Bad habits
On survival.
On survival. The question of existence still haunts me in the silence of the stillness that loneliness brings with it. To be or not to be, to exist in the coexistence of dualistic forces, to dance with the uncertainty or to play it along the periphery, what I hold certain, has always questioned me, bemoaned me. Truth be told, I beheld the cry for help when its absence called in silent whispers around the blanket of dwelling and absconded its abundant presence over me. There is a painting that traces the bits of serenity in my life, the colors that adorn the hues of the almighty run deep through the veins of my soul to find the brevity of pain. I glance at the picture of Lord Krishna, reminiscing the days that passed by. Darkness sets its sterility in the brimming light of today, as the dawn of today paints itself in the colours of the dusk of yesterday.
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
Querencia- The place where I draw my strength.
Querencia- The place where I draw my strength. To be or not to be, to thrive or just be merely alive to survive, is a question I have often pondered upon. What does being alive mean? Does it mean extrapolating in the exteriors of materialistic drawls, of forging in an existence that is concealed with the perfectionism of having it all?
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
confession
Sometimes I really wanna run away and start over and just not tell anyone. I love my husband. I do. I love my in laws, I love my life. Or at least I loved it. When my husband started developing a social media addiction, it turned into him secretly snap chatting random women. As someone who wanted marriage to be the one safe thing I’ve had in my life, This hit so hard. Honestly? It feels like after we got married he felt like he could stop trying. It’s so hard on my spirit. I have poured myself into him and worked so hard to build the life I’m living. But I had dreams too. I was a girl once. who only had to be young and pretty. I have always been obsessed with geology,i have begged him to go rock hounding with me a million times. Nope. Singing is another passion of mine and has been a big part of my life. I’ll listen to him talk about guitar for hours but when I start up about singing, he often gets distracted and trails off into a different subject. In a lot of ways I feel invisible in my own marriage/life. I have no family. nobody who cares. I often fantasize about running away to a different country or somewhere across the states, and just healing. I am chronically ill though and my husband pays most of the bills so it’s not really in the cards for me until I get some money stacked. For now it’s just a fantasy. Just wanted to get that off my chest. I feel so wound up all the time.
By sagar dhital2 years ago in Confessions
Fear
I woke up and saw that my friend Charlie is starting a travelling blog and I’m jealous. I’m jealous because she is 1, going away and travelling which I would love to do if I had the money and no cares / worries etc and 2, because she has a reason for a blog…!
By Matthew Grantham2 years ago in Confessions
My Journey to Self Acceptance
Growing up I felt like I was stuck in a body that didn't belong to me. Acne covered my face, chest, and back leaving me feeling ashamed, unappealing, and undeserving. To be honest I despised my appearance. It was not teenage awkwardness, I battled daily battle with my self-confidence. Now as a mother watching my daughters navigate their skin issues brings back memories of my struggles. My biggest wish is that they will not have to face the insecurities I did. I hope that they will learn to accept themselves, appreciate their skin, and understand that true beauty goes beyond surface impressions but lies, in the depths of one's character.
By Sonia McKoy2 years ago in Confessions
A Critical Moment in Gaza: Blinken's Plea for Ceasefire Talks.
