Life is won in harmony, defeated in temper, achievement in generosity

In life, nine times out of ten, it is not satisfactory. There are always all kinds of annoying things that make you anxious, make you angry and make you bitter.

Everyone has a temper, but losing your temper can not solve any trouble and problems, on the contrary, it will only make things worse and worse.

As the saying goes: deal with the world easy to add peace and temper, do not be anxious to grind temper, the sea to raise the atmosphere.

Life is like a practice, the road ahead is bumpy and bumpy, potholes, we can not foresee the first solution, can only adjust their mindset.

More harmony, more atmosphere, less temper, all things will develop in the direction we expect, life will be more colorful.

When interacting with people, the only way to get along well with others is to be sincere and honest.

Once we went to visit a reclusive old man in a remote mountain village. On the way, we met a little brother in a luxury car, he saw our car, not as good as his car, he deliberately kept changing lanes, just do not let the road. The winding mountain road caused our car to kiss with the rocks one after another. I hate to give him a beating. I don't want to drive much farther, his car suddenly blew a tire, and still two, it's a miracle. In the wilderness of the deserted mountains, there is no cell phone signal. Waiting for our car to catch up, look at us, immediately repentant, very sincere apologies to us.

We accepted his apology and said calmly, "It's okay, everyone gets upset when they go out. And also towed his car to the repair shop.

Many times, tolerance is not the same as indulgence, kindness does not mean weakness, to welcome people with peace is also a life wisdom. As the saying goes: peace of mind is less strife, smile to treat people with more friends.

Good temper. It is the help of life, bad temper, is the resistance of your life.

The day before yesterday, I sent my children to school to the crossroads. Just in time for the traffic lights to malfunction. In order to grab time, two cars in opposite directions do not give way to each other, resulting in two cars are different degrees of injury.

Bad temper is a double-edged sword, in stabbing others, but also hurt themselves. So, be sure to control your temper. In the face of bad things, let yourself retain three points of calm and seven points of reason, everything look lighter, less to say hurtful words, less to do regret, so as to avoid both sides cause harm. Only when you learn to let go of your temper can you be the master of your life and meet a better tomorrow.

Su Dongpo and Buddha Yin were good friends. Su Dongpo considered himself a scholar, so he naturally looked down on Buddha Yin, and once after the two had a drink, Su Dongpo was dishonest again and wanted to take advantage of Buddha Yin. He said to Buddha Yin: In your wise eyes, what do I look like? Buddha Yin praised: I think you look like a Buddha. Su Dongpo was very happy, but he shifted the question to Buddha Yin and mocked him:Do you want to know what I see you like? Just like a piece of shit! After saying this and laughing, Buddha Yin just laughed and did not seem to be angry. This incident reached the ears of Su Dongpo's sister, Su Xiaomei, who said to his brother; Just this enlightenment you are still participating in Zen! Buddhism is about the state of mind, Buddha Yin look at you like a Buddha, that is his heart has Buddha, and you look at him like a piece of shit, that is your own heart has shit. After hearing this joke, Su Dongpo froze and understood the reason why Buddha Yin laughed without saying anything, and was immediately ashamed.

It is often said that: the sky is big enough to accommodate the vast universe and the sea of stars, the earth is big enough to support the spirits of all things, the sea is big enough. Can raise a hundred rivers flowing, people have atmosphere, then the world and the sea between the heart and chest.

Atmosphere is a kind of temperament, pattern, is also a kind of connotation for people in the world. Anyone who has an atmosphere, must be broad-minded, open-minded and generous, can accept others with a tolerant attitude, tolerate people not allowed. In this way, you can accumulate more luck, have more opportunities, so that the road of life more and more broad.