelings, find our own direction in this complex emotional world, and write our own wonderful life. No matter how many difficulties and challenges ahead, we must firmly go on, because at the end of the love, there is our most desired happiness and warmth.