A person's greatest misfortune, not poverty, but not accumulating virtue

Born as human beings, our greatest misfortune is not poverty, but not accumulating virtue.

Many of the things that offend people and the mistakes they make are all piled up in their mouths. Sometimes, we feel that the family's life is difficult, often the root cause is the disaster of the mouth.

When it comes to people, do not try to be quick to speak, but should think clearly and understand before starting to export.

So what words should not be said out loud?

First, is the family dispute.

As the saying goes: family shame should not be exposed. But some people like to say all the right and wrong inside the home. Let everyone you know know the situation inside your home, and get along with people without boundaries.

The most important thing is that the family's scandal will not be able to get the sympathy of others, but only make others laugh and despise your family's talking points.

A person's mouth is a person's best feng shui, the more broken your mouth, the more miscellaneous things to say, the worse it will be.

Sometimes we feel that the world is indifferent, the world looks down on them, not precisely because of poverty, but because of the mouth, a mouth that will say anything, more than poverty makes people feel unfortunate.

Second, is the scandal of the child.

I believe that every parent wants their children to get better and better, and they also want them to grow up healthy.

But some parents like to tell their children's scandals and embarrassments to others in the form of jokes, without any consideration for their children's self-esteem.

You will be able to tell your child these things, and that person will then tell his child to go to school, how your child should live with himself, the light just to be taken some nicknames, heavy children will always be depressed, and even towards depression, autism.

I have even encountered children who committed suicide because of this, the children are too young, their minds are repressed for a long time, parents say a long time, they will inevitably go to a dead end, do not because of a broken mouth, let a family fall apart.

We, adults, are still because of good face, there is a shame to feel embarrassed about some things, let alone children.

Don't let your children hate you, we can be poor, but not without virtue.

Third, your money.

Many people, as soon as they earn money like to go out and show off, I have to say, this is asking for trouble.

You have money, relatives looking for you to borrow money, you do not help, he will say you are stingy, rich is not used to lend them for emergencies. You do not have money, they will not lend you, they will say their family is also poor, the family's money privacy hidden tightly.

Don't show off because you have money, and don't complain because you don't have money. Money is the easiest thing in the world to offend people, and if you don't handle it well, you're not the right person inside or out.

So about money matters, no matter what, the mouth should be tightly closed.

Do not think to show off the money they earn, you will never know, you show off the heart of the one thinking about what, one does not pay attention, will get into trouble, do not move, do not show money, is the best way to protect themselves.

Finally, a person's mouth, is a person's best feng shui, want to live well, we must control the mouth.

Do not say anything to the outside, your family is yours, your days are your own should live, your future, you have to rely on your own business.

Say it or don't say it, you have to do all this yourself.

Don't let a little bit of vanity lead things to yourself.

Being clear, not moving, and not showing your money is the best way for a person to live.