"what happened to me quitting the parent group?"

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In the information age, some social APP have become indispensable software for everyone to communicate.

For example, now in the school, each class has a group, the teacher is the administrator of this group, and other parents are the main personnel.

As we all know, the establishment of the parent group is to facilitate the communication between parents and school teachers, through the parent group to supervise students to finish their homework carefully, at the same time, some important notice teachers will also inform parents in the parent group.

This not only saves each other's time, but also improves work efficiency.

But in fact, many parent groups are gradually "changing": some teachers assign tasks in the group and ask parents to "reply in a second", while some parents show off their wealth, show their children, and advertise in the group.

As a result, some parents are unable to bear the "group" negative, while the teachers increase the work burden because of the parents' group, and the parents' questions anytime and anywhere make the teachers tired to cope with.

As a result, the group of parents has become the "pressure group" and "burden group" of parents and teachers to a certain extent, and has also lost the hearts of the people in time.

"I quit the parent group. Why?"

Earlier, a father posted a short video about his teacher's complaint, which quickly spread on the Internet and attracted hundreds of thousands of people to like it.

"I quit the parent group. Why?"

"if you don't teach attentively in class and ask me to help correct your homework after class, what do I want you to do?"

"when do I have time to collect group news? can't I teach it myself?"

"all day long is to ask me to help correct my homework, and when I finish correcting my homework, I have to say against my conscience that you have worked hard."

"to tell you the truth, who works hard to teach me and correct me?"

The father's brief words pierced his heart everywhere.

As soon as the video was released, it resonated with many parents.

Everyone said that he had said what he had always wanted to say but dared not say it.

Parents are usually busy with work and housework, their energy is limited, the only time they have left is spent helping their children with their homework, and they have to pay attention to what messages the teacher sends on their mobile phones from time to time.

If you reply a little later, you will be named by the teacher.

It's okay to say one or two days, but as the time goes on, parents naturally can't stand it.

In fact, not only ordinary people, but also a star father, also said that he did not want to join the parent group.

He is the famous program host-Wang Han.

In the program, Wang Han said that he, like many parents, faces the pressure of being a parent, that is, the comparison from "other people's children".

In order to escape this pressure, he refused to join the group of parents, even if his wife urged him many times.

As soon as the matter was revealed by the media, netizens liked Wang Han one after another.

In an age when there are all kinds of "other people's children" everywhere, Wang Han's approach can be said to be very sober and original.

Count all kinds of strange events in the group of parents.

I believe that every parent in the parent group is no stranger to the following scenes.

In order to get the teacher's attention, parents can pay more attention to their children and perform fancy praise in the group from time to time.

At this time, if everyone is praising the teacher, other parents will have to follow suit, otherwise they will appear to be very disrespectful to the teacher.

As a result, many parents began to show off their superior lives among parents, and many people had to compete with each other, gradually showing off their wealth.

If you spend tens of thousands of yuan to take your children on a trip abroad in summer, you have to send some photos in the group.

When my family changed a big house and bought a new car, I had to mention it intentionally or unconsciously in the group.

Pictures of parents gradually began to show large logos, and sometimes different luxury bags were placed next to their children.

All kinds of Versailles speeches, do not want to see, but can not block or withdraw from the group.

There is a baby mother is a stay-at-home mother, her husband works in the field all the year round, she encountered such a situation.

A parent who claimed to be a classmate of her child sent her a request to add a friend. The mother saw that she was the parent of her child's class group and passed it without thinking about it.

At first, the topics of the two sides revolved around the exchange and education of children. After getting to know each other in this way, they talked more.

The two gradually talked about each other's family situation and the relationship between husband and wife, and the topic changed completely from parenting to blurred boundaries.

Obviously, such a move would hurt the family and children, but fortunately both sides stopped in time and did not let the affair continue.

Most parents experience the troubles of life and the troubles of educating their children. It is easy to find emotional empathy among heterosexual parents, and there are many such problems.

In addition, there are a lot of news such as "Please vote" and "Please pay attention to the official account above", which are often active in some parent groups, and when teachers post such advertising messages, parents will follow suit.

This kind of situation has become more and more, so that people have to say that the group of parents has gradually changed.

Where will the parents go in the future?

Parents, who were originally meant to communicate their children's learning and growth, have now become the birthplace of all kinds of messes. in the face of hundreds of endless messages, parents can't help sighing:

When will the group of parents become clean?

Although the education department has given corresponding measures, it is clear that school teachers and parents still need to work together to maintain and change in a short period of time.

After all, the original intention of the parent group is to make it more convenient for the school to communicate with the parents. such being the case, teachers and parents should share the responsibility and restore the original appearance of the parent group.

As a parent, you should do the following.

First of all, we should spend more time with children, not only through parents to show concern, but also to know that understanding and companionship in real life is more important to the growth of children.

If parents do not change the status quo, it is likely to lead to more and more alienation from their children, affecting the future parent-child relationship.

Secondly, parents should exercise strict self-discipline, correct their attitude in the group, and use the parent group as a home-school information receiving and feedback platform. If every parent can do it, I believe the parent group will become more orderly.

Finally, parents, as examples for their children to teach by example, should set up a positive image and establish