I wish for this life, hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son

　The first time in your life, a relationship with the purpose of marriage. No longer because of capriciousness and refusal to bow down, no longer because of stubbornness and lightly said breakup. The last time you believe in it, keep going, you can go to the white head. The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days. I hope that this life, holding the hand of the son, with the son to grow old!

　　We, don't envy the happiness that others have. You think you do not have, may be on the way to come, you think TA has, may be on the way to go ...... Some people are good to you because you are good to TA. Some people are good to you because they know how good you are!

　　What is happiness? Happiness is to hold a pair of hands you want to hold, walking together through the bustle and bustle, waiting together lonely and lonely; is to accompany a person you want to accompany, laughing together when happy, crying together when sad; is to have a heart you want to have, repeating boring days not boring, doing the same thing not boring ...... As long as we have love in our hearts, we will be happy The happiness is in the initial promise, in the future dream!

　　Don't forget what you once had; cherish what you've got; don't give up what belongs to you; keep what you've lost as memories. Tired to put the heart ashore; choose not to regret; bitter to know how to meet, pain to enjoy life, hurt to understand the strong; always windy morning, always gorgeous dusk, always meteoric night; regardless of yesterday, today, tomorrow, can open up is a good day ......

　　If they appear a little earlier, maybe they won't be interlocked with another person. There is no early step and no late step, that is too rare a fate.

　　Three things in life cannot be retained: life, time, and love. You want to keep it, but it's getting farther and farther away. The most painful thing in life is not not to get the loved one, but the loved one did not get happiness in life. The most important thing is that you can't get back; I can't get back the love that I lost; even though everything has become a passing cloud, I'm still waiting here until I see you get happy, and then I turn around, smile, and quietly walk away.

　　The fact is that you will be able to find out more about the actual situation and also the way to get the best deal.

　　Life is about understanding, life is about smiling in the face of reality. Life is to cross the barriers of the mind, peace of mind, indifference to fame and fortune. Life is to look at the future over obstacles. Life is to have a scale on your own, on which to measure good and evil. To live is to know one's worth, what one can do and what one should do. Life is about creating and giving happiness through hard work!

　　A person can look at the end at a glance, not because TA is too simple and not deep enough, but because TA is too simple and too pure. Such simplicity and purity, let people admire; some people are cloudy, look very complex, and very deep, in fact, this depth, is not the depth of the soul, but the city is too deep. This complexity is the intersection of sinister human nature, rather than the superimposition of mannish wisdom. Simple, the most beautiful!

　　If one day you want to cry, call me, I can't promise to make you laugh, but I can cry with you; if one day you want to run away, call me, I can't convince you to stay, but I will run with you; if one day you don't want to listen to anyone, call me, I promise to be by your side and keep quiet; if one day I don't answer the phone, please come and see me, because I may need you! I might need you!

　　When our love is stained with dust, it will wait for a storm of baptism, some people, some things, is not you want to forget, you can forget. The most painful thing is that the disappearance of something, it is gone forever, will never come back, but also to leave a thin and sharp needle, that has been inserted in your heart, has not been able to pull, it wants you to hurt, you have to hurt, can not erase the permanent scars.

　　Happiness is not how big your house is, but how sweet the laughter in the room is; happiness is not how luxurious you drive a car, but you drive home safely; happiness is not how beautiful your lover, but how bright your lover's smile; happiness is not how enthusiastic the applause when you succeed, but a voice to say to you when you are disappointed: do not fall, friend! Happiness is not how many sweet words you have heard, but when you are sad and in tears, someone said to you: it's okay, I'm here.

　　There is such a person, you said countless times to give up, but in the end, still can not give up. There is no such person, you willingly be hurt, even if you know you will be bruised. There is no such person, you will be alone when you think of TA to cry, but when you see TA pretend to laugh indifferently. There is no such person, you countless times say to give up, but in the end, still can not give up. There is no such person, every day and TA can go back and forth dozens of text messages, but a phone call but awkward speechless.

　　The most exhausting is often not the distant road, but your heart's depression; the most decadent is often not the future of the bumpy, but the loss of your self-confidence; the most painful is often not the misfortune of life, but the dashing of your hopes; the most desperate are often not the blow of frustration, but the death of your soul; everything looks lighter, heart a little more relaxed, everything will slowly become better!

