Women who have experienced pregnancy and childbirth

A pregnant woman had her uterus open at 4 fingers and was in the hospital for delivery. She had to bring all 3 children to the hospital because there was no one to take them with her.

In the hospital, with no one around to help, she had to endure the pain of contractions while taking care of the 3 children around her.

This is a heartbreaking situation.

You know, pregnancy and childbirth is the most vulnerable time in a woman's life, when she faces not only physical oppression but also mental anxiety.

But when a woman needs the most help, she looks around and can't find an arm to lean on.

The burden of family and the pressure of childcare are all on a pregnant woman waiting to give birth, so how can it not be heartbreaking?

I once heard a saying: Before you marry someone, go to the door of the delivery room.

You will see all the warmth and sadness in the world here.

01

There is an interview in "The Prodigal Sister 3".

The program team asked Geo Caddie if you are given a phone now, who would you like to call?

She said she wanted to call her father in 1998.

If the father at that time did not let the mother risk her advanced age to give birth to a son, if the father at that time can be a little more resolute to let the mother undergo a cesarean section, perhaps, the mother will not leave this life.

Geo Cassie's father was the eldest son in the family, and in the eyes of the older generation, he had the responsibility of passing on the family name to the next generation.

But Geo Cassie's mother gave birth to two daughters in a row, which caused her to be pointed out by many people. So, even though she was already advanced in age, she had to take the risk of getting pregnant just to spell a son.

Fortunately, Geo Cassie's mother's third child was a son.

Unfortunately, because of various reasons such as medical conditions, her mother died in childbirth.

That year, Geo Caddie was just 12 years old.

As an adult, she looks back on that experience with remorse and remorse every time.

That's why there was a scene in the variety show, she had to tell her father without any hesitation: she must let her mother have a cesarean section.

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.

When people around them accused them of not being able to give birth to a son, they tried their best to have a son.

The people around you say that painless, cesarean section is not good for the child, they will endure severe pain to give birth to the child.

They do too many things that seem to be for the good of their children, but they forget that they were once children, who need care, love, and understanding.

Childbirth is risky. Mothers during pregnancy and childbirth are far more vulnerable than we think.

It's far from easy to have a child, "a woman can be born".

02

A blogger I recently followed just gave birth to her second child.

The baby was born in the normal way and was pain-free, but she still tossed and turned in bed for hours.

She said the contractions were not so painful when she had her first child, but she didn't expect them to be so painful with her second baby.

Many people in the comments section described their own birth experiences.

Almost every mother who has multiple children will say that the contractions of the second and third child are really painful, how painful is it? It hurts more than giving birth!

When giving birth, you can still choose to be pain-free, but once the child is born, you have to be very careful about what medications and injections you take because you have to breastfeed!

People say that a woman who has a second or third child is great because she has to go through the horrors and pains she knows, over and over again.

She will also say after the pain has subsided, like a person who is fine: it's okay, I can endure, I can endure for the sake of the child.

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Some people in the comment section have a point: that is because her husband is good.

I looked through almost all of her videos, mostly taken by her husband.

When she couldn't eat when she was pregnant, her husband would promise to buy her bags and encourage her to get her to eat more.

when she was in the hospital waiting to give birth, her husband would run up and down the stairs to prepare things and buy the special food that she loved so she could replenish her strength

When she was lying in bed suffering from severe pain after giving birth, her husband would cheer her up and would specifically watch the baby spare her worries.

Her strength and optimism are certainly a factor in her personality, but also without the care of her husband.

Her husband is her armor when she is fragile and relies on him when it is difficult.

03

But many people overlook how much a pregnant mother depends on her husband.

I once read a news story about a 32-year-old mother of two, Shao Qing, who died suddenly while sitting on her monthly child.

Her mother read the memo and realized how depressing it was for her daughter to live during that time of pregnancy.

Because of her big belly, she had a hard time doing many things, but every time she turned to her husband, all she got in return was ridicule and rebuke.

"You're sick, right?" "Crazy, right?" was his husband's constant mantra.

Even until Shah Sing had a hard time with her heart, she cried and sent a voice to her husband, but all she got in return was an "I'm out there doing something".

The chat voice has a passage that is heartbreaking to listen to.

My heart is dying, you are still in the mood to eat out, I live and die whether you care.

The fact is that you have a patient at home you don't care about, and you run out to spend time and drink, is interesting?

I don't know why, in the face of his wife, who gave birth to two children, her husband can be so heartless.

If you don't love, why did you get married and have children? To torture a woman who should be like a flower to such an extent? Until she loses her life?

But in this world, indifference cannot be exchanged for true love, avoidance cannot be real.

04

As I write this, I remember the husband who danced for his wife outside the delivery room.

Knowing that his wife's delivery was difficult, he changed his clothes and danced with exaggerated movements to temporarily distract his wife's attention to ease her anxiety.

The wife in the delivery room looked at her husband's comical appearance and laughed out tears of pain.

I think this moment, lying on the maternity bed she is rich, there is the joy of first-time mothers, and there is the comfort of a loving husband.

I heard a friend tell a story.

She said she gave birth last year because her husband had been working out with her during pregnancy, so the birth was quite smooth.

The day after the birth, she clamored to be discharged from the hospital.

My husband was so concerned about her that he went to great lengths to complete the discharge procedures and called his in-laws to pick her up downstairs.

After watching her husband finish packing, she sat up and prepared to put on her shoes.

Who would have thought that before she got up, she was picked up by her husband, who whispered to her: you rest, I'll do it.

The people around looked at her husband and couldn't help but give him a thumbs up.

People say that a woman who has given birth to a child is going to be a mother, to be strong and brave, to be fearless.

But his husband proved to her with practical action, married the right person when all the time is a little princess.

Even when the mother, there is a princess hug.

So, if you see today's article, if you have pregnant mothers-to-be around, please be sure to be kind to them.

They may not need you to be rich and famous, but they want your gentle care.

They may not need you to do what you say, they need your understanding and tolerance.

Every mother who steps into the delivery room is vulnerable, carrying two lives and the joys and sorrows of a family.

They need to be seen, understood, and respected.

Because every mother who gives birth to a child has overcome all the difficulties.

Every mother is amazing!