The 8-year-old boy "lost spirit in playing things" was complained by his parents, and the follow-up details were exposed. Netizens: I really don't blame him!

A deep and broad mind always extends the field of interest to countless things.

-- Hegel.

Recently, on Zhihu, a parent complained that he had a third-grade boy who had been addicted to Altman cards and mini-world games.

When parents are not allowed to play, he does not listen to the lecture in class and draws game pictures.

Parents found many similar game pictures in their children's schoolbags.

Seeing that he was so "unwilling to play with things," parents worried that their children were going to be useless, so they went online for help. In order to prove how addicted their children were, they also uploaded a picture of games drawn by their children.

Can see this game picture, many netizens have said that "do not have the heart to blame this child."

The comment that received the highest praise even said: I was greatly moved to see the picture of the child.

Because this is not a simple painting, but a very complete position composition, belonging to a branch of the military model, specializing in making battlefield models.

Subsequently, netizens also dismantled the child's composition in detail.

These include forward positions, infantry positions, aircraft, missiles, ammunition depots, missile squadrons, rear positions, atomic bombs, and even horses ready to flee after defeat.

Children draw very carefully, give full play to their imagination, thoughtful, thoughtful, you can see the degree of their love.

Netizens can't help sighing: the growth of the little boy is really hard.

What they like and care about is different from what their parents ask for.

"I can only try my best to respect, understand and appreciate children's paintings.

Because to understand him is to understand myself.

I still miss the ten-year-old boy in my heart, who still sleeps on the most primitive pure land in my heart. "

Every child may have his or her obsessive interests or dreams, but more parents want their children to focus on their studies.

Many parents try their best to stop and stifle their children's "dereliction of duty", but their children persevere, "despite the wildfire burning, the spring breeze will still flourish."

Or some children are forced to give in, but leave everlasting regret or pain in their hearts.

We often think that developing hobbies is a waste of time, and we would rather sacrifice our children's interests and dreams for the sake of our studies.

But life without interest and dream is boring and sad.

There may be more consequences when you deprive your child of his hobbies and ask him to study wholeheartedly and wholeheartedly.

Chang, a student in the third year of junior high school in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, began to suffer from knee pain after he was criticized by his teacher for learning problems four months ago.

At first, classmate Chang thought he was too tired and had a rest.

But with the passage of time, the hind legs hurt so much that they couldn't walk.

The parents took their son to the orthopaedics department of the hospital for a series of examinations, but the cause was not found. The doctor suggested going to the psychiatric department for examination.

When I first went to the department of psychiatry, classmate Chang couldn't even walk. My father carried it on his back to the ward.

After the doctor took psychological cues plus a small dose of antidepressants, Chang was able to walk on the ground on the third day.

The doctor said that this is a psychological symptom of torso, which is common in many children.

Because teachers and parents are pressing step by step, children's learning pressure is too great, their emotions will be out of control, and psychological pressure will be too great, which will affect their health over time.

Parents think that if their children seize all the time to study, they can improve their academic performance, but things often go against their wishes.

At the expense of physical and mental health, but also affect learning, is really the loss of husband and soldiers.

Recently, some netizens said that his 10-year-old son was depressed by himself.

No less than three times before and after the Spring Festival this year, they said, "there is no point in living."

Took medicine for soothing the liver and relieving depression, and repeatedly saw a psychiatrist.

Parents began to reflect and found that they often laugh, refuse, beat, scold and ignore their children, but forget to pay attention to their children's hearts.

Children can't do what their parents don't allow them to do.

Because of the strength of the parents, the children can only hold back.

Over time, no wonder the child is not depressed.

Professor Xu Kaiwen of the Psychological Counseling Center of Peking University first put forward the term "empty heart disease".

Nowadays, more and more young people have "empty heart disease".

Children have no interests and hobbies to relieve learning pressure, release emotions, regulate boring study and life, and have no dreams to support the future.

Although the problem lies in children, the root of the problem lies in adults.

The so-called adolescent depression and hollow heart disease are often caused by children falling ill for their parents.

Many parents' education pays too much attention to achievement, as is the case in schools, and so is the family.

The children are trapped in boring studies, day after day.

They lack sports and friends, have no time to develop interests and hobbies, and have no vision of learning, so that they can not feel the beauty of the real world.

They live according to their parents' expectations, have no choice of their own, and lose their vision for the future.

With a single score goal, they don't know what it means to be alive. When values collapse, children get confused.

Yang Zhenning said that the secret of success lies in interest.

On the surface, developing hobbies is a waste of learning time, but interest is the best teacher, and it may become a powerful motivation to promote children's learning.

Recently, a video of an 8-year-old boy in Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province, who is obsessed with spaceflight and taught himself to study rockets, has gone viral.

Five years ago, Mr. Zhang took his son to see a rocket launch, and it has been out of control ever since.

Because I like spaceflight, I gradually fell in love with astronomy, physics, military and chemistry. I taught myself by consulting relevant books and watching videos.

And have a wish: want to study rockets, and determined to enter the space agency.

Being "abused" by his son's science knowledge is the daily life of his father as an art student.

Hegel said: a deep and broad mind always extends the field of interest to countless things.

Because of his interest in spaceflight, the 8-year-old boy is not afraid of difficulties and teaches himself the relevant science knowledge, which is the powerful driving force brought by the interest.

The support of his parents made him more distracted.

Recently, a video of a "hand-drawn picture of Chinese herbal medicine" has gone viral on the Internet.

A father in Luzhou City, Sichuan Province, looking for the reason after his son's poor performance in the exam, accidentally found a hand-drawn picture of Chinese herbal medicine in his son's schoolbag.

There are not only hand drawings of all kinds of herbal images, but also words to explain their effects.

He just took a quick shot, but he didn't expect to attract widespread attention.

It has also been praised by netizens as a "modern version of the Compendium", and children are "good at traditional Chinese medicine".