What do middle-aged women need? Novelty or woe...

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It is often said that couples after the age of 40 are a barrier, feelings are easy to relax, and love is easy to be born outside marriage.

Because marriage covers two people's lives, the challenges of each stage are not the same, if the 20-year-old is together, it consumes the freshness of love, and after the age of 30, couples want to share weal and weal.

At the age of 40, I gradually found that the child has grown up and is ready to fly away, the career is stable, the life is open, at this moment, the husband and wife are more "a little freedom".

40-year-old couple who want some time to themselves.

After a lifetime of hard work, when you enter this stage, you want to relax and get back to what you once wanted to do.

Whether it's hobbies, whether it's romance, many, many...

I still remember that after the end of the college entrance examination, my parents left a sum of money for me to go to a friend's house to play casually, and she and my father took advantage of the annual leave to relax.

Originally I can also be together, but they do not want to carry me this "drag bottle" in their heart. Just as I was going through a big time in my life, this 40-something couple now wants "a little freedom to rest."

The divorce experience once said: "We overcome the storm, but lost the calm after the storm."

It is because of years of wind and rain, so learned to respect each other's ideas and hobbies, no longer force, no reason to doubt.

After half a life, people to middle age, have their own time, luxury and beautiful.

At this time, just pick up those things that have wanted to do, play happily with old friends, and do a little ritual with the other half.

At this juncture, perhaps love into affection, but we have to continue to accompany each other, before busy with work, can not achieve the wish, can not take the lover to do things, can start to do.

40-year-old couple, romantic and free, enviable.

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Marriage at the age of 40 is not conquest and control, companionship is more important than everything.

Many couples do not know that the partner who gets along with them for decades is the person who knows them better than themselves, and it is lucky to have such a person around.

There was once a wife who was bringing food to her husband, and happened to see her husband holding an umbrella for a colleague on a rainy day. She returned home in front of her son and neighbors, holding a kitchen knife in one hand, and went to the roof to commit suicide.

She was eventually rescued by the police, but the tragedy did not happen, and her husband was still unaware of what had happened.

Perhaps they are too young, so do not understand, marriage should give is understanding, precipitation is trust, learn to understand.

This reminds me of a variety show in which someone talks about marriage and says that I am a very controlling person in marriage.

At this time, Carina Lau said faintly, "The most perfect control is not control."

Two people can come to this step, relying on strength, some luck, the future will not lack a variety of help, let alone understand each other.

I believe in a word, good husband and wife, always in each other fool, blind each other, protect each other.

That's something you learn when you're married. People are too smart not terrible, learn to play dumb is great wisdom.

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40 years old, found the most wanted love appearance.

At the time of marriage, the witness will ask: in sickness and in health, would you like to be with him/her?

The 20-year-old newlyweds don't know what that means yet.

After couples get married, here is just a place to talk about love, a blink of an eye to middle age, time is too fast, may blink of an eye to retirement age, may not be as strong as before, but the bones are still yearning for love.

Because the choice of the right person, so the harvest of half a life of joy and a good marriage, just empty, please do not forget, everyone's heart is hiding the most pure pursuit of love!

Love can last until old age, it can overcome time, space, disease and poverty.

The years are long, I believe that the coming days are long, and the love of husband and wife at this time has become a towering tree.

May everyone be able to embrace their loved ones at the age of 40.

Good night~

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