Have ability and temper

It is an indisputable fact that all capable people have a temper. As the old saying goes, "an official has a big temper". I think that's the truth. If your ability is better than the people around you, control your temper and develop good personal conduct, I think it will be of great benefit to the growth of life.

Zhang Fei in the romance of the Three Kingdoms is a well-known hero. Because of his unparalleled martial arts ability, he has the classic legend of Changbanpo roaring, drinking back Cao Cao's millions of pursuers and scaring Cao Jun's general Xia Houjie to death. Because of his great ability and temper, he got out of control after drinking and beat his two generals violently, so that they held a grudge and killed Zhang Fei when he was drunk. Zhang Fei's death is a sigh. It's a pity that a generation of famous generals did not die in the battlefield of killing the enemy, but were cut off by their traitors and fled to the enemy country. If Zhang Fei's temper can be restrained, he won't lose his head in his sleep. Liu Bei, the leader of Shu, will not have the tragedy of burning the camp for 700 miles. The history of the three kingdoms may be interpreted in different versions.

Premier Zhou Enlai, an older generation of revolutionist in China, has always been famous for his gentleness, humility and kindness, and tolerance of humiliation. However, when he saw that some cadres did not have a strong sense of responsibility and did not work in place, he would also lose his temper with them.

One day in the 1950s, Zhou Enlai went to the airport to see off Cambodian leader Prince Sihanouk from Beijing. Luo Ruiqing, Liu Yalou and other senior generals also went to see him off. Some super fans are worried that they will not see off the super players at the airport because of the delay of seeing them off. At the airport, the host and guest smiled, shook hands, hugged and said goodbye... Everyone watched Sihanouk enter the cabin door. Before the cabin door was closed, Luo Ruiqing and Liu Yalou winked at each other and couldn't wait to walk to the gate of the airport. As soon as the generals saw someone taking the lead, they walked to the gate in twos and threes.

Zhou Enlai was standing with a spring face. Waiting for the plane to take off, he suddenly found that the surrounding atmosphere was abnormal. He looked back and his face changed greatly. But he immediately calmed his mood and said to the Secretary around him, "run and tell the airport guard that no one is allowed to let go and no one is allowed to leave. Call me back." www.52ycw. com

The generals came back with a word and a smile and stood behind Zhou Enlai. After the plane took off, Zhou Enlai turned around and shouted, "have you learned the infantry regulations?" Seeing Zhou Enlai's cold face, the generals immediately held their breath and stood at attention. "Which of the infantry regulations stipulates that you can leave if the prime minister doesn't leave?" what will people think before the guests leave and the airport is empty? Don't you know diplomatic etiquette? Well, I'll give you a lesson. " Zhou Enlai's voice was not high or low, his speech was not slow, and spoke of basic diplomatic etiquette: "according to diplomatic etiquette, the host should not only send the foreign guests on board, but also wait for the plane to take off, and the plane can't leave after taking off, because the plane has to circle over the airport and swing its wings..."

Zhou Enlai talked for 15 minutes. Then he raised his wrist to look at his watch and said slowly, "I know you are anxious to watch the football match. I stopped you and told you this truth. It's just that you can be impressed by watching less penalty kicks. Well, now let's go together and watch the half court game."

Zhou Enlai punished the impolite generals by watching less half court ball, which impressed the generals deeply.

From Premier Zhou, a revolutionary of the older generation, we realize that losing your temper is an instinct and controlling your temper is an ability. Whether we are cadres or ordinary employees, regardless of ability, we should treat emergencies at work with an ordinary heart, control our thoughts and emotions, and don't lose our temper recklessly, causing contradictions and even conflicts. When encountering unpleasant things, we should relax our mind, be kind to life, others and ourselves. If we want to achieve major events in life, we must have extraordinary endurance and endurance. The more we are wronged, the more we need to be calm and rational, so that we can overcome the difficulties we encounter and move smoothly to the other side of success.