Husbands should think twice

Marriage and committed relationships come with their responsibilities.

Don't be discouraged by marriage statistics. The institution of marriage is not fading. We have not been able to adapt ourselves to the new conditions.

Maintaining romance in marriage is an art that is learned subtly over time and then deepens the love over time.

Marriage statistics show that the institution of marriage is losing its existence. People now prefer to be alone. At first glance, the decline in the institution of marriage seems to be the cause, but not so thin. There are several reasons why marriage is declining. Opponents of the institution of marriage may say anything, but it was and will remain an integral part of our culture. Maybe in time, those who turn away from it will again be in favor of it.

Understanding responsibility is a significant cause for a successful marriage. We cannot equate it with the symbol of free lunch.

Don't be discouraged by marriage statistics. The institution of marriage is not disappearing. Somewhere along the way, we are struggling to adapt. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person.

Maintaining romance in marriage is vital, and it can deepen love over time.

Couples who have been in love for decades maintain romance with some basic activities based on mutual respect and good manners.

They do not have to speak loudly.

Happy couples listen to each other, correct their mistakes, listen to comments.

They adapt to the situation, find solutions, and surprise each other with the gift of acknowledging the past.

I grew old two years ago. Now I have all kinds of immunities of a senior citizen. There is a beautiful desire for everything new. If a man is newly married, he enjoyed like a kind for a couple of years. Then all of a sudden, He realized what I did.

After another couple of years, he thought differently. He unlearned the pleasure and attained real happiness.

Now he is a husband, father, responsible, social activist, and successful person.

Somebody ask me once, it won't happen with every person

My answer was simple, if he is still a husband with the same Wife, my statement is correct. I did not say that others, who chose a different path, are not having the same fate. It depends, and I am writing with limited views, which suit my present script.

I am not debating anything. I am writing a short episode on husbands, so take it as it is.

Now the man becomes grandfather, and the situation change. You are not expecting the same attitude from your Wife because she is now grandmother, mother, and many other relations, not just with you only.

Outside is good whether, it is your day off, you are relaxed. You remember the old days. Suddenly you saw your Wife attractively.

You make some hypotheses. It does not mean your Wife is floating in the same boat.

Maybe she is knitting socks for her grandson or granddaughter. Perhaps she is thinking of buying a nice gift for his son on his birthday.

You may walk to your Wife and said, "Hi Honey, you look gorgeous today."

She won't be impressed because she knew you for thirty-five years. You did lots of right things at the wrong time. Everybody respects you as Oldman, but she knows who you are and what is cooking in your mind.

It would help if you asked something about her knitting skills, but you made up your mind according to your thinking.

When she starts to avoid you and stop responding and not even listen to you, you think differently. You might think she got a problem with hearing.

You are good too, except for some bad habits. The Wife knows everything.

You used to go for your doctor's opinion.

The husband went to the doctor and complained that my Wife is not listening to me; I don't know, she has started listening loudly. "Can you check her hearing?"

The doctor replied, "First, you have to see if she hears aloud or if she doesn't want to hear you."

"Then how do we know?"

The doctor advised, "When you go home today, call your Wife ten steps away, for whatever reason. If it does not answer, then decrease the distance to five degrees. If she still doesn't listen, it's a matter of concern. Go two steps further.

Probably a lot of problems. If she still can't hear, ask from one step distance. Stay back so he doesn't get distracted by the movement of your lips."

"Well, that's what husband did.

When the husband reached home, he saw his Wife cooking in the kitchen. It was a great opportunity. He said from the living room, "Darling, what are you making for dinner today?"

No response. The husband went closer, repeated the question, no answer.

The husband was worried and thought that she had almost deaf.

He took two steps forward and then approached and said, "Darling, what are you making for dinner?"

The Wife quit her job and turned around and said, "Why are you screaming? The same question is being asked like crazy. I'm saying four times; it's becoming chicken, can't hear you? Are you deaf?"

Darwin's theory of evolution believes that human beings' limbs would disappear if stems were not used. Lots of hair disappeared, the tail is disappeared. Hands got shorter.

Now, if husbands don't listen to their Wives, they might lose their hearing power.

We should ask scientists, only husbands will lose hearing power, or we all would lose.

Scientists are working on it.