How To Be A Good Man

How to be a good men

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There are few little things to be a good men

Change is the rule of life. Everyone has unique qualities. We all have what we deserve to have, but if you are looking to improve yourself from your current situation, the you have to check and remove your errors.

without proper guidance, it is difficult to be a better man in life. i hope these simple steps will lead you in a right path.

1. love yourself

2. be ambitious in your own way

3. don’t crumble under pressure

4. be a man of your word

5.hold yourself accountable

6. give respect and expect in return

7. always be yourself

8. take the lead in situations

9. be a better man that people look up to

10. be manly

11. learn to control anger and jealousy

12. love others without judgment

13. speak when need

love yourself:

Practice self-compassion and self-respect. Understand your strength and weakness, your faults and you are human and nobody is perfect in his own. Always enjoy your own company and don’t explore it. Take a good care of yourself mentally, physically, spiritually and accompany yourself with people who respect and help you in developing your personality.

be ambitious in your own:

Men are naturally ambitious. All men want to be a best winner and have the admiration and respect for people around them. You should set a goal for yourself and stay tuned with your goals. Define your idea of success by your own. If you can’t identify your goals go through yourself and find the ambition then head in the direction.

3. don’t crumble under pressure:

As a leader you might faces the problem frequently in any situation and overcome the critical situations. Instead of getting emotional, panic and got into the pressure you should stay strong and clear-Headed in situations. Take this critical situations as a way to improve, learn and grow. People respect, appreciate and look up to such a person who can stay strong under pressure.

4. be a man of your word:

Be a man of your word so that people can respect and trust your word. A respected man honors his promises and stick to it no matter what. Men who lies, cheat, break the promises, and turn back on what they promises are not respected by others. Always remember to promise on things what you can and if can't , tell the truth straightaway. By doing this, you will be respected for your honesty.

5.hold yourself accountable:

The main difference between a man and an immature person is that men are responsible. Respected men take responsibilities, accept their obligations are accountable for their actions.

BY the way people don't look for excuses to be successful, they hunt for the way to be successful, until they achieve it.

6. give respect and expect in return:

Successful people respect others and expect respect in return. Men should admire others, but they should expect respect in return. If your are not treated well and not given respect, then your generosity is either not value at work, then ask for a raise or for a promotion. If you give generously to a friend, expect and even claim that he show you respect and behave kindly towards you.

7. always be yourself:

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”

-Bruce Lee

The pressure from the outer world can influence who you are. The world is continually developing, it is very important for you to be yourself for learning to be happy and self-assured in your own skin.

8. take the lead in situations:

People respect those who leap forward to handle challenging situations. Generally those people are not admired, who stand back and look for others to resolve the problem. Some people avoid taking the lead because of fear of criticism. They think playing safe is a better option. A man should work out of his comfort zone and take the lead to find solutions. The more you act like a leader, the more respected you will be as a man.

9. be a better man that people look up to:

Try to live your daily life constructing your decisions and actions on the philosophy of “leading by example.” by doing so you will able to increase the levels of long-term confidence to develop the faith that everything else will fall into place as it is meant to. Your character will inspire others around you to also begin applying your model in their lives. You will be someone people can follow, a leader of strength in this world.

10. be manly:

Being manly does not mean being macho. A better man possesses positive qualities of determination, strength, confidence, high moral qualities, honesty and integrity. A true man has the courage to deal with difficult situations, discomfort or challenges without backing away despite his fear.

11. learn to control anger and jealousy:

Anger, love, fear, jealousy and sympathy, all kinds of emotions are part of our life, but negative emotions like anger or jealousy towards others, can leave you in difficult situations. Dissolve these negative emotions by changing your primary beliefs of insecurity and mental predictions. To be a better man, maintain control over your attention so you can deliberately change your mental projection and the negative emotions you feel. Most respected men can sense the emotion of situation, but they can retain and control their emotions.

12. love others without judgment:

To be loved and respected, love others without judgment because its leads to confusion. You will face situations in which some people might do or say things that would be meaningless or immature for you, but you need to be open minded because that might be their understanding of the world about the situation. So, rather than being superior, smarter, wiser and better than others, just love them without judgment.

13. speak when need:

Words are powerful! Always try to show a positive intention and keep your words sincere. A few kind words can enlighten and uplift others. Speaking good words with positive intention is the foundation of healthy relationships.