Then who will stay, next to the children in the black ocean
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Please note that the Podcast episode may contain heavy emotions so Please consider before choosing to stay and listen. Discovering her search history, she fell into crisis when she had trouble sleeping for many nights. Using many ways to sleep, even looking for sleeping pills to be able to sleep. It's been a few hours, but her mind is full of negative thoughts. She doesn't sleep, but dreams of herself lying there, red water soaked in flowers, and her hair, but the corners of her eyes are dry without a trace. She thinks about death a lot and tries to find happiness to forget those negative emotions, but it seems like the negative emotions always win. So she keeps herself busy maintaining her hobbies. like her own, but in every drawing in every measure to drink that gloomy color But the pain of fins suffocated her body for a day She wanted to end the hand that wrote Maybe her eyes were closed tightly suddenly her image The little girl lay there in a daze, but now there were tears from her mother's emaciated face. Her mother had discovered her search history. Her mother had discovered her intention to end her life. I cried and cried a lot and hugged my daughter. Tell me, did I do anything wrong? I'm sorry. Let's go see the doctor. The doctor will cure you. Let me cry. I'm so heartbroken. I'm sorry. wishing that she was important enough to someone but then realizing that if she was truly important to someone maybe the one who would be hurt in the end would be them her thoughts were so contradictory that she just wanted to be someone who was enough They put it in their hearts and remember it, but sometimes it's better for them to forget you or ignore you because when they touch you more or less, they will still be a little hurt. Is it necessary to become important to someone? She doesn't know she just wants to be held in their arms and cherished tenderly little by little. They will remember her when they see something they miss what she likes they remember what she hates and will avoid those things it's simply her. To be cared for and hugged tightly, she craves warmth, but sometimes she also wants to run away when she is mentally unstable. She knows she could die at any moment. She is afraid of hugs and craves them like crazy. Yes, she's still afraid of being left behind like that, so she always builds a barrier for herself or has her own rules like she wo n't rely on someone completely even if it hurts to death because of her. knowing that once she leans on her, she will completely lean on her and lose her fulcrum, then she will be a corpse floating in the cold ocean without an island, then gradually submerged by old memories and negativity. of myself, then who will stay next to the children in the black ocean? Surely there are mothers, fathers, families, lovers, friends, pets and even strangers who have never met them, but the children The kids still seem to be upset about that, where is the black ocean? Try Googling the keyword black ocean and you won't see any pictures of the dark sea. Does that mean it doesn't exist? No, the black ocean is a deep water area located in the center of the Atlantic Ocean also known as the atlant ocean a pics of the deep delta in the atlantic ocean the name black ocean is not an official name and is not used by scientists This scientific name was given by people because when they saw it, they saw the cold darkness and extreme mystery of the black ocean with a depth of up to 6,000m, so there was not a single bit of sunlight there. can penetrate and reach this deep water area, how the black ocean was formed, not to mention the superior geographical knowledge, how the geological tables have moved and collided to create such a harsh environment. So this Podcast episode will tell you how a child's black ocean is formed. The black ocean starts from a rain that is not so big that it causes the children to collapse immediately, just pretending to be miserable from day one. Day after day, the cold water came out of them. Then the rain covered a terrible area. The children could not see the end of the dark clouds, and did not know where to run to get out of the water. They kept walking. under the umbrellas and sent out calls for help that were never acknowledged. They tried to find a way to fight or get used to it. Some of them kept running until they were exhausted and collapsed. Some of them found a place. shelter or a group of umbrellas for themselves. There are those who can't wait for the sun to rise and choose an extreme way to escape, and there are some who have adapted so well that they don't want to run away to find sunny places again year after year. The rain kept pouring down and mixed with the salty taste of tears and gradually accumulated until one day, around the children was a vast space filled with water without a trace of light and the children remained in the ocean. Whether a lifetime of depression comes from genes from harsh childhood experiences from toxic family relationships from a cold social environment or all of the above factors combined can only be concluded at present. that there is no single cause of depression. Depression has biological reasons, psychological reasons and social reasons. These factors also interact with each other, making it increasingly difficult to determine the cause of depression. It's harder for depression to attack anyone, children, the elderly, teenagers, middle-aged men and women. I do n't know how destructive depression can be. I really don't know the pain that those children are having to endure. No matter how terrible it is, it's like the bottom of the sea thousands of meters deep and no one dares to venture down to explore. It seems like no one really understands what the black ocean in the hearts of children is like. What do we know about the world of these people? depression is nothing but do you really want to know what the world wrapped in a black ocean looks like? When you Google the keyword black ocean you won't find any sea that you are looking for. Seeing that the books among them are the ones by author Dang Hoang Giang, I have to confess that I couldn't read this book all at once. I had to divide my reading into smaller sections. I felt like I was suffocating. and need long breaks after the next week, the author also has to warn readers as soon as they enter part 1 of the book. The real stories here can cause heavy feelings, I hope you read them. Note that everyone does not want to give themselves more negative emotions on videos about books about depression, but why is that posted? There are comments saying that if you are normal, please do not choose to read those books. Negative emotions are indeed very contagious. Pain will haunt more severely than joy of similar volume. It not only takes place directly from person to person but also through intermediaries such as sound, video, and audio. images of things and events through the Sword neural system when an emotion is experienced by a person and lasts for a long time, it will become his and her own emotions at that moment. Feelings of emotional contagion are like a story that haunts me in the book Black Ocean by Dang Hoang Giang. I just told the