Why do women not want to be full time wives?

Is it good to be a full-time mother? What are the problems with being a full-time wife? I think many women who are mothers have thought about this question, is it good to be a full-time mother or not? What are the problems that a full-time wife faces? Today, the knowledgeable mother will talk to you about the 50 cents, hoping to inspire and help the majority of those who are preparing to become full-time mothers or have already done so at present.

In today's society, men and women are more balanced, men have to go out to work, women also have their careers, no longer like the old male-dominated society, men work outside to make money, and women have to take care of children at home.

Nowadays, if you ask a woman to give up her job to be a full-time wife, I think many women refuse! Why? Because a full-time wife pays not only for hard work but causes many more family problems and social problems.

One of the biggest problems is that once a woman is a full-time mother, she will immediately disconnect from society, only through the cell phone and the media to obtain information about the outside world, and you go to a supermarket, shopping malls, almost will not play much of a role in your social and eye, more often than not, you just around a house, the daily life of three points a line, is boring, long-term, their circle is Also gone, they are too lazy to dress up, the body is out of shape, desire is getting lower and lower, life is getting more and more casual because, in a confined space, you simply do not care about anyone looking. After all, no one can see you.

Although being a full-time wife is also a great thing, but today's society, if a woman can not be financially independent, indeed in the home environment will have the possibility low, you will feel inside yourself because of the lack of income and humble, even if your husband will not use the financial income to oppress you, you will think for sure since there is no work that is good full-time wife.

And when you argue, no economic income of the party will often be passive, you will become very bottomless, all the expenses of this family rely on the husband alone to support, while you do not have any income, the so-called eater's short mouth take shorthand, I believe that every person with a sense of morality encounter this situation, will feel their hearts have no bottom.

In the long run, you will form a humble state, more terrible is that, because of your long-term disconnect with society, even if one day you do not do full-time mother, it is difficult to find a suitable job to enter society, first of all, your age is there, secondly, due to a long period without social practice, your ability to work is also in doubt, and your whole state is more can affect other people's impression of you, your decadence, your obesity Your decadence, your obesity, your old age, your fatigue, will be written on your face.

Many women do full-time wife, all day at home, the whole person's state has become no longer as youthful and beautiful as before because rarely go out, they also do not dress themselves up, also do not buy clothes and cosmetics, the whole person because long-term do not go out also become bloated up, and obesity most directly led to the woman's entire body and mental state of substantial decline.

This is the most dangerous time for a full-time wife because this time is also the peak of men cheating, although you pay all for the family and children, men see your state is getting worse and worse, becoming more and more like a yellow face, he will still touch you? He will still love you? Perhaps some will, but many people have begun to dislike it, but they will not let you know, so will be through a variety of ways to mess around outside, and you in addition to tantrums or even no bottom.

You do not even dare to divorce, because you have no income, divorce is very bad for you, you have worked hard to raise children, and finally will be awarded to the man because you do not have the financial income, if betrayed by your husband, your heart is even more painful, because you will find that you have nothing, you do not know if the divorce, you can still find a job, you can not support yourself, you In addition to washing and cooking, cleaning up the house and watching the children, it seems to have been ruined.

This is probably the reason why many women don't want to be full-time wives! Because they have long expected, this is not a beautiful job at all, you think your husband to support you is a very happy thing? You think there is nothing to do all day, handed over to the nanny to do the laundry, cooking, and clean up after the children, is the general life of a princess? That is unless you are sure that such a life can live a lifetime, but the fact is that people will age, life will change, and the man will continue to support you. Will you be loved as always? When you are in the house from a spoiled princess slowly becoming the yellow face, do you think you can still be as dashing as before? Once you have lost your value in the family, you will be vulnerable to betrayal and abandonment.

Of course, being a full-time mom is not without its benefits, first of all, you can be with your children, and whether it's your parents or the other parent, it's better than you directly with the children. Many people will even reject to let both parents take the child, they prefer to find a nanny, is afraid of the parents of the old generation of ideas and bad habits to the child, resulting in the child's physical and mental growth problems, so many women want to see their children, but time and energy and work, really let them split up, have to let both parents take care of the child.

In general, why contemporary women generally reject to do full-time wives, because they know that the price behind this, is not only for the family to pay for the hard work simple, but their own life is easy to fall into the passive, and contemporary women advocate independence and do not want to live in the shadow of men, they need to have their career, have their income, have their way of life and put away their own family, they They can do everything for their families, but they do not want to give up their freedom.