The Gaza Strip, a coastal region in the Middle East, has been a focal point of conflict for decades. The ongoing tensions between Israel and Palestine have resulted in countless lives lost, families displaced, and a region in perpetual turmoil. Amidst this chaos, a glimmer of hope has emerged in the form of ceasefire talks, facilitated by Egyptian mediators. US Secretary of State Antony Blinken has weighed in on the situation, emphasizing that the current negotiations may be the last opportunity for a hostage deal. The Gaza conflict is a complex issue, with deep-rooted historical, political, and social factors at play. The region has been a point of contention between Israel and Palestine, with both sides claiming sovereignty over the land. The situation has been further complicated by the rise of militant groups, such as Hamas, which has been accused of launching attacks on Israeli soil. Despite the challenges, the ceasefire talks offer a beacon of hope for the people of Gaza. The negotiations, which have been ongoing for several weeks, aim to secure a lasting peace in the region. However, the talks are fragile, and the slightest misstep could derail the entire process. Blinken's statement highlights the urgency of the situation. "This may be the last opportunity for a hostage deal," he said. "We urge all parties to take this opportunity seriously and to work towards a ceasefire." The US Secretary of State's words carry significant weight, emphasizing the importance of seizing the moment. The hostage situation is a critical aspect of the conflict. Both Israel and Palestine have detained citizens of the opposing side, often under unclear circumstances. The release of these hostages is a contentious issue, with both sides demanding the liberation of their respective citizens. The Egyptian mediators have been working tirelessly to bring the parties together, facilitating dialogue and compromise. Their efforts have been met with cautious optimism, as both sides have made concessions in the hopes of reaching a deal. However, the path forward is fraught with obstacles. The issue of hostages remains a significant sticking point, with neither side willing to budge. Israel demands the release of its citizens, while Palestine insists on the liberation of its own people. Despite these challenges, the international community remains hopeful. The ceasefire talks offer a unique opportunity for peace in the region, and the world is watching with bated breath. The consequences of failure are dire. If the talks collapse, the situation in Gaza could deteriorate further, leading to more violence, displacement, and suffering. The region would be plunged into darkness, with no end in sight to the conflict. On the other hand, if a deal is reached, it could mark a significant turning point in the Gaza conflict. A ceasefire would bring much-needed relief to the people of Gaza, who have endured unimaginable suffering. The release of hostages would reunite families, bringing joy and closure to those who have waited anxiously for news of their loved ones. As the talks continue, the world holds its breath. The situation in Gaza is precarious, and the outcome of the negotiations is far from certain. However, one thing is clear: the international community must continue to support the ceasefire talks, urging all parties to work towards a lasting peace. In conclusion, the Gaza conflict is a complex issue, with deep-rooted historical, political, and social factors at play. The ceasefire talks offer a glimmer of hope, but the situation is fragile, and the consequences of failure are dire. Blinken's plea for negotiations highlights the urgency of the situation, emphasizing the need for all parties to seize the moment. The world watches with bated breath, hoping for a peaceful resolution to the conflict. Only through dialogue and compromise can a lasting peace be achieved in the region.
By Muhammad Ahmad2 years ago in Confessions
An ode to imposter syndrome
An ode to imposter syndrome Self-worth and self-belief are the two sides of the same coin. We all have seeds of self-doubt planted within us, either from our inner limiting beliefs, trauma or negative projections of other people’s opinions. It is hilarious how we place our self-esteem in the hands of others with ease and then find ourselves in the labyrinth of negative perceptions of ourselves or dwindling confidence in our abilities. Life is a paradox, to heal you must be hurt, amid the most massive of pain and breakdown lies the most eminent breakthrough you would ever receive. If you want confidence and faith in your abilities, you must swim through the turbulent ocean of self-doubt and insecurity.
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
Letting Go: How Detachment Can Help You Heal Toxic Relationships
Letting Go: How Detachment Can Help You Heal Toxic Relationships Many individuals in the self-help and dating advice community often emphasize the importance of independence, but there is a disconnect between societal norms and scientific evidence. Building strong emotional connections with others has been shown to result in increased levels of happiness, success, and overall well-being in individuals' lives. Some individuals offer self-help and dating advice and believe in the importance of being independent. Building strong emotional connections with others has been shown to increase happiness, effectiveness, and overall stability in life.
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
Secure Attachment Style - FINALLY!!!. Content Warning.
Note: I use the word relationship throughout this article. In the way I am using this word, take it to mean any kind of interaction with other people whether as co-workers, friends, family, acquaintances, or professionals.
By Adora Hooper2 years ago in Confessions
How Our Society Glorifies Narcissists . AI-Generated.
In recent years, the term "narcissism" has become a buzzword in both psychological discussions and everyday conversations. But beyond its clinical definition, narcissism has found a peculiar place in our society—often being glorified and even rewarded. This cultural phenomenon raises important questions about the values we hold and the behaviors we encourage.
By real Jema2 years ago in Confessions
The Quest for being right
You really have no idea how desperate most people are to be right all the time. It’s quite amazing!, they’ll go as far as denying reality itself if that means they can be right in the end. This yearning for validation can shape a person’s judgment and fundamentally influence their overall worldview. Deep down, the need to be right comes from a drive for certainty and self-assurance. Being right is comforting, reassuring, and provides an internal balance. Humans always seek for validation from other humans, this builds up their assurance, ego and happiness, it makes up for the flaws they might have while satisfying their biases.
By real Jema2 years ago in Confessions
