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There is no more important meaning in marriage than these two words

Companionship

By Shi WeiPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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There is no more important meaning in marriage than these two words
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Marriage is a long practice, slogans and reasoning can not save themselves. Only the long flow of water, slowly with time, with life to feel the temperature from each other, so that can be long.

Simply put, whether it's love or marriage, in the end, there are only two words left: companionship.

Companionship is always the most affectionate confession. However, to understand these two words, it takes a lifetime to understand, experience, and perform.

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There is no more important meaning in marriage than these two words

For most people, marriage is getting used to each other's presence and companionship. It's like the left hand pulling the right hand, like knowing what each other's next words will be without words.

The same as we are used to what kind of books we read, what style of clothes we wear, what taste of food we eat, and what brand of skin care products we are addicted to.

Marriage has been transformed from the initial passion into the presence and companionship of each other. It is like a wife who is used to her husband's snoring, when there is no sound of his snoring in her ears it will be difficult to sleep.

When the familiar can not be familiar with the people around, one day suddenly not around, you may not be hanging on, will not be thinking about, and even do not feel any change in life.

The home will inadvertently feel bigger, and a little empty, lying in bed will also sleep peacefully, but will inexplicably wake up, and can not sleep a peaceful sleep.

This is all because of the presence and company of one less person around.

This is probably how marriage is, no matter what kind of personality disagreement, what kind of friction, has long become a cup of boiled water, even if not pure fragrance, but also a necessity.

In this is not a long life, the two hand in hand to see the scenery, understanding each other's moods so that we rely on each other through the storm together to old age.

Even if it is quarrels and troubles, habits and companionship can also hold them firmly together. Sometimes the quarrel rushed out the door and came back to buy a grocery by the way.

It is a rare fate to be able to get used to a person's presence and companionship. Then it is possible to tie the knot forever and grow old.

Each person, in your life, holding each other, looking at each other, can only be the person next to you. He may be mediocre, maybe excellent, maybe beautiful, maybe ugly. The company's presence and the company will become an integral part of your life after you get used to each other.

Love in the marriage may be just a garnish, is the icing on the cake, there is love marriage may not go to the end, go to the end of the may not be happy.

The two people who do not have a love for each other will respect each other and grow old, such examples abound in reality.

Feelings may be generated instantly, so that love in the ordinary and real, by our accustomed to each other's presence and companionship in married life blandly forward.

I think this is what it means to hold the hand of a son and grow old with him.

What is marriage, no one can say clearly. The most important meaning of marriage is that I accompany you through the summer of cicadas, through the hustle and bustle of the city, and you are always by my side.

Marriage is a companionship process, in the process of each others feeling each other's hard work and trials, and relying on each other, for mutual satisfaction, and each other happiness.

This process is like aged old wine, which is how many quiet rich years can not be compared. This old wine, a sip of pure cotton taste, think of a long time and new.

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Shi Wei

I like to travel, but I don't like to arrive at my destination.

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