When a person reaches middle age, he becomes more and more silent, not because of loneliness and arrogance, but because …...

Have you ever felt this way:

At a certain age, there are fewer and fewer people who can talk to each other, but there are very few people who can speak the truth on the wine table and in the address book.

Those bitter grievances want to talk to someone, but the words are hard to control, but they swallow them back because they can't find someone who can be disturbed at any time.

All the joys and sorrows in the world are not the same, and no one can really empathize with them. Instead of complaining and explaining painstakingly, it is better to choose silence.

Silence is not a matter of few words or arrogance, but the indifference after seeing through the warmth of human feelings, the truth and falsehood in the world, getting used to digesting everything by oneself, and no longer showing one's own wounds to others.

A person is becoming more and more silent, probably because of these three points.

It is rare to be confused when you see through too much.

There is a popular saying on the Internet:

"Silence is a person's loudest cry, and it is the most silent cry when the world compromises to reality."

I think so.

People in middle age, more and more experience, silence, not cowardly, not put down, but in the face of a lot of powerlessness, because see clearly, so despise.

Truly mature people will not be blushed because of who is right and who is wrong, still less will they be furious because of their dissatisfaction.

In life, there are too many people and things that we can't control, and the human heart is even more elusive.

Not all people are true to each other, and not everything, black and white.

When the water is clear, there is no fish, and when the man is clear, he has no friends.

Don't take everything too seriously, silence and play dumb at the right time, you can make yourself less hurt.

This journey of life, all people are just passers-by, the final destination can only be their own.

There is no need to haggle over, peers are fate, do not ask the time of return, do not ask the source, life is only this way.

The three values are different, so there is no need for strong integration.

Li ao once said:

"sometimes an explanation is unnecessary: an enemy does not believe your explanation, a friend does not need your explanation."

If you think about it, it is.

There are some things, needless to say.

Those who understand you are self-evident, and those who do not understand you are indefensible.

For people with different values, just like I said that the sea is beautiful, you said that many people were drowned; I said the steak was delicious, but you said it was expensive and not good to eat; I was sincere to you, but you pointed a needle at me.

The three values are different, so you don't have to be friends.

We all have each other's boundaries, we don't have to be out of place with another person, we each choose our own circle, and we don't have to force others to be like ourselves.

The blind touch the elephant, each has its own advantages.

We cannot judge who is right and who is wrong, just because of the different position, the angle of view is naturally different.

You will inevitably encounter moments of misunderstanding and distortion in your life, and you may be at a loss and grief, so be sure to tell yourself:

Don't be angry, just have a clear conscience.

Lu Xun said: "Silence is the highest contempt."

Life is short, don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, keep silent and improve yourself, is a person's greatest wisdom.

Be kind to yourself and be lenient to others.

When you are alive, you should forgive and forgive others, leave leeway in everything, give way to reason, learn to be silent, and take a step back from the sea and the sky.

There is no need to care too much about the rights and wrongs in the world. Those things outside the body do not belong to you after all, so there is no need to struggle until death.

Silence is not introversion or magnanimity, but because you care about it, you choose to make concessions.

Between relatives, win right and wrong, but lose affection; between lovers, win right or wrong, but lose affection.

In this world, not everything has to be won or defeated. Sometimes, silence and leniency are the best way to solve all problems.

As the saying goes: those who know me say I am worried; those who do not know me say what I want.

Don't care what others say, cherish those who are good to you, and live your own life is the most important thing.

Nietzsche once said, "whoever will eventually be famous will remain silent for a long time."

Listen to the truest thoughts in your heart, strive to improve yourself, and get ready to make a splash in the end.

Those days that have made a lot of efforts but failed to get results, we call it taking root, deeply rooted in the soil, unaffected by the outside world.

Silence is a person's best value-added period.

"it took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up," Hemingway said. "

Speaking is a profound knowledge.

Know how to be silent, quiet but do not argue, learn to be bearish and open, can be regarded as the top wise man.

Be a silent person, in the face of ups and downs, no regrets; in the face of changes in the world, neither humble nor arrogant.

Keep things quiet and carry your own sufferings.