Families logo

Do you know that you are the most unique one?

Find your value

By Brze VecchiPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
Like

We used to put a lot of emphasis on the so-called standardized model, but we have been pursuing intellectualize, generalization, standardization, or the so-called commonality.

In short, how can I make my children become like others, how can I pursue generality, commonality, or the so-called socialized standards that we all agree on?

When we were children and when we were dealing with children, we adults wanted our children to be the same as others. We not only want to be the same as others, but we also want to be in that "same" standard, preferably the "upper" standard, or even the "upper" standard.

But that is still under the "same" standard. Later I found out that this concept is completely wrong. Because later on in your life, you are not the same as anyone else

Personal Unique

Then I realized that our education is in fact to help each person to find out what is different from others, and to encourage him to pursue individuality, or even difference, or even uniqueness.

So, this is an important statement: "You should not be afraid to be different from others, because originally you are different from others." Because you've never been the same as anyone else. You've never been normal either, and you don't even need to be normal.

Every one of you, including many college students nowadays, is very confused because many external conditions speak to them, they want to show their individuality and creativity, they want very much to be seen by others, and they want very much to present their uniqueness.

But then we have a past deep-rooted thought inside our head: "I don't dare to be different from others, I'd better be the same as others."

So, we want to show our uniqueness, but we are afraid to be different from others.

I'm not just talking about everyone here, but all of us young people, and I hope you start telling yourself today, "I'm not afraid to be different from others anymore, let's just be different.

Then I thought that our education is in fact to help each person to find what makes him different from others, and to encourage him to pursue individuality, or even difference, or even uniqueness.

So, this is an important statement: "You should not be afraid to be different from others, because originally you are different from others." Because you've never been the same as anyone else. You've never been normal either, and you don't even need to be normal.

Every one of you, including many college students nowadays, is very confused because many external conditions speak to them, they want to show their individuality and creativity, they want very much to be seen by others, and they want very much to present their uniqueness.

But then we have a past deep-rooted thought inside our head: "I don't dare to be different from others, I'd better be the same as others."

So, we want to show our uniqueness, but we are afraid to be different from others

I'm not just talking about everyone here, but all of us young people, and I want you to start telling yourself today, "I'm not afraid to be different from others anymore, let's be different if I'm not."

Before, I wanted to establish a social standard, a standard of commonality, a standard of consistency with others. However, the so-called standardization, socialization, and general standards are really for us to use as a reference.

Especially nowadays, the whole society is changing, the whole situation is changing, and it is no longer possible to face the way of thinking that we used to emphasize standardization, objectification, and generalization because you can't even find a general standard. Because everyone has to take the path of their uniqueness.

Here, I have to ask you, "Have you embarked on your path of uniqueness?" And this uniqueness is because you are a bee, you are a spider, you are a butterfly, you are on your path of uniqueness because of your strengths, your characteristics, especially nowadays, all walks of life are pursuing this thing.

For example, everyone used to wear the same color and style of clothes, but now it is not the same, a hundred flowers are blooming.

Now everyone has to show their uniqueness and individuality, and I hope everyone tells themselves in their hearts, "I'm not afraid that I'm not the same as others anymore." Because I just said that you will be afraid because in the past we used to say that if you are different from others, it means that you are not normal

Like one of my classmates' daughters told me that she stopped reading halfway through the book. Then I asked her, "Why didn't you graduate from college?" She said, "I didn't have to graduate!" I was stunned by this answer. She said she went to college to learn what she wanted to learn; she didn't want to graduate, she just wanted to take the credits she wanted. She was going to college to make friends, to get to know herself there.

But like us before, of course, we have to graduate when we get into college, what are you doing in college if you don't graduate? And she said, "I came in to learn something, where am I going to graduate?" So, some ideas and concepts like this will become more and more common in the future.

What I want to say is that when each person finds their uniqueness, you will find your value.

If you don't open up your uniqueness and individuality, you won't have inspiration and intuition because you will worry that you are different from others. Your inspiration and intuition are actually going to lead you down your path in life, and that path is one that only you can take, and others can't necessarily take it yet.

Intuition and inspiration can lead each person on their unique path in life. But usually, we have no confidence in ourselves. When you start to have confidence in yourself, you won't worry that you're not like everyone else.

It's when you have a concept coming in that you want to say, "I'm going to try to implement it and see, I'm going to try to create it and see." If our confidence in ourselves is not enough, we usually you are afraid to be different from others.

However, I always tell people that no matter whether it's the concept of mind and body or the future of humanity, it must find its uniqueness and individuality, and such a person will come out of his future.

values
Like

About the Creator

Brze Vecchi

Don't strive to be a success, strive to be a person of value.

Reader insights

Be the first to share your insights about this piece.

How does it work?

Add your insights

Comments

There are no comments for this story

Be the first to respond and start the conversation.

Sign in to comment

    Find us on social media

    Miscellaneous links

    • Explore
    • Contact
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms of Use
    • Support

    © 2024 Creatd, Inc. All Rights Reserved.