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It takes a village to raise a family; advice and tips to make the most of yours.
Appreciate Our Time in Life
Time never stands still for anyone in this world. We need to make sure we cherish every moment we have in life. They say life is short but honestly it is the longest thing we have. We should appreciate what we have during this time though as we take for granted so many things in this life. With love being one of them.
By Mani Sacasa3 years ago in Families
Special Needs Parenting: Navigating the Extraordinary Journey Together
When the journey of parenting starts we are under the illusion that this will be a breeze and in most cases this is true. However, there are the many wherein this is not the truth. Being parents is a journey you embark on with your significant other that us filled with joy, love and challenges. That being said special needs parenting is a whole different ball game. This journey is a constant battle which can be rewarding emotionally but also incredibly demanding and more often than none takes a massive toll on your relationship.
By Tracey te Braake3 years ago in Families
Some Advice From The Generations of My Family
When I was about 5 or 6 I encountered my first person with special needs. I asked my dad about it because kids on the bus said some pretty mean things to the boy. My dad told me that every person I would ever meet in my life would know something I didn't, it was my job in life to learn something from each and every person I met. To prove his point he asked me if I knew the boys name. I did not. Dad simply said "He does, ask him". So the next day on the bus I did ask him. And as I talked to him I found out that if you told him a date in any year in history he could tell you what day of the week it fell on. It became the game everyone on the bus played with him instead of picking on him. My dad is full of words of wisdom. He said things like "anything one human has done another human can do". This one came out when I was struggling to acomplish some difficult task and I was frustrated. He woulod never step in and do it for me, he just reminded me someone else had managed it and so would I. I can't tell you how much this built my self confidence and self worth. He also said "be nice, it doesn't cost any extra". I love that one I have shared it with my kids. Speaking of kids when I had my first one, his first grandchild he told me "never ask them what they want to eat. By the time I had 4 under the age of 6 I understood how wise that advice was. I can't think of any advice my birth mother gave me, I'm not sure if she never did or if I just never listened to her. Either one is possible. She left us when I was 5 and was completely out of my life from 10 to almost 30 and passed away when I was 44. To say we weren't close is an understatement. But I can say this, there is no one on earth that effected the way I parented more than she did, as in if she did it, it had to be the wrong choice so I did the opposite. I have 4 adult children who I like and they like me so I think my choices worked out. Hers not so much. She had 5 children and none of them had much to do with her as adults. She lived out her days completely alone. My Step mother on the other hand was full of good advice and wise words. She taught me so much I can't begin to share all of it but I will share one of her best ones ever. "Never miss an opportunity to empty your bladder!" Her parents both passed when I was young, grampa when I was 5 and grandma when I was 9. My grandfather had a grade school education and he married two teachers. He used to say a fancy education is a waste, Unless you want to be a dr or something all you need to learn is how to read, once you know that you can teach yourself anything you ever want to know. And he lived by that. He was poorly educated but very well read. I have embraced that and passed it on to my kids. Of course we all get educated past elementary school now but I try to stay curious if I am interested in something I learn as much as I can about it until I am satisfied. My kids are experts in some very interesting topics because they have done the same. My mothers mother was a teacher a la "Little House on The Prarie". She tought by the term in one room schools mostly. Later in life she taught in some bigger schools with separate classes. She was constantly correcting grammar. You did not use lazy english in front of her. From her I developed a love of words and the sentences, paragraphs and books they make up. The last gift she gave me was the complete set of "Little House" books. I fell in love with reading and then later writing. I have much to thank her for. My Dad's dad had a little saying for everything. If you asked him how he was he would tell you "I am just as fine as frog's hair, and twice as rare". He made light of frustrations with a limerick or a story. Instead of throwing the wrench he called the bolt a dirty pig. He taught me a lot about patience and good humor. I will forever be greatful. He also never wasted anything. He lived in the absolute midldle of nowhere. There was no popping into a shop for a little thing. You kept what you might use later and fixed what you had. I am always inclined to try to solve a problem without throwing money at it. My Dad's mother was more about advice I didn't take. She said things like "Heather you can always marry for love the second time". My husband and I have never been wealthy but we have been in love for 31 years. She was also a bit of a racist and I ignored everything she ever told me about people with a diffenent color skin. But she wasn't all negative. She was a hard worker and she had a soft spot for baby animals. I watched her nurse all kinds of critters back to health. My own additions are just things I tell my kids. Like "Never eat anything that smells like death." and "Just smile and wave to everyone, it makes them wonder what you are up to"
By Bob manuel3 years ago in Families
The Maze of Contraception
Today, I want to shine a light on a topic that often lingers in the shadows: contraception. My personal experience with contraception has been a journey filled with decisions, considerations, and a pursuit of reproductive freedom. In this comprehensive article, I will take you through my voyage of using contraception, sharing the challenges and victories that have shaped this path toward reproductive health.
By Zain Fonda3 years ago in Families
Gardening and Family Bonding
Once upon a time, in a quaint suburban neighborhood, there lived the Thompson family: James, Sarah, and their two children, Emma and Liam. Their story is a heartwarming tale of how a simple garden transformed their lives and brought them closer together.
By Heroes Paul Mmanjamwada3 years ago in Families
Tiny Hands, Big Hearts
In today's fast-paced and ever-dynamic world, it is easy for family values to become lost in the shuffle. With advancements in technology and an emphasis on individual success, the importance of family and its values have often taken a backseat. However, it is never too early to instill these fundamental principles in our children, and primary students are the perfect age to begin teaching them.
By Fahmy Farook3 years ago in Families
