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Why Divorce? is it necessary!

Divorce is not solution

By ArvindPublished 26 days ago 3 min read

Why Divorce? Is it necessary.

Divorce is double edged sword, it harm from both sides. The unlike relation between the couples is like double edged sword and disturb the life, not only the couple, but their related family also. The controversy between couple happens from minor mistakes and fairness of one of the member. Therefore, it is necessary for the couple, first to find out the mistakes himself/herself and disuses together about the mistakes. If it is kept in the mind by one of them, the time of divorce would not come in their life.

Divorce is the formal legal ending of a marriage. It is separate and distinct from property settlement and parenting arrangements after the breakdown of a marriage, A divorce happens after a husband and wife decide not to live together anymore and that they no longer want to be married to each other. They agree to sign legal papers that make them each single again and allow them to marry with other people, if they want to. Sometimes, they just can't fix the problems and decide that, a divorce is the best solution, change is a natural part of life, but it is sometime really hard to deal with. Divorce is dissolution/ termination of marriage i.e. separate forms their marital life. Divorce usually entails the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage. Divorce laws are vary considerably around the world and in most of the countries, divorce requires the sanction of a court, which may involve issues of distribution of property, child custody, alimony, child visitation.

Divorce is different from, which declares the marriage null and void, with legal separation or de jure separation or with de facto separation. Reasons for divorce vary, from sexual incompatibility or lack of independence for one or both spouses to a personality clashes.

Many people, who say, they want a divorce, but have strong feelings for their counterpart, but due to an ego or minor mistakes in the relationship, there is a lack of intimacy and closeness. Therefore, it is best for any couple to think on their relationship prior to deciding to go for divorce otherwise their feelings of loss will overwhelm and they may find themselves worse off after the divorce taken by them.

Everyone, who goes through a divorce process, is a emotional confusion. The couple can feel guilty at the same time as they are sure that, they want to end their marital relationship. Divorce brings much change in life of divorced couple, because it is the loss of their settled happy family life and end of dreams seen by the couples.

The hardest and unrecoverable consequences of divorce need to face another person's pain, be it their children's, family or friends because divorce affects so many people's life. If they are chosen the divorce and ending of marital life, they have to face all these people, who are in their support of their marital life. If one who does not want the divorce, but his/her spouse wants to proceed, he or she will still need to get ready to accept the consequences of a failed marriage and unavoidable changes in the life like finances, lifestyle, children's sadness and anger.

Cruelty and abusive treatment is the most common ground for divorce and need to show something is knowingly doing or not doing acts of physical abuse are cruel and abusive treatment to cause harm or upset his /her counterpart. Sometimes certain forms of mental cruelty may be enough to cause physical harm. For example, spouse drinking and staying out all night caused headaches. Now a day’s adultery is a common ground for divorce. Adultery means sexual intercourse outside the marriage. Secondly, is impotency i.e. inability to have sex and confirmed habits of intoxication caused by voluntary and excessive use of intoxicating liquor, opium, or other drugs. If these acts are avoid, there will be no divorce.

Therefore, for every couple, before taking steps for divorce, remain think about consequences and also think, whether the divorce is solution of happy life.

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Arvind

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  • Muhammad Safdar26 days ago

    Exactly, divorce is a double edge sowrd.

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