All the aggression, is another kind of growth

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In life, it is inevitable to suffer all kinds of aggression.

Sometimes, it is misunderstood, obviously want to explain, but how can not explain, say more than they seem boring?

Sometimes, is their own careless mistakes, and want to find opportunities to make up, but found that how to do them can not make others satisfied.

Sometimes, their efforts for a long time, still can not achieve the desired results. Want to give up, but not willing. Want to persist, but full of heartache.

All these things will make you feel aggrieved. That feeling, like a thorn in the throat, can not be pulled out, and can not swallow.

Over time, the heart will inevitably have a variety of emotions. Sad, sad, angry ...... like a dark cloud over their heads, lingering.

I would like to talk about it, find someone who can understand me, and tell me all the bitterness in my heart. However, such a person, how difficult to find.

If you meet one, you are lucky. The pain and grievances, telling the truth, and saying it, the inner emotions will slowly ease up.

But most of the time, such a person, can not be found. The world is full of people, everyone is running for their future, who is willing to stop and listen to your indifferent ramblings?

"Only people with similar souls have the empathy to see the ebb and flow of the human world; only people with similar souls can see the beauty hidden deep inside each other."

Yes, only people with similar souls can read your vulnerability, soothe your grievances, and accompany you through this journey to the trough.

If you meet such a person, please be sure to cherish it. If you do not meet, it does not matter. You have to learn to be strong by yourself, many things always have to fight silently by yourself.

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The fact is that you can't say that you've got a lot of things to say.

In life, everyone will encounter a variety of difficulties and a variety of grievances. When we can not relieve these grievances, resentment will arise.

However, resentment is not only unhelpful but also depletes one's energy. When a person is in long-term pain from depression, confusion, and anxiety, these negative emotions will consume him or her.

The only person who can pull yourself out of the mire is you. Instead of complaining, you should change. Change your thinking and perception, jump out of the prison of negative emotions, and stand in a higher perspective to see the problem.

So what if you are misunderstood? You can't expect everyone to understand, and you can't make all people happy with you.

When you care more about what other people think, the easier it is to be kidnapped by other people's opinions. You will be more and more pleasing to others, condescending, hoping to gain confidence by getting the approval of others.

But real confidence comes from your strength. When your heart is strong enough, you won't cling to the comments of others. Even when others criticize you and denigrate you, you can accept it openly. Acceptance, in itself, is a kind of strength.

Allow others' comments, but also accept your imperfections. In this way, you can truly live yourself and gain inner energy.

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The best state of life is to have something to look forward to, something to pursue. It's not about craving for material pleasures or relying on the help of others.

Rather, you are on the road to pursuing your dreams every day, with peers, encouragement, and supporters. Of course, there are also mockers and critics.

But you won't let this cause you to doubt yourself and deny yourself. At any time, no matter what kind of situation you go through, always keep your feet on the ground and work towards your dream!

You will find that once the aggravation is not worth mentioning, the pain transformed into a stronger self.

Our whole life, we are learning to grow. The aggression swallowed, the long out will be open-minded and open-minded wisdom.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. The fact is that you can find a lot of people to talk to, so you can heal yourself.