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Sometimes a good divorce is better than a bad marriage.
The Power of a Mother's Love: How it Shapes a Child's Growth and Development
Children Growth and Its Love with Mother According to the Growth A mother's love is considered one of the most powerful and unconditional forms of love in the world. From the moment a child is born, a mother's love and devotion begin to shape the child's growth and development. The early years of a child's life are critical for establishing a strong bond with their mother, which has a significant impact on their physical, emotional, and social growth.
By Muhammad Talmeez 3 years ago in Families
Judging Eyes
The world was spinning...things did not make sense anymore. My head was a complete blur, my emotions a train wreck, I couldn't sort out what was up and what was down. I remember very little about being on these ADHD medications other than I did not feel like myself and I always felt trapped inside my own body, my own mind. Performing daily tasks that were expected of me like schoolwork and my household chores were excruciating because I could barely stay awake. All my brain wanted to do was shut down... I was overwhelmed and my brain was overloaded. My mother would later say that it was like looking at a zombie and at one point when she looked at me I just busted out crying for no particular reason at all. That's when she said she knew we needed to go to another doctor for yet another diagnoses. I suppose that was a good thing in the end because at least it meant I got off those dreadful ADHD medications they kept trying me on and each one making me more depressed than the one before it. So, we went to another doctor and I couldn't tell you his name only that he stared at me as he sat across from me while he spoke to my mother who sat to the left of me and they discussed me as if I were some science experiment to be examined and not a little girl sitting in the room with them. Oh sure, occasionally Dr. Whateverhisnamewas would ask me a question but the majority of his questions were directed towards my mother as if she knew more about me than me. However, I will say this by this point I was none too fond of speaking to doctors so perhaps this was for the best as well. However, I'll never forget his final diagnoses and how he came to this conclusion or at least one way he did. He glanced down his nose at me and peered through his glasses and since I felt as if I were a science experiment I, of course looked away and then he told my mother, "Look, see how she won't look at me directly in the eyes and she avoids eye contact? She most assuredly has Asperger syndrome." My head snapped up and I challenged that by looking at him directly however he did not seem to notice. I was put on a new medication that day for being mildly autistic. I felt intense shame, I thought something was wrong with me for having this what I viewed as a disease. For years, I would hide it and not tell a soul except those I got so close to in highschool that I viewed as family. I thought my ADHD and Asperger's syndrome were defects and it was not really explained to me that they are strengths instead. It was more of a here is our answer to what is wrong with you. This is why you struggle in school and why your pretty well too dumb to figure things out on your own so I put on a cloak of shame and pretended to be what my mother wanted me to be. I took her drugs she wanted me to take, I did the very best I could in school even though it still wasn't enough, I cleaned the whole house every week top to bottom because that is what was expected of me but she still came in every Thursday and informed me that I did not do things properly. I was told every Thursday that she would now have to redo the whole house because I couldn't just do things the right way the first time! Never an encouraging word did I get, never did she show me where I did things right but this is what I could do improve here... I could never please her. The times were different though right? It was the 90's. Critically judging your kids was just good parenting as it was what their parents did and their parents before them right? Well, why not guide and direct and give encouraging feedback where its deserved? When I was eleven my first sister came into this world and that began a whole new journey that I was not prepared for...
By Lindsey Altom3 years ago in Families
The Power of a Smile
I remember a small moment in my life that had a big impact on me. I was going through a difficult time and felt like everything was going wrong. I was walking down the street with my head down, lost in my thoughts, when a stranger passing by flashed me a warm smile.
By Mohammad Arsalan Rather3 years ago in Families
How Well Do You Really Know Your Partner? Answer:
When it comes to relationships, communication is key. Even if you think you know your partner pretty well, there is always room for improvement. Every person is unique and complex, with different thoughts, feelings, and experiences that shape who they are. As such, it's essential to keep the lines of communication open to continue getting to know your partner on a deeper level.
By Stefan Toader3 years ago in Families
The Afghani-American War: A Legacy of Complexity and Controversy
The Afghani-American war, which began in 2001, has been one of the longest and most complicated conflicts in modern history. It has taken countless lives, cost trillions of dollars, and has had a profound impact on both the Afghan and American societies. In this article, we will discuss the origins of the war, the major events and developments throughout its course, and the current state of affairs.
By Muhammad Talmeez 3 years ago in Families
Nevertheless...She Persisted!"
Maria was a devoted mother to her two children, a boy and a girl. She had always dreamt of providing them with a better life, but after her husband passed away, she faced significant challenges. As a single mother, she struggled to make ends meet, but she never gave up hope.
By Stephen Milton3 years ago in Families
Co-Parenting Effectively After a California Divorce
Communication strategies to maintain a healthy relationship with your co-parent Effective communication strategies are essential when navigating the challenges of co-parenting after a divorce online in California. By setting clear boundaries and expectations while also focusing on positive interactions with your ex-partner, you can build a foundation for successful cooperation in raising your children post-divorce.
By Alicia Nixon3 years ago in Families
The importance of being loved in life.
The importance of being loved in life cannot be overstated. Love is the driving force behind many of our actions, thoughts, and feelings, and it can have a significant impact on our overall mental and physical well-being. Being loved by others is a fundamental human need that affects us on a personal, social, and emotional level. In this article, I will explore the reasons why being loved is so important, and the impact it has on our lives.
By Amille Porback3 years ago in Families
The Challenging Journey of Navy Petty Officers: Battling the Rough Nature of the Sea and Professional Limitations
The life of a naval petty officer is not for the faint of heart. It requires hard work, resilience, and a deep commitment to duty. However, the rewards are significant, and the experiences gained are unique.
By Hüseyin TETİK3 years ago in Families
