"after seven years as a mother, I sat in an ambulance for the first time last night." I hope you don't get any of these angry diseases.

"what's going on? why is there an ambulance?"

At more than 12 o'clock in the morning, several cold sirens suddenly sounded in the sleeping community, and the owners exploded instantly.

"it's scary. Someone had an accident in the middle of the night."

"do you still let people sleep?"

"is there anyone well informed? go and find out what's going on."

Everyone is guessing, but no one knows the truth.

After a long time, someone finally revealed:

A young mother in the next building was so angry that she fainted when she was helping her son with his homework. the family was frightened and called 120 quickly.

Gee, there is a lot of this kind of news. I didn't expect the same thing to happen around me.

I can't help feeling: it's so hard to be a parent these days!

Go to work under great pressure, every day is fast-paced; after work, but also to develop 18 martial arts, to meet the various needs of children.

If it's okay to have an "angel baby", you're afraid that you're raising an "immortal beast". Professional exasperation is not worth your life.

In real life, how many parents are really "angry" by their children and get sick!

Do you have any of these diseases that have been "angry"?

It is not a unique instance, but has its counterpart.

A few days ago, when a father was helping his child with his homework in Tangshan, Hebei Province, he thought it was a piece of cake, but as a result, he also sent himself to the emergency room.

The handsome seven-foot man was defeated by a thin exercise book and was discharged after 20 hours of treatment.

Looking at the father lying in the hospital bed groaning in pain, my mother was helpless and speechless, so she could only "laugh" my father's bearing capacity was too poor.

People have experienced that sometimes as soon as they educate their children, it is difficult to control their emotions and be calm.

When I get angry all my life, my chest is like a fire burning and blocking. I can't swallow it. I have to send it out.

As a result, all kinds of "diseases" came to us.

For example--.

1. Chest tightness and shortness of breath.

When people are angry, they become short of breath and are prone to hyperventilation.

If it is serious, there will be respiratory alkalosis, chest tightness, shortness of breath, lip numbness, trance and other abnormal conditions.

This is because when angry, a large amount of blood rushes to the brain and face, reducing the blood supply to the heart and causing myocardial ischemia.

In order to meet the needs of the body, the heart can only double its work, resulting in a more irregular heartbeat.

2. Myocardial infarction.

Last year, a study in the European Heart Journal showed that anger is indeed an important cause of myocardial infarction and coronary heart disease.

Researchers at the Technical University of Munich in Germany also conducted experiments on 35 post-match fans and mice who experienced acute mental stress. The results also showed that:

Acute mental stress (such as anger, anger, etc.) can lead to the release of the stress hormone norepinephrine, which promotes the migration of inflammatory white blood cells to the arteries, which can increase the risk of plaque loss and myocardial infarction once the arteries have atherosclerotic plaques.

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3. Mammary gland hyperplasia.

When angry, all kinds of glands in the human body will be stimulated, and glands in an unstable environment will be forced to change the secretion of hormones, thus forming a disorder of the endocrine system in the human body.

The most common changes are abnormal changes in estrogen, progesterone, insulin, and glucose.

A study in China also points out that:

Women in long-term anger or stress, will be more likely to cause irregular menstruation, breast nodules, ovarian cysts and other problems.

Headache, back pain, stomachache.

Clinical proof: people in anger will cause sympathetic excitement, and secrete a substance called "catecholamine".

These act directly on the heart and blood vessels.

Once the heart rate increases and causes vasoconstriction, it is easy to have headaches, back pain and other symptoms.

And gastrointestinal blood flow decreased, peristalsis slowed down, not only poor appetite will also appear stomachache abnormal performance, serious words will also cause gastric ulcers.

Physical illness is all related to "bad mood".

Dr. Hai Lan, a famous psychologist, wrote this sentence:

"emotion determines a person's health, and disease is a physical cry in which negative emotions are not resolved."

Many physical problems have a lot to do with negative emotions.

I think of a relative in my hometown.

The mother of her second child, in her 40s, had ordinary family conditions. when she first got married, her husband suddenly suffered from tuberculosis and lost all her ancestral house and dowry.

When she first became a woman, she became depressed and depressed because of this misfortune.

Who knows that her mother-in-law has an eccentric personality, disrelishing this and that all day, saying that she is not good at cooking and blaming her for not being able to keep the house.

She gave birth to a pair of children. Although she was lively and lovely, she could not help venting her grievances against her husband and mother-in-law on the children.

Sometimes when the child is playing, she puts up her face and yells, blaming the child for being playful and inconsiderate of her, so hurry up to help.

The accumulated depression, dissatisfaction and anger finally broke out in her.

Three years ago, she was diagnosed with breast cancer and was forced to have her left breast removed.

When she finally recovered and was discharged from the hospital, the doctor told her to stop being "angry" and relax.

As a result, during the rebellious period of her son last year, she insisted on going to technical school and coming out to work early. She was so angry that she induced breast cancer again.

This time the situation is even more serious, not only to remove the other side of the breast, but also chemotherapy for a long time.

When I visited her again during the Spring Festival this year, she also got hyperthyroidism.

Whenever I think of her situation, I really feel sorry for her: it is true that life is difficult and the children are not easy to manage, but as parents, no matter how angry they are, they will only hurt themselves more.

There is a saying in "Psychological injury, physical knowledge":

"the body is the map of everyone's mind, and all our mental states, sooner or later, deep or shallow, will be reflected in the body."

In today's educational environment, parents are facing far more severe challenges than before, and the requirements are constantly changing.

If you always accumulate bad emotions in your heart, or allow tension, anxiety, and anger to occupy your life, you will sooner or later crush your body and force yourself into a more difficult situation.

The body is like a car dashboard with a series of emergency warning lights. When you are in a bad mood and full of negative energy, it will naturally show a red light.

Ignore it, you can get sick at any time.

To take care of your emotions is to take good care of your health.

Psychological experts say that whether a person is healthy or not is the result of physical and mental balance and harmonious interpersonal relationships.

It is necessary to have a healthy body and a harmonious parent-child relationship.