Children with these personality traits, or grow up to be very good

Modern parents invest a lot of time, energy, and money in their children's education, which is a perfect example of what is meant by "no poorer than education, no harder than children". Whether this is desirable or not, most parents neglect the development of their children's character and perseverance.

Too much attention to learning is sometimes not good, but will make the child become a "learning machine". In addition to good grades, their self-care skills, as well as hands-on and resilience are not very strong. If they don't do well on their exams one day, it's hard to imagine if these children can withstand these hardships.

Of course, children who grow up to be successful do not always have excellent grades. Let's just say that good or bad grades can give a child more options, but they can't determine their future. Oftentimes, the qualities of excellence are more important.

Future promising children, often have six characteristics

1, good execution, high efficiency

"Execution", and "efficiency" is one of the abilities that adults are valued by their bosses in the workplace. Execution is not only a mandatory course for adults, but also children, parents think that children are still too young to talk about execution for fear that children do not understand, thinking that it is too late to start training children's execution when they grow up, it will also be easier to train. By then, the child may have already developed the habit of procrastination.

The best time to develop good habits is before the age of six. At this time, the child's attention, listening to instructions, regulate emotions, are more conducive to the development of children's executive power.

2, calm and collected in case of problems

Children will have such performances, usually do exercises or tests, and the results are particularly good, but to the examination results in general; some children in the practice of dance, are often praised by the teacher, but performance on stage is particularly easy to get out of the situation, not as good as the usual practice of children in general.

Such performance of the child is not calm enough, panic in case of a situation, the mental quality is poor. However, if you want to achieve success, you must have strong mental qualities, be calm and composed when things go wrong, to have a good mentality.

3, good thinking, have an opinion

Chinese parents educate their children in two extremes, one is to force their children to learn, ignoring their interests, and the other is to follow their children's opinions and ideas, without guidance. Being assertive in this context means cultivating independent thinking and opinions in children, and having the ability to perceive and analyze things.

Good thinking, opinionated children, are more conducive to the formation of correct and healthy values, outlook on life, and worldview.

4、Have a resilient character

Experiencing setbacks is one of life's mandatory courses, some people encounter a little setback, and will become very decadent, very pessimistic, feeling like the sky is falling; while some people will find no matter what kind of things they encountered, he is always smiling, saying "the way is always more than the difficulty".

When the child has the character of perseverance, he will become positive, optimistic, confident, and can withstand setbacks.

5、Good control of emotions

Emotions" can be said to be a person's symbol, we often in interpersonal communication with each other and ourselves labeled with a variety of emotions, such as "grumpy", "irritable", "calm and stable" and so on. "No one likes to get along with a person who can't control his emotions and is "moody".

People who are good at controlling their emotions are calm, stable, gentle, and strong, and when getting along with people, give people a sense of security and comfort, so that people are friends or partners, we will like it.

6、Cultivate the spirit of hard work and endurance

Nowadays, many children are the only child in the family, the treasure of all the people in the family, at home even housework is not willing to let the child's hands do, which leads to the child's hands and survival ability poor. The family can tolerate the child, but the child will find it difficult to integrate and adapt after entering society, causing more blow and damage to the child's psyche.

Cultivating a child's spirit of hard work and endurance will allow him to march forward in life without flinching when things go wrong, one step at a time and calmly.

Among the above six traits, children who learn one of them before the age of six are very promising and will become better and better in the future. At the same time, parents will find that these traits are all connected, and after a child learns one of them, other traits will gradually emerge as well.

If these traits are not yet present in the child, parents do not need to be overly anxious and do not make premature judgments or labels about the child. Parents can consciously and purposefully train their children to master these abilities in their daily lives and refine their qualities to grow into good people.

Family environment and education play a vital role in children's growth. Before they start school, all the knowledge and abilities they learn come from their families and parents. A warm family environment will make children feel more secure; good family education can shape children's good character.