It is better to teach a son as fierce as a wolf than to teach a child like a sheep (parents who raise a son have a look).

Towering trees cannot be raised in a greenhouse.

There is a boy at home, might as well teach him the "wild" side, so that he is not physically weak torture, so that he has the courage to refuse, dare to face setbacks.

During the Spring Festival, I went to visit relatives in the countryside and saw Qi Qi, my nephew whom I hadn't seen for a long time.

Qi Qi, who is in the third grade of primary school this year, is thin and white, wearing a pair of gentle glasses and is said to be a bully in primary school. He has been reading quietly in the corner.

In the nearby clearing, a group of children were playing football on the ice, and the sound of playing spread so far that Qi Qi could not help looking out of the window, showing an expression of yearning and envy.

Seeing his desire, I offered to take him there to play.

But Qi Qi shook his head:

"my mother said it was too dangerous to play on the ice and it was cold outside, so she wouldn't let me go."

At first, he was embarrassed to join everyone, but with my encouragement, he finally plucked up the courage to join the play team.

But he tied his hands and feet, ran slowly, and accidentally fell on the ice, making everyone laugh.

Qiqi limped to one side. No matter how I tried to persuade him, I didn't want to join any more. I just stood by and silently picked up the ball for everyone.

After returning home, my sister-in-law could not help reprimanding her when she saw that she was all dirty and tidy.

"I told you to stay here, wild!"

Qi Qi buried his head deeply and was silent.

When the meal was on the table, Qi Qi was still eating in silence, his eyes dim, like a soft, injured lamb.

Can't help but let out a sigh.

In recent years, I always feel that many boys around me are getting softer and softer.

Although he looks clever and sensible, he becomes more and more "delicate" in terms of body, mind and character.

I think of Jin Jiajun in Xiaomin's Home, which was a hit some time ago.

With excellent grades and good looks, he is definitely an excellent and sensible boy.

But perhaps because of the influence of his family, compared with his peers, he appears to be a little self-abased and introverted.

On the eve of the college entrance examination, I was hit hard by the experience of being cheated, gave up on myself and wanted to give up my future.

Always be careful in dealing with others, even your own biological mother.

He was clearly in love with Chen Jiajia, but he dared not express his love for a long time.

He has a lot on his mind every day, has no fighting spirit, and is melancholy and fragile, as if he were "the hero of pain literature".

But the youth of the new era in my mind should not be like this.

They should be high-spirited, sunny, confident and energetic.

They should be like Chen Yixian, the hero of the Tsinghua promotional film, talking eloquently on the podium, confident, calm and generous.

Or like Jing Hao in "Miracle stupid Kids", as tough as weeds, full of strength, never giving up easily.

They should be like a fighting spirit, wild, running wildly on the prairie.

Not just captive, soft, quiet and powerless lambs.

In recent years, there has been a saying on the Internet:

It is better to teach a son as fierce as a wolf than a sheep.

I think this sentence is especially suitable for teenagers in the new era, especially for families with boys.

What I understand as "as fierce as a wolf" is not as aggressive and lethal as a wolf, but to learn from the unique temperament of a wolf:

Wolf-like bold temperament, wolf-like physique, wolf-like tenacity.

I think we should all train boys to be such "wolf" sex teenagers.

1.

Be hard-- forge his strong body and physique.

The report on Adolescent Health and physique in China shows that:

In recent years, the development level of students continues to improve, but endurance, strength, speed and other indicators significantly decreased, lung function continued to decline, the rate of poor myopia remains high, the rate of overweight and obesity, and the younger age of chronic infectious diseases are serious.

Some children even suffer from lumbar disc herniation and fatty liver at an early age.

It makes people worry about how a pair of frail bodies can support the future of the motherland.

This winter vacation, many parents keep their children at home and go out wrapped up for fear of catching cold, let alone exercise.

In Japan next door, however, it is particularly ruthless, and many kindergartens train their children for cold tolerance in winter.

For example, naked in the cold winter, holding an "endurance race" and so on.

Although this kind of "naked running" is a bit cruel, it can really improve the child's cold tolerance and exercise the child's physique and willpower.

So let your child go out, run, jump, do sweaty exercise, and feel the real challenge and pain.

Like this 10-year-old boy, under the influence of his father, he keeps on running every morning, rain or shine.

Not only did I get a full score in physical education in the high school entrance examination, but my health is also getting better and better.

A solid body that can withstand the wind and rain is the best capital for a boy to wander around the world.

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Be wild-cultivate the boy's brave and fearless spirit.

Due to the influence of testosterone, boys are naturally energetic and energetic, especially yearning for the outside world and full of curiosity about everything.

We should allow boys to release their nature, to take risks, to try all kinds of new things.

Here, I suggest that the father should give guidance to the boy from childhood.

Because the characteristics of men are tough, warm-blooded, brave and passionate.

The father, as the most important male role in the family, has an irreplaceable influence on boys.

The father can encourage the boy to conquer those huge toys in the amusement park, take him hiking, camping, conquering mountains and exploring strange jungles and streams.

When the conditions are safe, they are allowed to challenge more exciting sports such as skiing, skateboarding, go-kart, etc.

Like the young winter Olympic champion Su Yiming, who was exposed to skiing at the age of 4, despite the dangers and scars along the way, he never thought of giving up and constantly challenged to higher difficulties.

This young, fearless and energetic teenager is the idol of our new generation, showing a wolf-like self-confidence and calm demeanor.

3.

Fight a little-stimulate the boy's sense of competition and struggle.

I have seen many children who are confused and do not want to make progress when they are at school. When they enter the society, they are also addicted to pleasure.