Educate children with cultivation, temperament and poise

See your child's way of education through his or her behavior

1、If your child likes to condemn others, it is because you criticize him too much.

2. If your child likes to complain about everything, it is because you are always picking on him.

3、If your child likes to confront, it is because you are hostile and forceful to him.

4、If your child is not kind enough, it is because you are a person who lacks compassion.

5、If your child is timid, it is because he is often taunted and abused.

6、If your child does not tell you what's on his mind, it's because you catch the child's words and turn over old scores.

If your child does not know right from wrong, it is because you are authoritarian and do not give your child the opportunity to be independent and think.

8、If your child has low self-esteem, it is because you are always disappointed in your child and cannot encourage him/her patiently.

9、If your child is jealous, sensitive, and afraid of being hurt, it is because his family is not tolerant and warm.

10、If your child does not like himself, it is because you lack acceptance, recognition, and respect for him.

11、If your child is not motivated and does not work hard, it is because you ask too much of him and he cannot do it.

12、If your child is selfish, it is because you are too spoiled for him and give him what he wants.

13, if your child does not understand the pains of parents, because you have not taught him to understand others.

14、If your child is retreating and running away, it is because he is being belittled and hit by you.

15、If your child is lazy and dependent, it is because you do too much for your child and make too many decisions.

16、If you are controlled by your child, it is because you are afraid to discipline them severely, always begging them.

17、If your child lies and cheats, it is because you are not tolerant enough and like to punish your child.

18、If your child is indifferent and attacks others, it is because you are too sarcastic and cold-hearted to him.

19、If your child is violent, it is because you often use violence to deal with your child's problems.

20、If your child is not strong-willed and afraid of difficulties, it is because you do not allow him to exercise.

The above three conditions indicate that your family's education is in a "sub-healthy" state.

If you have the above four conditions, you should pay attention to your education methods.

If you have the above five conditions, it means that your home education has serious problems and you must ask for expert guidance!

What to teach your children

1, when others pour water, do not watch, but hold it with your hand, to show courtesy

2, others speak to you, you should at least be able to answer the words, not people say the first sentence, you have no next sentence, or just say ah ah ah, yes yes yes.

3, when someone is staring at you do not look directly at each other, pretend not to notice.

4, if the mood is bad, then good skin care products and cosmetics can not remedy the skin.

5, poor sleep, will make people have incoherent speech, slow reactions, and dark circles under the eyes.

6, others release "toxic gas" when you can not disgustingly dodge or take the hand fan, pretending as if nothing happened.

7, when reprimanded by the leader, do not bow your head, to look directly at the leader, said to accept the criticism, the leader's fire will slowly subside, otherwise, the leader will be fueled by fire. (Many tx feel that this article is not very good. We look at it, the specific situation or analyze the specific ~)

8. a woman's life can not be palms up to men to spend money.

9. eat dinner when retreating to say: "I'm done eating, you guys slow with."

10. people handing water and food must be handed.　　　

11. Do not sit up in a chair　　　　

12. Eat with your bowl, don't pick at your plate. Don't knock your bowl with chopsticks.　　　

13. Remember to close the door with your hand when you are the last one to enter

14. Send people away to say: "Take care."

15. Wash your hands do not shake hands, water will be thrown at others is very rude

16. hand someone a knife to remember to hand the end of the knife handle

17. Do not reveal the shortcomings of others

18. Listen to others when talking, do not wander your eyes. This looks very rude.

19. Help others pour tea and water after the spout does not face others

20. Stand with a standing face, and sit with a sitting face.

21. When you encounter the kind of door that can be opened from the inside out, pull rather than push. (Several students feel that this article is harsh .... Well, please automatically ignore it ...)

22. said it must be done. Do not promise if you can not do it.

23. Do not be greedy for small bargains do not be greedy for money, money and then there is a time to spend it all

24. When there are people in the house, go out to close the door with a light hand

25. The world does not believe in tears.

26. Instead of spending empty thoughts to keep men, let men spend empty thoughts to keep themselves

27. people poor will not be short

28. When serving rice or tea to others, if the interval between people, do not pass in front of others to pass, but from the back of others to pass around

29. own ability is the real ability

30. Learn to be gentle and learn to listen

31. Go to someone's home, do not sit on their bed

32. clink glasses with others at the table, their cup must be lower than the other party's, especially if the other party is an elder or leader, when toasting to stand up, to show respect

33. clear with an umbrella, full of dry food - always good to prepare for a rainy day.

34. If you ask someone and they don't answer you, don't keep asking with a dead face.

35. try not to make a sound when eating

36. pick up things or shoes when you squat down, do not bend over and pout --- we are girls

37. when others criticize you, even if he is wrong, do not first argue, wait for everyone to calm down and then explain

38. do things in moderation, whether it's binge eating your favorite food or a temper tantrum

39. to a friend's house after dinner, to take the initiative to help wash the dishes to clean the table ----- master cooking is already very hard, and can not also let the host clean up afterward

40. life will meet all kinds of people, and you can not be with everyone, but one thing is universally true: how you treat others, how others will treat you

41. Hospitality has to be big, and the family has to be small

42. take back the fist is to a more powerful return

43. People live in this world, and the first thing to learn a "forbearance" word

44. Any time anyone do not easily tell each other your secrets

45. Money is not saved, will spend to earn

46. Learning is endless, not only to learn book knowledge but also to learn how to deal with people, society is far more complex than you think

47. Do not talk to colleagues about the boss or other colleagues of the right and wrong, your thoughtless words are likely to become evidence of others to combat you

48. Do things, do a good job is your part, do a bad job is your dereliction of duty

49. Only the wrong buy, no wrong sell. Do not just be greedy little cheap.

50. Sometimes it is normal to be alone, do not be afraid, to adjust themselves