"Nirvana"
"Nirvana" is a term from Sanskrit that refers to a state of liberation and freedom from suffering.
Todayโs the morning where, after a long time, I'm feeling like myself. So I just woke up and started writing this. There are lots of people in today's world crying over breakups, heartbreaks, and cheating. If we look at these things from a different perspective, for me, it is more about breaking my own heart and cheating myself. Why do I say this? If I tell you about myself, then I am a person who holds herself responsible for the things that happen. Whether it may be good or bad, things happen in the first place because I allow them.
Let's say I know a person, and he likes me and constantly tries to prove himself to impress me. Now here, it will be up to me to accept him or to reject him. Right? If I do accept him, then it is my own choice to believe the things he says and the promises he makes. And if I reject him, then it is also my choice not to believe his words. And in between all of these, if I fall in love, then that is also because of me. I was not able to handle or take control over my emotions. So we can see that whatever happens to me in our relationship, whether it be wrong or right, I am the whole and sole person to be blamed. What I do not support is cheating because it can't be justified. If one chooses to cheat on someone knowing about the feelings of the other person, it is purposeful.
So my point is, whatever happens, always keep yourself ready for it. If you want to get out of that emotional turmoil, then accept things as they are and let them go. There's no point in holding them back, hurting yourself, blaming the other person, and crying. Instead, analyze where you went wrong, where you failed to recognize a personality, and keep moving.
In life, we are often our own harshest critics, but recognizing our role in our own happiness can be empowering. By accepting responsibility and learning from our experiences, we can grow stronger and more resilient, ready to face whatever comes next with grace and wisdom.
Fly high.
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Nidhi Gohil
When life took a different turn, I grew distant from people and closer to books๐. Since then, I started writing my emotions instead of speaking them.๐
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Comments (2)
Well-wrought! I choose to pursue truth, knowing that I can never know it all, and allow happiness to follow me. It comes and goes, a transitory state, but meaning and purpose remain. It is as you say: we must be prepared to accept the consequences of our actions and learn from them!
We are indeed our own harshest critics. But that is also the way we grow and mature, when itโs done right. Great thoughts, Nidhi!