When mom decided to start "swinging"

"Since having a child, every mother is faced with various challenges all the time. The fact is that you are not alone in the battle, but you should know that anxiety is the normal performance of a mother.

The body is out of shape, how many mothers collapse

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. Think about what kind of figure I have when I am not yet six meters. Before giving birth, I was only eighty pounds, this is a living fat out of a self ah!

After pregnancy, the appetite has increased, thinking that after the birth of a child, the body will be restored, but most the mother is difficult to return to the previous figure. To ensure sufficient breast milk, all kinds of nutrition binge eating. The fact is that you will be able to control your mouth and open your legs after six months, however, your child has mixed up your legs. The fact is that you have to give up and look at your own body that you can't lose, confused and distressed.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days.

The fact is that the actual people who are in a position to get a good deal more than just a few of these people are not going to be able to get a good deal more than just a few of these people. The actual life, we want to do but it is very difficult to do.

Unit overtime tired dog, home at night, just buy some food even if the roadside. It was already very tiring, back home, the children do not listen, just clean up the living room, less than 5 minutes to set up everywhere are toys.

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.

The anxiety of education inside the volume has destroyed many families of mothers.

Those moms who are forever sunbathing, all have excellent children. Some children piano grade 10, the mother's circle of friends, always clang bright piano in front of the child's ten fingers flying, a world-famous song flowing from the fingertips ...... some children, excellent academic performance, to the mother to bring back a report card worthy of bragging rights, posted in the circle of friends, waiting for everyone's praise and praise.

Then look at your children, who don't play the piano, and write their homework crookedly and messily. Whenever the telephone number of the class teacher appears, the mother's spirit immediately tenses up: did the child not finish his homework again, did he have another conflict with his classmates, did he get into some trouble again?

Although always angry by the child to explode, raising this child, the money is not a little less can not be spent. We can't afford to miss the tutoring classes that others have enrolled in, even though our wallets are at the bottom. When it's time to take your child out to see the world, you have to fulfill your child's wishes by spending money in installments.

No matter how the child will develop in the future, the mother has done her best, but eventually ended up with a yellow face, no joy, and happiness, is this the norm after becoming a mother? The answer is certainly not!

In "You have to believe (four psychological capital to regain your happiness in life)" it is pointed out that "there are so many problems in life, but the truth of life is not as people think, to know how to withdraw, accept and change, but also have a belief that you have to both accept the reality to aspire to a better state."

As well as we do, our children often go against the grain and do not develop in the direction we expect. So, I suggest that moms and dads learn to "suck" at the right time. When you relax your nerves, you may see a different child.

First of all, the mother's eyes should be "rotten", and not always focus on the child's shortcomings to see, if the child can be better.

The mother's eyes are keen, always watching her child's every word and action. We want our children to be perfect, so we can always find a lot of shortcomings in them. It is also because of these shortcomings that mothers are always picking on their children's self-confidence, making them feel that they are just not good and giving up trying to fight.

So, our eyes might as well be lazy. Let go of the child's small shortcomings, and encourage the child to play their strengths, your child will certainly become more and more excellent.

Secondly, the mother's mouth "swings bad", and the child can be more assertive.

There is a kind of child, known as "mommy and daddy" or "mommy and daddy". When there is a little something to choose from, the opinion of the mother will be the main. Most listen to the mother's words, not a little bit of their own opinion, so the child is like a small doll that can not be weaned, never grow up.

Mothers' mouths, might as well be lazy. The child may be wrong, but he can grow and learn from his mistakes.

Finally, the mother's hand "swing", the child's independence can be stronger.

Since becoming a mother, the first thing many women feel is very tired. The first thing you need to do is dress your child, wash your child, feed your child, hold your child when you go out, and sleep with your child when you get home. The mother's hands, from then on, can not be free, and as a result, the child can not do anything on their own.

The mother's hands might as well be lazy and let the child do his own thing, no matter how well he does, it is the child's growth.

The lazier the mother is, the more independent the child will be instead Isn't this the best of both worlds?