　　You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can't change the past, but you can change the present; you can't control others, but you can master yourself; you can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you can't everything goes well, but you can do everything to the best of your ability; you can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.

　　The boy got married and treated his wife better than he did before he got married. At a party, friends laugh at him: how to get married is still so mushy. He said with a smile: before marriage, many boys want to chase her, many boys will be good to her, I can only be better to her to chase her; after marriage, the boys who are good to her are getting less and less, I can only be better to her, so as not to let her lose. After saying that, all my friends were silent, with no ridicule, only admiration!

　　When tomorrow became today became yesterday, and finally became the memory of a day no longer important, we suddenly found ourselves unknowingly has been pushed forward in time, this is not in the stationary train, and the adjacent train crossed, as if they are moving forward the illusion, but we are really in the growth, in this case into another self!

　　I've gotten used to going into the space every day to see what each of you is up to. Then you know who is having a good time, who is tangled, who is starting a new relationship with whom, who is ending an old entanglement with whom. The fact is that you will not be able to get in touch with the actual people you are interested in. It's just that I miss you all.

　　I am not unable to touch a better one, but because I already have you, I do not want to meet a better one; I am not going to move on to others, but because I already have you, I feel no need to move on others; I am not going to fall in love with other people, but I know how to cherish you more, it is not easy to be together, the person who has been chosen should not just let go, there are countless good people in the world, but it is enough to meet you.

　　The fact that we once cherished, all because of the invisible hand of the years, slowly stripped the aura of love, but also let the original vow, into crystal glass fragments. The actual love is to be washed in time, either precipitated into a yellowing photo or in our simple life in the rage. We are not meeting each other, happiness is not a momentary feeling, it melts in the sweetness of our hands, melting in the seemingly mottled life.

　　Don't think that there is better behind, because what you have now is the best. The fact is that you can get married later if you are still young, love does not wait for age. In fact, for love, the more simple the happier. The fact is that you'll be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days. Let you and I will make a mistake.

　　It is only when you have been in pain that you know how to protect yourself; when you have cried, you know what heartache feels like; when you have been foolish, you know the right time to insist and give up; when you have loved, you know you are very vulnerable. Life does not need to be so needlessly obsessive, nothing really can be cut off.

　　The people who understand know how to give up, the people who know how to sacrifice, and the happy people know how to transcend. The most important thing is to understand, give up and bless the people who do not love you. Too much self-interest is begging for the other person's charity. Loving and being loved are things that make people happy. Don't let that turn into pain.

　　For people who are not related to you, you talk to him more than nonsense; for people who are related to you, your presence can wake up all the feelings of TA. Some people are strangers even after knowing each other for several years, and there always seems to be a kind of divide between them, as if the flowers blooming on the other side, far away, untouchable. And some people are close to each other the moment they appear as if they are identified again after being separated. That kind of nearness has a warm and real quality.

　　Fate is a wonderful thing, many times, we have met, but do not know, and then turn a big circle, and back here. Everything is chance or predetermined. Therefore, each person we meet in life should be cherished, because you do not know what will be the abrupt end of this brief encounter, and then each other by mistake, meet again but found that there is no return to the past, it will be how terrible things are.

　　Dear self, do not hold on to memories, broken kite, only let it fly, let it go, but also let yourself go; dear self, you must find something other than love, that can make you stand strong on the ground with both feet; dear self, you have to be confident or even narcissistic, always remind yourself that I deserve the best of everything.

　　It is the greatest happiness to have someone who understands you. This person is not necessarily perfect, but TA can read you, can enter the depths of your heart, and can read everything in your heart. The person who knows you best will always be by your side, silently guarding you, not letting you suffer a little bit of aggravation. The people who love you will not say many words of love but will do many things that love you.

　　The first thing you need to do is to have a friend or a confidante, not a husband, not a wife, not a lover, but a person who lives in your spiritual realm, a person who can say what's on his mind, but only warming his heart and not his body. When you are hurt, the first time you will think of him/her is in your soul diary, but also your life is one of the longest secrets.

　　I thought that as long as you hold on to you can forever, but I did not expect that the tighter the grip, the faster the loss. I don't want to tie you up, but I can't help it, because I'm afraid, I'm afraid to lose you, I'm afraid to face the lonely world alone. I'm not that brave, even if you say I have to be strong. Please don't say sorry to me either, because I don't know what kind of words I can use to answer the hurt you gave.