story of Uyen and Hien, 21 years old, who grew up witnessing their father often beating their mother. With a deep mental trauma, Uyen was in 11th grade. The first signs of post- traumatic stress disorder appeared, causing her to shrink both physically and mentally and just want to die, but her parents did not. If anyone admits the existence of that disease, they think she's pretending that they don't fight anymore, so there's no reason for her to suffer like that. Hien is Uyen's boyfriend. The two of them dated online. Before moving forward, Uyen had warned her about her illness in advance and now thought it would help. She went online to read documents to mentally prepare herself for 7 months after meeting and living separately with her. Uyen Hien became depressed and committed suicide. What's scary is that she's a gentle, normal person who's not afraid of crowds. She always wants to share, talk, and connect with Uyen. From someone who understands that living with depressed people requires a lot of love and affection. knowledge I don't feel weak or tired I don't feel bothered I don't blame me I know my girlfriend is not okay my only concern is how to take better care of the person I love How to make my lover not It's dangerous for my girlfriend not to end her life. I just feel very worried and very anxious. I don't want to lose another friend. I already lost a friend and in a pretty close college group, he broke out. His going made me so scared that I'm haunted to this day. When he was still alive, there were times when I was quite indifferent to him. I'm too lazy to text him. Reply now. His picture always reminds me not to let anyone know. If any of their friends are gone, depression is so scary. No child wants to drag their loved ones far away from the Quagmire they're stuck in. That might be the reason why those kids are still on the fence because they're afraid. hurt people around them after noon, I stopped reading, I felt confused if depression could spread like that. Who would dare to come close and stay with the children diving in the area? That bottomless water, later when I read more documents and videos shared by other psychologists, I realized that those children have to save themselves. Who will stay next to the children in the ocean? There is no one in that deep darkness. No one wants to stay. Don't misunderstand. No one who is normal wants to throw themselves into the Quagmire with no way out. But they will know about that dark water. They know the children there and they will will come, they won't stay, they will find a way to help both of them escape, they will give the children the necessary tools and teach them how to swim and breathe in a way to save themselves. How to help the children? That child reconsidered Hien's case in the above story. The source may have come from the fact that although he was mentally prepared to deal with Uyen's illness, he forgot to strengthen his energy protection layer. Because I want to focus my attention on Uyen, I'm gradually cutting off relationships with friends. Hien doesn't go out, doesn't hang out, doesn't connect with friends anymore. They just stick together. Her parents love Hien very much and are willing to help. I'm willing to help but I'm not telling anything right now. I'm afraid my parents are worried. Hien doesn't want to be an economic and mental burden for them because she has now disconnected herself, so both children are drowning in deep waters. The healing process for depressed people takes a long time and of course during that process their negative energy can have an adverse effect on the person supporting them and this support person can feel the strain. helplessness, anger, fear, sadness, and boredom in the process of accompanying the sick person, so we don't always have to pay attention and always worry about the depressed person, but we need to relax and stay healthy to help them. When your internal energy is depleted, you need to refill it from external factors. Spend time with other positive relationships to harmonize your mind and emotions. Doing so will help. Help depressed people understand that they are not involved or a burden to us and gradually they will open up more. It is also important to note that when helping depressed people, do not arbitrarily give advice. Advise those people that this is the expertise of neurologists and psychologists, so if you discover that someone around you has signs of depression, advise them to see a qualified doctor so they can come up with solutions. Without any other treatment, any advice from a non-professional can become an invisible threat, creating danger for people with depression, so advising them to see a doctor is the only way. The only and most reasonable solution is that people with depression often know how to pretend to be happy, so telling them ways to become happy is almost useless. Don't say much. Don't teach them what to do. That principle, sometimes people understand it better than you, they just can't do it, don't be indifferent and deny their pain, say Oh, don't overdo it, I think it's normal. Many people in their families are full of more terrible things, it's okay to be positive, it's probably because you have too much free time and nothing to do, so you think this nonsense comes from such prejudices of indifference and denial. general ignorance about depression, people think that this is a state of sadness and depression that everyone has and it will pass as long as people make a little effort. Comments on the word depression are used. quite comfortable in everyday life, we often encounter complaints like oh my god it's raining again, we can't go out, so depressed, even young people even tease each other online, don't be too happy, depression later This cass episode 1 hopes that we will have a different perspective on this disease so that we can choose to listen, read, learn, write down lines related to the topic of depression, which has never been easy for both you and me. Ordinary people and even children are stuck in the black ocean, but I believe that articles, books, and podcasts like this will gradually change society's perspective on the importance of mental health. Feeling cold is real, it happens to anyone, it's so scary that just thinking about it makes you feel okay, so let's hold each other in the loneliest moments, love and sympathize with each other so that at least we know. I always have someone I love that I hope to see in the morning every day and even you, please open your heart to ease the pain and feel the care that you deserve to receive. End your life to escape. Suffering is never the solution that a person should choose, so instead of romanticizing and worshiping sadness in an extreme way, we always have the choice to look at life with more realistic eyes. Beauty is different from the beauty in all life around you. I hope that these books and podcasts like this will be the companions for the weak child to dare to stand up and leave the dark ocean behind the door of his home. Or you can also join me in drawing sparkling stars surrounding the intricate lines on the arms of the children that you are trying to love and protect. We are getting very close to those Late sunny days.
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