How A “Fat” Narcissist Tried To Make Me Miserable Just Because I Am Happier Than She Is

I’ve always thought that all overweight people are as nice as Sherman Klump from Nutty Professor. Well, I was wrong. There are some real nasty “fat ” people out there.

Let me tell you a story about a fat Louise. Fat Louise was always chubby and she had the biggest appetite, far bigger than other narcissists. Fat Louise had an appetite for vulnerable men.

Fat Loise usually stalked her prey in cafes, bars and dinners. She was chatty, she had that mysterious “charm” that just made other people open up to her easily. It was so too easy to fall into Fat Louise arms, she was fluffy like a teddy bear — everyone wanted a hug.

One day, Fat Louise had her eyes on one man, he had a great “supply” potential — he would provide for her and obey her. He would bring her doughnuts in the middle of the night and put their baby to bed, he would drive her to her doctor's appointment when she was “busy” with her nonsense.

So fat Louise put on her best act and approached the man.

The man liked someone else though. Fat Louise didn’t like that — she just so wanted to be “admired” and “served” by this man. Another woman drew attention more than Louise though.

So what does fat Louise do? She acts as a narcissist would — she erupts in a rage.

Fat Louise gets angry, frustrated and overwhelmed with bitterness. She sets it her goal to eliminate this new lady. So she decides to be nice to her, only to spread rumours about her which are not true and cause trouble. Fat Louise’s lies are exposed as all narcissists lies are, but she has made some irreversible damage — to herself mostly.

I've learned that people like fat Louise exist. Look, I am not body shaming fat or obese women, I am pointing out that narcissists come in all shapes and forms. Some people often assume that narcissists are “good-looking”. Well not always, there are a lot of covert malignant female narcissists, that are hiding behind the fat rolls.

My fat narcissist was very angry with me. The moment I met her, I would have never thought that she is such an angry person. She always smiled, repeated “thank you” and “please” and seemed so polite. She sent me messages with hugs and kisses emojis.

I should have known that she was “out of date”.

My fat narcissist was consumed by jealousy. She was insecure deep down, because who else would wish to hurt other people that did nothing to them?

My fat narcissist wished me misery and rather than focusing on improving her own life she focused on destroying mine. Too bad, she destroyed her own life. I used to offer help to this person — well guess what, now you are on your own.

My fat narcissist was just frustrated. My fat narcissist has a very mundane existence: repetitive and mindless job, lack of physical activity, just in simple words a very boring and unadventurous life. She watches youtube on replay, eats bad food and reads online stories while on the toilet — she has an upset stomach because of all the disgusting amount of unhealthy food that she consumes and nasty comments she leaves.

Why not change it?

My fat narcissist stays miserable. I used to sympathize with people like Fat Louise — not anymore. If Fat Louise can lie, cheat, bad-mouth, cause trouble, then Fat Louise can lose weight and change her behaviour. But no, change is too much of an effort for people like Fat Louise.

Change is impossible for narcissists.

These people continue doing things that don’t stimulate or invigorate the body or mind. They stay resentful and angry because they are not desired by anyone — nobody wants to be in a relationship with a narcissist.

They are bitter and resentful that they don’t get the blatant preferential treatment that other people do — people that have their own lives. Instead, they stay miserable and put little effort into anything productive, perhaps because they are so large and they feel like falling apart and they try to hold it together.

People like Fat Louise will never succeed in that. I have no empathy anymore for people like that, nor should you. Change is inevitable and should be embraced!

Thank you for reading and your support!

This article was originally published by me here.