Mother, a feeling is not a word.

life journey of a mother

'Mother' is not just a word but that lovely feeling that stays with a person from his childhood till his last breath. 'Mother' is that magic word, which when mentioned, creates a cute, smiling picture of Mother in front of my eyes. Such is the mother, different from the world, the most separated, our dear little mother. No matter how small or how big the injury, no matter where you live in any corner of this country, no matter what language you speak, these two words definitely come out of every child's mouth 'Oh mother' .

The more pain you feel when you get hurt, the more it hurts the mother who can never see you in pain. But have you ever wondered what feelings this mother of yours must have gone through? How must have been his childhood, what memories he would have taken with him, how many dreams he must have sacrificed for your happiness, she must have been like you at some point? Yes, this mother of yours whose day begins with you, the night ends with you, the one who jumps with your happiness, cries herself after seeing you sad. That mother, how would her childhood have been?

Like you, she will also be her father's darling and her mother's best friend. She too will have grown up in her own house with as much grace as you. Just like you do pranks, in the same way that darling would also do mischief. Sometimes she would have to be scolded by her mother and sometimes by her father.

She must have played a lot from house to house with her siblings and sometimes she would have also become a bride in sports, but Nadaan did not know that it was not just a game, she had to go to another house as a bride one day.

On one of his wishes, his father would run and fulfill it and his mother would also cook and feed him his favorite food. Yes, the mother whose dear you are today, she will also be the beloved of her parents.

When the mother would have grown up and there would have been mention of her marriage at home, she must have been irritated like you get irritated on this topic. If she said then she would definitely say, "I will not marry, I will not go anywhere except you and this house." At that time her father must have said by placing a hand on her head, "Daughter, one day every girl should have her own house.

You have to go, you also have to go.” Her mind must have been very sad on this matter, she must have also thought that if her house was somewhere else, then why did she stay in that house for so many years. When he had to be alien, why did he pamper him so much? Millions of questions must have come to her mind, but she must have been passing the day silently and one day finally the hour must have come when she had to leave her house and go to another house.

I must have been very happy that I was going to start a new journey of life with a life partner, but at the same time my mother, father, brother, sister, friend, grandfather, and grandmother must have cried bitterly. The heart must be sitting thinking that how will you be able to live in a new house, among new people, if the house is far away from it, then when you remember everyone, how will they come running to meet. How will her in-laws, her new relatives, and new relationships be handled? But he had to go, the alien wealth that was there, he must have wiped away his tears, must have held his heart, and must have set out to establish a new world with his life partner.

After marriage, it would have been difficult for some time, would have cried alone in memory, sometimes used to go home, used to eat food from her mother's hand. Mother would have explained to him how to live in his in-laws' house, how to handle relationships. After listening to everyone, she would have adopted these things in her life. She had to take care of her in-laws and also her maternal uncle because both the houses were hers or not.

Then after some time there came a time in his life whose realization would have been the most beautiful for him. The feeling of keeping you in my womb, the feeling of giving a new life. Only she knows how she must have spent those nine months. Yes, every day, every moment he must have lived with you, now he must have taken care of you, not himself. He must have made a lot of mind to do something, to go somewhere, to eat the food of his choice, but every time he must have killed his mind because whatever you had to bring into this world.

When you came to this world, she must have gone through a lot of pain, she would not have understood how to bear this pain, but everyone had to bear it because now what you wanted more than yourself. When he first took you in his lap, with tears in his eyes and smile on his lips, he must have kissed your forehead and kissed you on your chest and expressed his innumerable feelings.

After you came into this world, your life became his life. Not getting enough sleep for you, not being able to eat properly, always taking care of you, loving you. Now where did she care about herself, because now after your spouse and in-laws, you were the only one whom she had to take care of.

When you have started going to school, then your tiffin, food, clothes, all these will have spent his time. You must have eaten food by feeding you first and yourself last. Now the same mother who used to say that she will not leave her maternal home, even after being called again and again, she is unable to go to her maternal home because now where would she get time by taking care of you and her in-laws. When she used to go to her house and her mother used to make her favorite kheer, she would say, “Maa kheer rahe do halwa bana do,” because that's what you like pudding. Now where did he care about his likes and dislikes, now you were his world.

Mother must have smiled when she saw her daughter (my sister) like this because that mother too must have gone through all these feelings that your mother has gone through.

No matter how old you become, why not go to any corner of the world, for a mother you are her little child. Even today she cares about you as much as she was in childhood. Even today she is unable to stay away. On one of your sorrows, her heart breaks into pieces, every day, every moment in your prayers, you remember her because this is how mother is, she lives not for herself, for her child i.e. for me, prayers for her child The sheets are sewn.

She will never tell you what has happened to bring you into this world because she is not a mother, where does she ever express anything, where does she tell her sorrows. It starts with you every morning and ends with you every night, this idol filled with self-surrender and love, that is why it is called the most beautiful creation in the world.