Children who often talk about the following words are likely to be "depressed" at home

Some time ago, the company manager resigned, and many people feel incredible. Because this female manager is particularly driven, treats the work very seriously. Listen to what the old staff said, the female manager before the water broke is still in the meeting, until the work stroke clear, only to go to the hospital to give birth to a baby. Not a week after the birth of a baby, back to work, and everyone admires her. But not close, because she is very strict, and even a little impersonal.

After the birth of a baby, the manager has been busy with work, giving little to the family. What's more, the manager's requirements for her son are very strict, every test must be 95 points or more. If you do not reach it, you have to be criticized. The child is already timid, coupled with the high demands of parents, the mood is not cathartic, and slowly developed a tendency to depression. The reason why the manager resigned is that the child could not think, and was saved by passers-by to pick up a life.

The female manager then realized the child's problem, so she resolutely resigned and decided to take care of the child full time. After all, a career is no more important than children. In recent years, the number of depressed people is rapidly increasing, and there is also a trend of younger age. Parents should not only focus on their children's performance but also pay a lot of attention to mental health. The following words often hang in the mouth of the child, easy to be "depressed" to find the door, and parents do not foolishly do not know.

"I shouldn't be in this world"

If a child often says "I shouldn't be in this world," parents should be alert. Because children who say this often have the urge to escape from reality. When they encounter problems, instead of thinking about how to solve them, they run away. At the end of the day, it is self-loathing, if only I had not come into this world. When they say this, their inner thought is "I suck, why do people have to live, I should not have come to this world."

And the deeper thought is "Help me, I need help." So when parents hear their children say such things, they should not sit back and do nothing.

"I'm stupid, I can't do anything right."

Some parents are strange in that when they teach their children, they seek not to be equal with them, but to make them afraid of themselves. When the child is not afraid, they also ask back, "Why aren't you afraid of me?" But honestly, to make a child fear his parents internally is a failure of the parents.

Because of this fear, puts a lot of pressure on the child. When parents criticize their children, the severity of their criticism is greater than the wrongdoing itself. At this point, some children break down and say, "I'm stupid, I can't do anything right. It's a simple phrase, but every time the child says it, he or she is giving up on themselves.

"What's the point of being alive? It's better to be so."

Some children often talk about words like "si" and feel that it is meaningless to live. Parents do not care, they will miss the opportunity to make up for their children. They say this phrase is a silent cry for help, wanting their parents to realize the problems that occur. So when a child is constantly talking about it and is pessimistic about school and life, parents should never ignore it.

Sometimes, I think it's ridiculous for us as parents to ask our children to work hard all day long, but how much effort do we put in? I also hope that parents can understand that even the best academic performance is not worth the peace and happiness of the child, but a healthy mind.